ARGH!! women are mental!!

[pencil shavings]

I am in touble with the gf, and without saying what happened, I am feeling very hard done by! I know im not in the wrong, she admits that she is crazy for feeling how she does, but then says there is nothing i can do to fix it, she just has to get over it... if she can!! WTF :smt100

ARGH

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[Lozzo]

How old are you?

[pencil shavings]

How old are you?

not sure it has any relevance, but 23

[rictus01]

think it only happens between a defineable range......................


birth to death if I remender right ;)

[Lozzo]

You're 23 and it's taken you this long to realise they are all mental?

On the positive side, if you were to kill her now you'd be out of jail by the time you're 40.

[pencil shavings]

You're 23 and it's taken you this long to realise they are all mental?

On the positive side, if you were to kill her now you'd be out of jail by the time you're 40.

sound advice my friend!! :smt068

I wasnt posting to find a cure, or a chorus of 'it will be fine', i just wanted to rant into cyberspace! ranting into a empty house only gets you so far!

[metalmonkey]

You're 23 and it's taken you this long to realise they are all mental?

On the positive side, if you were to kill her now you'd be out of jail by the time you're 40.

Dude if you run over even less time, we are talking years here......

[Lozzo]

Dude if you run over even less time, we are talking years here......

Good point. If you send her out on your bike and then run her over in the car, you'll probably get a community trust action award and be hailed as a hero for getting another scumbag off the streets.

[pencil shavings]

Good point. If you send her out on your bike and then run her over in the car, you'll probably get a community trust action award and be hailed as a hero for getting another scumbag off the streets.


haha:p

[missyburd]

I am in touble with the gf, and without saying what happened, I am feeling very hard done by! I know im not in the wrong, she admits that she is crazy for feeling how she does, but then says there is nothing i can do to fix it, she just has to get over it... if she can!! WTF :smt100

ARGH

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Did you leave the toilet seat up :rolleyes: :p

Lol, on a more serious note, yes we are mental, yes we are crazy and yet still you need us muahahaha, oh the power!!!!









Aaaaand back into my box I go :D

[Razor]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8lj7HsoEbs

[pencil shavings]

Did you leave the toilet seat up :rolleyes: :p

Lol, on a more serious note, yes we are mental, yes we are crazy and yet still you need us muahahaha, oh the power!!!!









Aaaaand back into my box I go :D

if only, if there was somthing that I had done wrong its wouldnt be so annoying, even if it was somthing minor that was made into somthing big, it would be better! but instead i havent done anything wrong and shes just being crazy!! and agreeing with me that she is just being crazy! lol

:confused:

and to make sure i wasnt being lied to by the gf, i told a female friend what happened and she just laughed, saying it was daft for her to be like this!! oh well!!

yeha, boys need girls, but i value my sanity quite highly as well.

[pencil shavings]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8lj7HsoEbs


:D

haha

[missyburd]

if only, if there was somthing that I had done wrong its wouldnt be so annoying, even if it was somthing minor that was made into somthing big, it would be better! but instead i havent done anything wrong and shes just being crazy!! and agreeing with me that she is just being crazy! lol


just give her a bit of space and let her simmer, she'll be reyt soon enough. If she's said she's just being crazy then chances are she's just battling with her own little insecurities, let's face it, we all have 'em :rolleyes:

[pencil shavings]

just give her a bit of space and let her simmer, she'll be reyt soon enough. If she's said she's just being crazy then chances are she's just battling with her own little insecurities, let's face it, we all have 'em :rolleyes:

yep, youre right on the money with that advice! Its so hard to do, i cant stand not being able to fix somthing when there is a problem!! I will just have to try remain calm...

...and only resort to murder if calm dosent work :geek:

I think its bed time too!

[yorkie_chris]

So get a bird who hasn't got a skull filled with clay?

[missyburd]

So get a bird who hasn't got a skull filled with clay?
Is that meant to be a compliment? :confused: :smt100

You might be able to post in that 'when was the last time you gave one' thread ;)

[Jayneflakes]

Womyn are not mental, it is just contact with boys that makes us insane...

try reading one of those relationship advice books,

Men are from Mars, Women are your superior... for example!

[kitkat]

just let her stew for a couple of days. space is a great thing. unless she is really crazy and will have a go at you for ignoring her when she needed your support lol. dont try and understand us

[Tara]

just let her stew for a couple of days. space is a great thing. unless she is really crazy and will have a go at you for ignoring her when she needed your support lol. dont try and understand us

i agree with this space is a great thing

[Demonz]

i agree with this space is a great thing

But I bet she wont let you go to far :rolleyes:


Just save it up and make sure you use the over guilt to full effect when she comes to her senses. I know its hard - but you gotta do these things to balance it out. Good luck ;)

[Tiger 55]

They're not all mental mate so chuck this one and get soembody else in. There's loads to choose from, why lumber yourself with a loony?

Unless of course you love her, in which case you've had it, sorry.

[Baph]

They're not all mental mate so chuck this one and get soembody else in. There's loads to choose from, why lumber yourself with a loony?

+1.

Reading between the lines, it seems similar to an ex of mine, green eye's for no reason. She's an ex because of it.

IMO, sanity is better than being in a relationship.

[mike_avfc]

think it only happens between a defineable range......................


birth to death if I remender right ;)

never a truer word spoken ! mines 35 - been with her 18 years and i still can't work her out !

[magicrat]

Good point. If you send her out on your bike and then run her over in the car, you'll probably get a community trust action award and be hailed as a hero for getting another scumbag off the streets.

I can't condone this sort of behavior or attitude at all.






Think of the bike!!!!!

[pencil shavings]

thanks for all the advice from the men, and constructive comments from the women ;)

ive been out with my share of girls, which is why this particualar one has got me so stumpt! she is one of the kindest and most thoughtfull people i know, and this is without rhyme or reason!! lol

lets see how well i do without talking to her today, will be hard, as ive spoken to her every day for the last 2 years :(

[missyburd]

lets see how well i do without talking to her today, will be hard, as ive spoken to her every day for the last 2 years :(

Maybe that's part of the problem, you both need a couple of days/weeks/months :p away from each other to remind yourselves of why you're with each other, then she'll appreciate you all the more ;) :D

[dizzyblonde]

lets see how well i do without talking to her today, will be hard, as ive spoken to her every day for the last 2 years :(

Easy peasy for a burd to not speak, dunno about you blokes!

Im Indoors was in the bad books on Friday, he went away for the weekend (not the reason for being in the bad books) and he got home mid afternoon yesterday. I managed to not speak to him, well, not pleasantly at least, until about 10pm last night.



But I am officially mad, the medication seems to be working, but when I have an off day, it lasts for days;):help:

[yorkie_chris]

Easy for a burd not to speak

What planet are you on?

[dizzyblonde]

Easy for a burd not to speak

What planet are you on?


not the one that your on....lol

[pencil shavings]

Maybe that's part of the problem, you both need a couple of days/weeks/months :p away from each other to remind yourselves of why you're with each other, then she'll appreciate you all the more ;) :D

:rolleyes:

ive given up in the short term trying to understand, so i will just post the outcome when it happens!!

[dizzyblonde]

Do you live with the GF? If not sometimes the times apart turn ya mental.....

..... not that I'd know anything about that being 4 yrs with my otherhalf living elsewhere:rolleyes:

[pencil shavings]

Do you live with the GF? If not sometimes the times apart turn ya mental.....

..... not that I'd know anything about that being 4 yrs with my otherhalf living elsewhere:rolleyes:

nope dont live with her, we are at different unis :(
so its not exactly like she needs more space!!

[dizzyblonde]

In that case perhaps being apart all the time kinda makes her feel insecure, etc, don't know you so can't comment properly.
From my point of view with Im Indoors being at uni for 4 yrs and needing his own space cause of all the hard work, put its toll on both of us for different reasons, also hes still not fully understanding as to why I like to have him with me. I'm a family person, have a 6 yr old, so obviously I'm a nest builder.

For me not having a man around the house turns me completely batty, I mean how would anyone feel staring at four walls, then only doing kids stuff for the rest of the day, and working nights on a weekend when everybody else is out having fun.....
Sometimes a girl just needs her man, even if she does display odd behaviour and make you assume the complete opposite!

[missyburd]

nope dont live with her, we are at different unis :(
so its not exactly like she needs more space!!

hmm that's a point :confused:. She sounds like she's just having a bad few days, bit over-touchy, it'll blow over. Just be your usual nice self and she'll soon realise she's being a plonker :D

[pencil shavings]

hmm that's a point :confused:. She sounds like she's just having a bad few days, bit over-touchy, it'll blow over. Just be your usual nice self and she'll soon realise she's being a plonker :D

hope so. the thing is, i dont want her to feel bad for getting upset, u cant rly help how things make u feel sometimes. and i would rather she told me that she was upset that keep it inside.

[pencil shavings]

right, well it was going from bad to worse. I tried not talking to her but she kept on making contact during the day. I was really starting to think that this was going to end in more tears.

But then i decided to take a proactive stance, she is really close to her mother so I told her in no uncertain terms that if she dosent talk to her mom and get her advice, i would call her mom and tell her the situation. Ive only met her twice, but I would have done it, and like I said in the origional post, i know I hadnt done anything wrong.

She took the bate, called her mom and he mom told her she was over reacting.

So.................

i think it will be ok now lol

women have no logic to them, alot of unnecessary stress. ho hum!

[missyburd]

Ah yes, but you have survived yet another relationship hurdle, so give yoursen a pat on the back :)

[Speedy Claire]

Personally i`d have gone mental if my boyfriend had involved my parents!!! The secret of a good relationship is communication.... if you don`t have communication then there is (in my opinion) no relationship!

[pencil shavings]

Personally i`d have gone mental if my boyfriend had involved my parents!!! The secret of a good relationship is communication.... if you don`t have communication then there is (in my opinion) no relationship!

the comunication wasnt the problem at all, we both knew what the problem was and we were talking about it, but she couldnt understand that she was making somthing out of nothing. and it was starting to go too far.

in the end i didnt involve her mom, she did. but at that point i was starting to loose faith that she wud ever get her head back on and had to do somthing!

[Baph]

if you don`t have communication then there is (in my opinion) no relationship!
Amen!

she couldnt understand that she was making somthing out of nothing. and it was starting to go too far.

Aha, that makes complete sense to me. Well done for being far more pro-active than me, I'd of just walked.

[kitkat]

hope its all calmed down. note dates down and see if there is a pattern

[G]

Kerry and I have blazing rows.........then half way through them realise we are both being complete idiots and make up.....

Makes for a healthy relationship in my opinion.....8 years and counting :rolleyes:

[yorkie_chris]

What was she whinging about anyway?

[pencil shavings]

Aha, that makes complete sense to me. Well done for being far more pro-active than me, I'd of just walked.

Thank you :cool:

hope its all calmed down. note dates down and see if there is a pattern

Well it was a particularly bad time of the month if thats what you meen!

Kerry and I have blazing rows.........then half way through them realise we are both being complete idiots and make up.....

Makes for a healthy relationship in my opinion.....8 years and counting :rolleyes:

I dont really like arguing, makes me feel tired and gives me a headache, so I try to avoid it!

What was she whinging about anyway?

I deliberably didnt say the cause because it wasnt important, plus i dont really think the internet is the best place to expose the intamate details of a relationship. You might find that hypocritical, as I posted the thread, but it is logical to me!

[Mr Speirs]

He didn't take the bins out. :)

Why is it women make us do all the crappy dirty jobs then make us do the rest of the jobs afterwards anyways?

[pencil shavings]

He didn't take the bins out. :)

Why is it women make us do all the crappy dirty jobs then make us do the rest of the jobs afterwards anyways?

funny you should say that, taking out the bins is the only chore I almost enjoy doing! When i was younger i used to talk to the binmen and ride in their truck down the road. I really wanted to be a bin man! they even give me a christmas pressent of a lego rubbish truck!! :)

[missyburd]

I deliberably didnt say the cause because it wasnt important, plus i dont really think the internet is the best place to expose the intamate details of a relationship. You might find that hypocritical, as I posted the thread, but it is logical to me!

Yeah so stop being nosey YC or I might start exposing things (wink wink) about us :rolleyes:






Ok maybe not...

[Stig]

For years and years my wife has asked me my thoughts on something, asked for my advice. I have given her that advice or given her my thoughts with the full knowledge the information I am giving her is correct. I also know full well that she will ignore that advice or that knowledge until she has heard it again from someone else. :confused:

Now that is called womans logic. she says "How the hell can you be possibly right?, how can you possibly know the answer? Why did I even ask you?"

Sometimes it has taken months before she finally does what it was I told her she should do. I'll say, ah so you finally decided I was right then? "What you talking about?" she says "Mary told me I should do it this way yesterday". :scratch:

[Woz]

Now that is called womans logic. she says "How the hell can you be possibly right?, how can you possibly know the answer? Why did I even ask you?"


I always thought female logic was buying something that they don't need or want just because it had 50% off in a sale. She thinks she's saved £100 (for example). Try explaining that she has actually wasted £100 and she just won't understand.

[carnivore]

I am in touble with the gf, and without saying what happened, I am feeling very hard done by! I know im not in the wrong, she admits that she is crazy for feeling how she does, but then says there is nothing i can do to fix it, she just has to get over it... if she can!! WTF :smt100

ARGH

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Tell her to 'shat it!!!!!!' and go and make a 'capa tea, two sugars'. then get on the phone and tell her it's time for 'grown up talk and it's not for burds'. ;);)

[pencil shavings]

I can see this is going to end up as a slag women off thread!! lol

[dizzyblonde]

Tell her to 'shat it!!!!!!' and go and make a 'capa tea, two sugars'. then get on the phone and tell her it's time for 'grown up talk and it's not for burds'. ;);)

I can see this is going to end up as a slag women off thread!! lol


see what I have to put up with?:smt100

And I'd tell Carnivore, ''make it yourself and while your at it, you can get to the shop for a saucer of milk for me'':batman:

[pencil shavings]

And I'd tell Carnivore, ''make it yourself and while your at it, you can get to the shop for a saucer of milk for me'':batman:

i dont know what kinkyness you are into catwoman :geek: but sounds interesting!! lol

[dizzyblonde]

i dont know what kinkyness you are into catwoman :geek: but sounds interesting!! lol


Carnivore is the difficult other half, he ain't getting a cuppa tea til hes been to the shop, him and YC have drunk tea all afternoon, just done dinner, so now I'm officially on strike

[pencil shavings]

Carnivore is the difficult other half, he ain't getting a cuppa tea til hes been to the shop, him and YC have drunk tea all afternoon, just done dinner, so now I'm officially on strike

i can feel the love :smt057

[dizzyblonde]

i can feel the love :smt057
much as he trys my patience to the extreme:rolleyes:.....of course you can feel the lurve...so can he:smt055