View Full Version : Unusual Ideas for a date
Pimp Cat
24-06-08, 12:34 PM
Ok, going out with a girl tomorrow night and want to do something different to the normal pub for a drink / bowling / cinema :smt102
there are some nice walks i know of with some amazing views which i thought could be an option if the weather holds out, and if it gets a bit could its and excuse to huddle together!! ;)
but other than that i've been thinking all morning and aint really got anywhere.
so all ideas / experiances from the .org would be quality!
Cheers.
PC.
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 12:36 PM
You could go to a comedy club then for a meal after....... but when I last did that it was my last date LOL ;)
Good night tho
Pimp Cat
24-06-08, 12:38 PM
lol scoobs, could be a plan! and i must say i like ya style!!
dunno if she would go for that tho!!
The usual places became the usual places for a reason :-)
I think its always best to play it safe on a first date. A drink is nice and safe, if its going well then all well and good, if it's going badly, you can make your excuses and leave. Talking is the most important thing on a first date, so somewhere were you can hear them always helps, and that rules cinemas out. Having said that, I did go on a first date to the cinema once and it turned in to a 2 year relationship, but we had chatted on the phone and via a MSN before we actually met. So I guess it depends on how well you know them as to what's appropriate.
lol scoobs, could be a plan! and i must say i like ya style!!
dunno if she would go for that tho!!
Yeah she would. Get her all juiced up ready for ya.
lol scoobs, could be a plan! and i must say i like ya style!!
dunno if she would go for that tho!!
this is why scobbs is the forum love god. wimin love him, men want to be him. they seek im ere they seek im there
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and of course if she didn't approve of Spearmint Rhino's, she's obviously not the girl for you :-)
DanDare
24-06-08, 12:43 PM
this is why scobbs is the forum love god. wimin love him, men want to be him. they seek im ere they seek im there
i've had im
Ah the pieces of the puzzle all finally fit!
You could go to a comedy club then for a meal after....... but when I last did that it was my last date LOL ;)
Good night tho
Was the comedy club what was in his undercrackers or the meal :confused:
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 12:45 PM
Was the comedy club what was in his undercrackers or the meal :confused:
ROFL maybe I need to see should be in a pair of undercrackers for me to answer that one ;)
Give us an idea what sort of gal she is, is she an outdoors type, quiet and shy .... all depends on where you take her. Or do you not know that stuff yet ;)
Pimp Cat
24-06-08, 12:49 PM
The usual places became the usual places for a reason :-)
I think its always best to play it safe on a first date.
So I guess it depends on how well you know them as to what's appropriate.
Maybe i should have said Ive been out with her loads of times before, known her for about a year and a half but aint seen her in about 4 months.
Hmm, lookin like Spearmint Rhino's it is at the moment. :)
The comedy club is a good idea but i just had a look and the ones round here are only open on a thursday, friday and saturday :(
buy her a meal deal, show her you mean it
You could always invite her to a party in your pants :-)
I always find dinner in Paris does the trick :-)
ROFL maybe I need to see should be in a pair of undercrackers for me to answer that one ;)
Give us an idea what sort of gal she is, is she an outdoors type, quiet and shy .... all depends on where you take her. Or do you not know that stuff yet ;)
You mean you don't know by now Shell? Have you lived a sheltered life?
How's about going shopping for wedding dresses & suits?
Meal at McDonalds?
IT convention?
Ask her to go for a meal with you, and take her to Tesco to get the freebie samples?
Family party?
Chilli eating contest?
I've got more...
Ooo... my coats here!
Do you have any swinging clubs nearby?
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 12:58 PM
You mean you don't know by now Shell? Have you lived a sheltered life?
Obvioulsy not met the right men LOL .. you did ask :D
Do you have any swinging clubs nearby?
Lozzo LOL hehehe - remind me not to take you out when you come visit
The comedy club is a good idea but i just had a look and the ones round here are only open on a thursday, friday and saturday :(
I could give you your own private show, the ORG now i am the resident comedy genius :rolleyes:
Do you have any swinging clubs nearby?
like Jazz n that yeah?
Iansv II
24-06-08, 01:00 PM
A poetry reading :p
all depends on where you take her. ;)
Not on a 1st date ;)
like Jazz n that yeah?
The ones I had in mind aren't quite like Ronnie Scott's.
Obvioulsy not met the right men LOL .. you did ask :D
Poor bloke :rolleyes:
we had chatted on the phone and via a MSN before we actually met.
Given the above, have you thought about Internet dating her for a first date Pimp Cat?
Edit, actually, no, I retract that, it's a worse idea than everything in my previous post combined!
Pimp Cat
24-06-08, 01:06 PM
lol! dear god, what have i started!
Given the above, have you thought about Internet dating her for a first date Pimp Cat?
Edit, actually, no, I retract that, it's a worse idea than everything in my previous post combined!
Nowt wrong with internet dating Baph :-p
Nowt wrong with internet dating Baph :-p
Maybe for some...
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 01:14 PM
lol! dear god, what have i started!
PMSL - but mate have you decided yet, have we helped any.
You could easily borrow my cute Springer Spaniel, she will fall madly for you then :smt054
Jayneflakes
24-06-08, 01:19 PM
A couple of choices here,
Lock her in a basement for several years and hope that Stockholm syndrome forms!
Take her to a gay club and hope that she does not pull a big scary Dyke like me!
Take her to a gay club and hope she that does pull a big scary Dyke like me!
Take her to the theatre, Most surgeons like having their work watched!
Or a picnic with a blanket, under a tree on a summer evening. Don't forget the condoms in the picnic basket, next to the Splitting Axe.
I hear that Broadmoor is nice at this time of year! :-? :smt102
Maybe for some...
????
There's a lot of stigma attached to internet dating, I fail to see how its any less of a valid way of meeting someone. By and large it tends to be used by people who are time poor, not freaks.
Pimp Cat
24-06-08, 01:28 PM
PMSL - but mate have you decided yet, have we helped any.
You could easily borrow my cute Springer Spaniel, she will fall madly for you then :smt054
no i'm still no closer to deciding. if by help you mean suggestions of what not to go and do then yeah you have all been very helpful!! :smt075 Lol.
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There's a lot of stigma attached to internet dating, I fail to see how its any less of a valid way of meeting someone. By and large it tends to be used by people who are time poor, not freaks.
Apologies, but having worked for a couple of companies that do internet dating, and being responsible for the databases behind them, I have to disagree with the above statement. :)
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 01:29 PM
Hey I think the comedy club was a good one ... shame they not open on days you want.
Ride on back of a motorobike to a romantic spot, watch the sunset with a bottle of bubbly (for her only of course as your riding)
Now I'd like that !
Well ok, I can only speak as I find, and the people I've met have been pretty normal.
Hey I think the comedy club was a good one ... shame they not open on days you want.
Ride on back of a motorobike to a romantic spot, watch the sunset with a bottle of bubbly (for her only of course as your riding)
Now I'd like that !
If only we could rely on the damn weather in this country! I've done the whole picnic, champagne and strawberries thing before, and it always goes down well. Trouble is, there's only 7 days a year you can do it!
dont set your sights too high. if the first date is sucessful then you'll get a 2nd date then you'll be back on here asking us for 2nd date ideas. and im a busy man.
Pimp Cat
24-06-08, 01:40 PM
yeah the comedy club was a good idea as is the picnic, but as the weather aint exaclty the best at the moment thats off as well.
just been lookin around and found out that there is a circus fairly close! lol. could be a giggle! :smt102
Ice skating... usually good for a giggle... mainly as I can't. :)
On similar lines, snowboarding etc (if there's a place near you for it)... that I can do, but my missus cannot. :D
neillfergie
24-06-08, 02:16 PM
one of my friends told me a story a few months ago about how he had started to flirt with the hot girl at his work, how hot was proved with photo on his phone so think Scarlett Yohanson, :smt054
anyway i was in tears of laughter when he told me about ho he had finally asked her out and she had agreed so they went out for a meal. after the meal everything was going well so he suggested the went on for a few drinks at which point she said she knew a good place.
:cool: Basically she took him to spearmint rhino, now at this point i was thinking he was making it up but he continued, once inside she said she "wanted to treat him" so got him to pick a hottie for a private dance and she would pay. He of course did and said it was phenominal as you would expect, as he came back with a massive grin:D on his face he was confused when he found her sitting in the booth crying:smt022. . . she then proceeded to blub about how it was all a test and how he had failed it by agreeing to have a private dance! lol :smt043
she told him he wasn't what she was looking for in a man and they broke it off there and then in sp rhinos.:smt043
women?:smt102just when you've found a perfect one:smt075
Spearmint Rhino?:smt043:smt043
brilliant....thats where he met her! taking her back to work!
ermmm you could do like me and treacle did (now my other half) and take her to a test ride (if she can ride a bike that is) worked for us lol
ermmm you could do like me and treacle did (now my other half) and take her to a test ride (if she can ride a bike that is) worked for us lol
what type of ride was it?
SoulKiss
24-06-08, 02:32 PM
ermmm you could do like me and treacle did (now my other half) and take her to a test ride (if she can ride a bike that is) worked for us lol
Obviously Treacle lived up to his reputation then :)
what type of ride was it?
pmsl, i sooo could twist that...:p
Obviously Treacle lived up to his reputation then :)
mmeeooowww, claws huni ;)
pmsl, i sooo could twist that...:p
He he he......context gathered!:D
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Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 02:54 PM
pmsl, i sooo could twist that...:p
Good gal .... you and me still on same wavelength LOL :evil:
lapmac mencom ?
MC NAPALM COME, new rapper in da hood???:smt102
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 04:26 PM
one of my friends told me a story a few months ago about how he had started to flirt with the hot girl at his work, how hot was proved with photo on his phone so think Scarlett Yohanson, :smt054
anyway i was in tears of laughter when he told me about ho he had finally asked her out and she had agreed so they went out for a meal. after the meal everything was going well so he suggested the went on for a few drinks at which point she said she knew a good place.
:cool: Basically she took him to spearmint rhino, now at this point i was thinking he was making it up but he continued, once inside she said she "wanted to treat him" so got him to pick a hottie for a private dance and she would pay. He of course did and said it was phenominal as you would expect, as he came back with a massive grin:D on his face he was confused when he found her sitting in the booth crying:smt022. . . she then proceeded to blub about how it was all a test and how he had failed it by agreeing to have a private dance! lol :smt043
she told him he wasn't what she was looking for in a man and they broke it off there and then in sp rhinos.:smt043
ROFL thats funny !! But me I have had a dance myself in those places, they are awesome, maybe she just wanted to go in there with him :smt075
women?:smt102just when you've found a perfect one:smt075
ROFL - thats funny.
I have frequented the local lap dancing club and I think they are awesome places, I have had a dance or two myself and think they are great (and I am not a lesbian but it could sway me). I think if you go SR's you should at least ask her if she wants to join you.
I went to a lap dancing club once, I had a dance, it was one of the most un-erotic experiences of my life!
Now seeing a girlfriend get a dance, that might be fun :-)
How about paint balling??? it's different. ;)
Gene genie
24-06-08, 06:21 PM
ROFL - thats funny.
I have frequented the local lap dancing club and I think they are awesome places, I have had a dance or two myself and think they are great (and I am not a lesbian but it could sway me). I think if you go SR's you should at least ask her if she wants to join you.
if you do get SWAYED shelly feel free to ask me along in a total advisory capacity.:-({|=
Gene genie
24-06-08, 06:23 PM
one of my friends told me a story a few months ago about how he had started to flirt with the hot girl at his work, how hot was proved with photo on his phone so think Scarlett Yohanson, :smt054
anyway i was in tears of laughter when he told me about ho he had finally asked her out and she had agreed so they went out for a meal. after the meal everything was going well so he suggested the went on for a few drinks at which point she said she knew a good place.
:cool: Basically she took him to spearmint rhino, now at this point i was thinking he was making it up but he continued, once inside she said she "wanted to treat him" so got him to pick a hottie for a private dance and she would pay. He of course did and said it was phenominal as you would expect, as he came back with a massive grin:D on his face he was confused when he found her sitting in the booth crying:smt022. . . she then proceeded to blub about how it was all a test and how he had failed it by agreeing to have a private dance! lol :smt043
she told him he wasn't what she was looking for in a man and they broke it off there and then in sp rhinos.:smt043
women?:smt102just when you've found a perfect one:smt075
excellent, i must make a note of that. puzzling though, what did she break off there and then in sp rhinos.
Shellywoozle
24-06-08, 10:10 PM
if you do get SWAYED shelly feel free to ask me along in a total advisory capacity.:-({|=
Well when are you free? Anyone else for a org night at SR's :rolleyes:
dissuade
25-06-08, 07:08 AM
just been lookin around and found out that there is a circus fairly close! lol. could be a giggle! :smt102
or an absolute disaster. If someone took me to the circus on a first date I would cry, I hate clowns.
neillfergie
25-06-08, 09:02 AM
he said she was crying (funny in itself when it was only their first date!) and going on about how she had got him all wrong and that maybe he wasn't ready for a serious relationship yet.
Its doubly funny if you know this guy cos he is soo laid back and really wouldn't be the lap dancing type.
ps. a group outing would be good crack to sp rhinos but im not exactly local so i think a flight would be a tad extreme? any suggestions???
i think it was entrapment. . . still even though she was crying she paid for the dance so everyones a winner! lol
or an absolute disaster. If someone took me to the circus on a first date I would cry, I hate clowns.
What you doing onj here then, the place is full of them ;)
I thaink thats nasty of that girl taking him to perpermint pigs. Another example of women playing games. It noodles my undercrackers. Whay cant people just be up front ffs.
he said she was crying (funny in itself when it was only their first date!) and going on about how she had got him all wrong and that maybe he wasn't ready for a serious relationship yet.
Its doubly funny if you know this guy cos he is soo laid back and really wouldn't be the lap dancing type.
ps. a group outing would be good crack to sp rhinos but im not exactly local so i think a flight would be a tad extreme? any suggestions???
i think it was entrapment. . . still even though she was crying she paid for the dance so everyones a winner! lol
She was obviously a lunatic with a LOT of history! Lucky escape by the sounds of it.
What you doing onj here then, the place is full of them ;)
I thaink thats nasty of that girl taking him to perpermint pigs. Another example of women playing games. It noodles my undercrackers. Whay cant people just be up front ffs.
With you 100% on that Viney.
I thaink thats nasty of that girl taking him to perpermint pigs. Another example of women playing games. It noodles my undercrackers. Whay cant people just be up front ffs.
Nah, I reckon it's a good test. I mean, c'mon fellas, realistically (not in the p*rn world) if you went to a strip club for a first date, would you really have a private lap dance?
If you do, you're asking for trouble. You have to remember that women's minds work differently.
If I were to have a lap dance on my first date, it'd either be my date, or my date would be involved somehow - t'is only fair. :)
neillfergie
25-06-08, 02:10 PM
i agree, definately a lunatic.
still if i was in his position would i have taken up the offer of the private dance, dont forget she said she wanted to treat him???
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