Mindless Act

[Speedy Claire]

Today I went to take a xmas wreath to my little boys grave.... when I got there I couldn`t believe it but his grave has been vandalised and his headstone wrecked! I just can`t believe how people can be so heartless, its quite obviously a child`s grave and has (or did have) teddy bears on the headstone. How can people be so cruel? Maybe one day they`ll lose somebody they love and think back to what they did and hopefully feel remorse!

[Bluepete]

There is nothing to say to make you feel better, just I'm so sorry to be part of the same species that can generate such mindless vandalism.
Big hugs from us all,:grouphug:

Pete'n'Val.

[G]

Shocking...dont even know what to say...really sorry to hear this :(:(

[Kinvig]

Jeez - I'm so sorry to hear this.

[andyb]

Thats disgusting, I just dont understand why people do things like this. It makes me so mad.

:grouphug:

[Keith1983]

Im really sorry to hear that people can do things like this it's disguisting.

[Dave The Rave]

Sorry to hear this. They will pay for it some day ...

[Luckypants]

So sorry to hear this Claire. Big hug :grouphug:

[Defender]

It cant be easy at this time of year and going to your boys grave and seeing it vandalised - well its beyond my comprehension.

Our thoughts are with you.

[fizzwheel]

My neice's grave was vandalised a while ago. It made me mad at the time and it really really upset my brother and his wife.

Words fail me to be able to describe the people that do this.

[Kate Moss]

How can anyone be so heartless. I don't think there is anything that anyone can say to make you feel better but hopefully the org hugs will help
:grouphug:

[Wideboy]

sicko's, those sort of people need their comeuppance but sadly they probably never will :(

[Rich]

Hearthless thugs, people like that don't have a clue do they. Really sorry to hear this has happened.

[Ace-T]

sicko's, those sort of people need their comeuppance but sadly they probably never will :(
Au contraire Blackadder... these people WILL get their comeuppance. :smt045 It may take some time, but they will do something in front of someone who will take it out of them big time, trust me on this.

In the meantime Claire, have some more of these :grouphug:.

Trace

[hovis]

claire, i cant even imagine how tough it is at this time of year for you, without idiots like this,

:kiss:

[Ed]

I don't understand this wickedness either. Just disgusting. I'm so sorry.

:grouphug:

[Lozzo]

Au contraire Blackadder... these people WILL get their comeuppance. :smt045 It may take some time, but they will do something in front of someone who will take it out of them big time, trust me on this.

In the meantime Claire, have some more of these :grouphug:.

Trace


Agreed, what goes around. comes around.

As a parent I can't imagine what it must feel like for you right now.

Have some hugs from me too.:grouphug:

[husky03]

lowest of the low-these ba$tards deserve flogging-can't imagine how you feel,my heart goes out to you,wish i could get my hands on scum who do this.

[Tartan Terror]

Mindless idiots that deserve everything they get.

Words can't say how sorry I am for you and your family. Have a hug :grouphug:

[tonyk]

i dont't know what to say....i'm so sad to even think that people would go this low.
I’m sure they made their parents proud of them……:smt038
………..
this sort of thing no one forgives. And they will have to account for their deeds.
........

hugs from all decent people for you.:grouphug:

[northwind]

I can't understand these at all... Well, doubly, I can't understand how anyone could do such a thing, and I can't understand why anyone would do it- what's in it for them? It's just mental. I've got nothing to offer but sympathy...

[Speedy Claire]

Wow!! can`t believe the number of replies to this..... believe me it has helped so much to read all your kind words and get so many hugs. Thanks guys you really have cheered me up a bit and I really appreciate it. I`ll have to wait now to see what the stonemasons say and if the damage can be repaired or if he needs a new headstone. Thanks again

[Lissa]

So very, very sorry to read this, Claire. Words almost fail me. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel.

[Pedrosa]

How terribly upsetting for you Claire. The perpetrators will themselves know what it is like to lose someone close to them one day,and maybe then they will reflect on this unforgiveable action.

[Tiger 55]

So sorry to hear bout this Claire. Hope these :grouphug: are helping.

[Airfix]

There is nothing to say to make you feel better, just I'm so sorry to be part of the same species that can generate such mindless vandalism.
Big hugs from us all,:grouphug:

Pete'n'Val.

Ditto they will be caught one day.:(

[Stig]

They will get what they deserve. One way or another, justice is always served in one form or another.

[Well Oiled]

That is truly awful, especially at this time of year. I'm not a violent person but I would gladly kick the cr*p out of someone who would do such a despicable thing to a child's grave. Heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.

[DoubleD]

Really sorry to hear about this, can't beleive *people* do things like this.

Big hugs :grouphug: for you and your family from Mr and Mrs DoubleD


* if you can call them people *

[Tomcat]

:grouphug:

[Spiderman]

More hugs from me too :grouphug: and i'm just sorry i wasnt there to dish out a bit of Spidey justice for you.

They're just scum, plain and simple so dont waste any brain energy thinking about them and what they did.

Just enjoy the warm :grouphug:s we're all sending to you :smt056

[TEC]

Yep mindless idiots :(

Have some more :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:s lass

[K]

Words fail me to be able to describe the people that do this.

Oh I can think of quite a few:mad: - but being a U-rated forum n all that.

There are few words that are of value, but my thoughts are with you.

[sv-robo]

really sorry to hear about this claire,its people like this who should be under a headstone not your son.

society has no place for bas****s like this and one day they WILL get their comuppance:hackedoff::mad:

[Welsh_Wizard]

I would set a trap, perhaps make a Ray Mears type hidey-hole and just wait...

[metalmonkey]

That is just horriable to happen any time of year espically christmas, with any luck justice will be served somehow as big ape said. Take care and enjoy xmas the best you can......:grouphug:

[melody]

Big hugs Claire :grouphug:

[Speedy Claire]

I really can`t thank you all enough... I just didn`t expect this many replies and believe me tho i`m having a good girly cry reading them all it truly does help. Another 3 graves were vandalised as well as Matthews and I can only hope that the other familes affected are receiving as much warmth and support as i`m receiving from you guys. I try not to wish bad on anyone but I do believe that "what goes around, comes around". Xmas was going to be quiet for me anyway and this has put more of a downer on things but I truly thank each and every one of you, you really have cheered me up x

[Defender]

Love to you Claire :)

:grouphug:

[Ping]

Sorry to hear this, it just defies all reason...

I hope the damage can be fixed.

:grouphug:

[Miss Alpinestarhero]

Thats terrible, Im really sorry to hear that. Some people are just disgusting. Whoever did it will get their come-uppence as Im a firm believer in "what goes around comes around"

Maria

[Stu]

Wishing you every strenth to see you through this and especially at this time of year. There's certainly more love being sent to you right now than this thoughtlessness by people not worthy of your concern.
be strong.
:grouphug:

[Biker Biggles]

Theres no answer to this.Some people are scum wherever you are,but most arent.

[Pedro68]

Claire, only just read this thread ... and ... well ... just wanna echo what everyone else has said ... scum, they'll get what they deserve one day ... and big BIG hugs for ya hun

:grouphug:

Pete

[easter]

im so sorry to hear that, people can be so cruel, and to a child makes it all the more sick. i also believe what goes around comes around. is it repairable?
i lost a child myself a few years ago, and i hang a little angel on my tree every year for my lost baby.
im really sorry for you xx

[Frank]

sorry to hear about this.Am going up north to visit my littlr lads grave in a few days and I will spare a thought for you .good luck hun

[Speedy Claire]

Many thanks and I`m so sorry to hear bout your loss both Easter and Gid. Hope xmas hasn`t been too painful a time for you and my thoughts are with you both :grouphug:

The stone mason went to have a look on Xmas Eve Easter and says that the plinth will have to be replaced but he can repair the scratches to the headstone and it`ll look as good as new.

[sv-robo]

good news claire,really happy to hear that its repairable:-D

[easter]

its lucky they can repair it. lets hope its as good as new soon

[markmoto]

keep your chin up speedy they will get whats coming to them someday!! ;-)

[Richie]

[-o<one day the scumbags will pay.
Love to you.
:grouphug: