How do you get a woman to fancy you?

[Blue_SV650S]

So how is it done? :scratch:

[shonadoll]

A Borat thong and high heels, and practice your mincing.

[Baph]

IMO, you don't. They either like you for the person you are, or they don't.

If you're trying to pull though, the advice of a friend a long time ago has worked wonders in the past.

"If you can't see the wood for the trees, get out of the forest."

[New Leaf]

get her drunk.

[tigersaw]

go out with a loud mate and be the quiet one

[Blue_SV650S]

Hummm ... there is some real quality advice/answers coming here . . . . . .. . . . :smt019 :-D

[Bibio]

you either have it my friend or you dont

one of my mates was a virgin till he was 34, he's not ugly, quite intelligent and witty but women were just not attracted to him.

its all about getting out and meeting as many as you can...

[Blue_SV650S]

you either have it my friend or you dont

one of my mates was a virgin till he was 34, he's not ugly, quite intelligent and witty but women were just not attracted to him.

its all about getting out and meeting as many as you can...

Prolly a lot of truth in that ... but if it is a 'you got it or you don't' ... how is increasing the numbers gonna help/make any difference?!!? :scratch:

[Mr Speirs]

Ignore them. :)

Generally don't act interested.

Then hit them with a french stick and ask them out. Works everytime.

[yorkie_chris]

Prolly a lot of truth in that ... but if it is a 'you got it or you don't' ... how is increasing the numbers gonna help/make any difference?!!? :scratch:

More chance of finding one who's properly pi$$ed :-P

[Bibio]

eventually threw social activity, you narrow the odds... its courses for horses.. you have to be out there and be seen.. eventually you will appeal to someone..

or you could... whip out your manhood stick it in there hand and start crying.. but i think you might get arrested..

[Biker Biggles]

Get you todger out and wave it in their face.That should get you noticed.

[Biker Biggles]

Bibio beat me to it.

[yorkie_chris]

It's not good... what's he going to be asking about next when he's found a lass?!?!?

There are probably better websites he could consult about such things

[Lozzo]

Rohypnol - helping ugly men have sex since 1983

[Giggsy]

Agree with you chris must be better sites to ask that.
Few of my mates are on that facebook thing and said there's plenty of
women on there. Bit sad if you ask me go to the pub find a nice girl
and ask them if they want a drink easy old ones are the best you know!

[Blue_SV650S]

Agree with you chris must be better sites to ask that.
Few of my mates are on that facebook thing and said there's plenty of
women on there. Bit sad if you ask me go to the pub find a nice girl
and ask them if they want a drink easy old ones are the best you know!

Do nice girls go to pubs then? :scratch: .... seems to me it is just hoes ...

[Bibio]

your going to the wrong pubs than m8. or the right ones depending on how you look at it..

[Giggsy]

Course you get nice ladies in pubs all depends on age your looking at as the older we get the best ones seem to be taken!!!!!!!;)

[Lozzo]

Nice women don't go drinking alone - unless they are in town on business, in which case you'll find them in their hotel bar, not in a town centre pub. Trust me on this, I was a sales rep for enough years to know.

[Giggsy]

No but you do get them together which is better because if your nice her friend will always say he seems nice, and as we all know every lady or girl listens to there friends.

[Blue_SV650S]

No but you do get them together which is better because if your nice her friend will always say he seems nice, and as we all know every lady or girl listens to there friends.

This is also true .. but how do you get her friend to like/fancy you too .... that seems like it would be double the trouble and by pure probability harder?!!? :scratch:

[Giggsy]

Think your reading too much into it it's not rocket science just be yourself,try and make them laugh but be ready for rejection.
Bloody hell it's like Oprah:p

[keithd]

Do nice girls go to pubs then? :scratch: .... seems to me it is just hoes ...

how are you still single?

[Blue_SV650S]

:bball: He shoots - he scores!! :D

Remember ... I am asking how you get a girl to fancy YOU ... not how do I get a girl to fancy me*!! ;)

So how do you do it? Can you do it?






*Yes, yes .. the .org feel that is an impossibility - I know!! So don't even bother trying to solve that one!! :D

[Lozzo]

:bball: He shoots - he scores!! :D

Remember ... I am asking how you get a girl to fancy YOU ... not how do I get a girl to fancy me*!! ;)

So how do you do it? Can you do it?


I don't. They either like me or they can waste their time with inferior men :D

[Dappa D]

how are you still single?i

pmsl...

simple....make eye contact (its all in the eyes!)..smile...she smiles back then go say hello, introduce yourself, ask her name etc...TALK!.. ur in...once ur in leave the cheesyness alone and just be urself.....

if its a group of woman...introduce urself to the group and talk to them all.....hi girls im blue! having good nightblah blah etc...but gve the one u fancy the most eye contact and smiles....(no winking tho!!).....

if its a gf ur looking for as opposed to a 1 night stand....then by all means ask in a cheaky way at the end of the night/when u leave for a "kiss goodbye!, but most importantly get her number. text next day, ull know from the response u get if she is interested...then u can get the one on one date from there...:takeabow:

lol thats my opinion anyways....it never let me down!! you have to have confidence in urself:smt056

[Frank]

become a plumber
have you seen those foreign type films.






you'll be in ther house all day and they wo,nt be able to do enough for you.
Tea ,cakes etc

[Baph]

:bball: He shoots - he scores!!


I was going to ask in your other thread why you feel the need to troll today :lol:

[Lozzo]

I was going to ask in your other thread why you feel the need to troll today :lol:

Because Saturday ends in 'day', and Blue only trolls on days ending in 'day' :D

[timwilky]

ask Kinvig. He is the expert at pulling birds.

[missyburd]

More chance of finding one who's properly pi$$ed :-P

That reminds me of when we first met, I was properly ratar$ed :p




joke.

Get you todger out and wave it in their face.That should get you noticed.

pmsl you'd have to be pretty flexible for that, but then I guess that can only be a good thing to advertise :lol:


Few of my mates are on that facebook thing and said there's plenty of
women on there.

I'm fed up of random people from turkey and such adding me on facebook, ignore, ignore, ignore. Meeting people on the net is just asking for trouble.

[Gene genie]

how do you get a woman to fancy you?
you cant!! unless you've just won the lottery. trust me on this, i've been married 15yrs and my wife still doesnt fancy me.

[sv-robo]

I just turn up,use a bit of robo charm,hey presto.......putty in my hands,m*nge in my mouth.:smt019

[Gene genie]

I just turn up,use a bit of robo charm,hey presto.......putty in my hands,m*nge in my mouth.:smt019
meringue in your mouth???
oh you take her for to a berni inn.;)

[Biker Biggles]

I know a good vet who can sort out the mange in your mouth.
The putty will just wash off.

[Lozzo]

meringue in your mouth???
oh you take her for to a berni inn.;)

I think he means mange, which is a skin complaint dogs get. You must get some dodgy burds in Lancashire.

[Gene genie]

we get doggy birds aswell, but all the ladies i've met in lancashire have all been very nice, espeically the gals on ere.

[sv-robo]

i know a good vet who can sort out the mange in your mouth.
The putty will just wash off.
pmsl!!

[missyburd]

we get doggy birds aswell, but all the ladies i've met in lancashire have all been very nice, espeically the gals on ere.

they look a bit like this then

http://www.freewebs.com/eokidzextra/doggy%20bird.bmp

:lol: Takes all sorts eh?

[thedonal]

Prolly a lot of truth in that ... but if it is a 'you got it or you don't' ... how is increasing the numbers gonna help/make any difference?!!? :scratch:

That's what I always thought- you've either got it or you haven't. Hence 5 years on the shelf!

Increasing the numbers will only help if you do it constructively.

Try reading The Game, by Neil Strauss as a starting point. At the very least, it's a right giggle...

http://www.play.com/Books/Books/4-/3515092/The-Game/Product.html

....and at the very most, you could totally change your fortunes in the wimmin dept.

[Dappa D]

That's what I always thought- you've either got it or you haven't. Hence 5 years on the shelf!

Increasing the numbers will only help if you do it constructively.

Try reading The Game, by Neil Strauss as a starting point. At the very least, it's a right giggle...

http://www.play.com/Books/Books/4-/3515092/The-Game/Product.html

....and at the very most, you could totally change your fortunes in the wimmin dept.


numbers game....every no gets u closer to a yes and all that....tis true, same in sales etc...

[Gene genie]

they look a bit like this then

http://www.freewebs.com/eokidzextra/doggy%20bird.bmp

:lol: Takes all sorts eh?
my young lad just said, thats so cute. he'll learn.

[missyburd]

my young lad just said, thats so cute. he'll learn.
:lol: bless...

[Lozzo]

numbers game....every no gets u closer to a yes and all that....tis true, same in sales etc...


You could work the 3% rule - it's easy.

3% of women you ask will sleep with you, this is fact. You have two options here- firstly, ask 33 women and you'll end up in bed with one of them. Second option - Ask the same woman 33 times and in the end she'll do it just to shut you up.

[Quiff Wichard]

how do you get a woman to fancy you?..




be me !




ha - joke- the answer is - be YOU- .. just stop trying too hard- be yourself and if she likes you for you then thats good.. if she doesnt then hey you aint suited, better than bein suited to someone when you are being someone else.. ..

[Gene genie]

You could work the 3% rule - it's easy.

3% of women you ask will sleep with you, this is fact. You have two options here- firstly, ask 33 women and you'll end up in bed with one of them. Second option - Ask the same woman 33 times and in the end she'll do it just to shut you up.
:smt043:smt043

[chakraist]

Persistence - I thought to myself at some point last year that I'd like to sleep with a certain girl at uni, a few weeks later it was done, took a while but I didn't have any exams so you know.

[Blue_SV650S]

Ok, so the 3% rule ... so the next question is how do you deal with rejection?

Its probability, but assuming you are going to get the full 32 no's before that yes ... how have you dealt with the rejection? ...

Also how do you narrow the selection such that your sample group is likely to contain a larger than average percentage?

[jimmy-james]

Smile and chat to them like they are your best buddy (dont dribble) and wait for one to drop in your lap (not literally). If you try too hard you will look desperate!

[Lozzo]

Ok, so the 3% rule ... so the next question is how do you deal with rejection?



I'm a salesman, it goes with the territory. You get used to it.

[keithd]

just be normal. dont try to be something your not, women spot bullmudders miles away

dont think too hard about what you say or do, dont make it sound like youve rehearsed questions.

how bout going to a few gigs? meet anybody there you've instantly got something in common

and if you get rejected, deal with it! move on.

[fadedhalo]

from experience i found that not intentionally looking is the best way. always seems to attract them!

but a friend of mine has joined one of those freebie dating agency things on facebook and he is getting so many girls at the moment. granted - not all of em are stunners and a couple have been psychos, but he is still getting out there!

[Jayneflakes]

Wear goth clothing, hang about in lesbian bars and always be available for a snog, no matter how many facial warts or herpies sores they have.

Or put an ad on Gaydar girls, wait six months and then get a message from a girl who says "You look nice" then have a wild weekend together and never leave. Worked for me.

[Biker Biggles]

You could do the 3% thing by mailshot.That way you dont have to meet the ones who reject you so its no problem.
If none of these ideas do it for you have you considered becoming a homosexual?
I kow you have got some great leather suits so thats half the battle won already.

[Dappa D]

Ok, so the 3% rule ... so the next question is how do you deal with rejection?



as Lozzo said, im also in sales.....u need to see every "no" as a possitive, as its one step closer to gettin that "yes":)

[Vickster]

[quote=Jayneflakes;1680136] always be available for a snog, no matter how many facial warts or herpies sores they have. /quote]


hmmmm tempting

[thedonal]

From all the stuff I've read, cos I'm trying to work it all out and put it into practice soon, rejection will happen, but the trick is not to take it personally. Yeah. the first 10 girls you approach will be scary, but it will get easier and easier. If you realise that you will get rejected for a bit, then you can accept that and maybe try and have a laugh with it. Might as well!

If you walk up to a woman in the pub and she b*tches you off after your first sentence, it's probably cos you just did the same thing the other 40 guys did that night- it's nothing personal at you.

Either that you've had 10 Strongbows too many!

But if it aint working, Just say "have a nice evening" and walk off to some other group.

I've kind of started thinking on those terms in the office, and found that dealing with some people's behaviour is actually easier now, as I can step back from being 'emotinoal' about it, and actually think about what's making them be such an r. sole.

Anyway Blue, you're fairly articulate, unless someone else is writing your posts for you (works for me!). Just remember that next time your in some swanky joint, each girl you talk to try something different to the one that you blew it with last time.

[Blue_SV650S]

Just remember that next time your in some swanky joint, each girl you talk to try something different to the one that you blew it with last time.

But surely you are just introducing variables? :scratch:

Surely you have two options ... stick to the same script and wait on the 3% or to try lots of scripts with the same women!?!!? .. AKA 'the chakraist' :lol:

[thedonal]

Again, I'm going by what I've read, rather than experience.[/disclaimer].

Scripted stuff does work ('canned openers' etc)- but different routines work on different women. It's all about calibration. I've kind of done this at work- my team leader is perfect for practice. There's also a lot of women in my office, so it's the perfect practice ground for material!

The scripted lines are just so you can open with someone- ie to get the conversation started. If she talks back, it worked. Time to move on.

It's partly on how you deliver them. Partly on who you deliver them to. Also, not being worried about the outcome- the first 10-20 girls you approach (works better if you open groups- women on their own will have their defenses up, so it'll be harder) will likely just be experience.

If you have 2 or 3 scripts, you can use them as training wheels, before you become more 'natural'.

Seiously, read The Game by Neil Strauss. It's what got me into the idea that I can do something about my inability to pull. However, I've yet to get started- gonna get some decent new clothes and start in December. If I can figure this stuff out over winter, summer is going to be a hoot!

Anyway- sounds like Chakraist is a bit of a pick up artist. I may be asking for tips myself....! :D

[fizzwheel]

they either do or they don't in my experience if they don't fancy you then nothing is going to change that.

Just be yourself, be honest and if it happens it will. After a while you'll be able to read the signs and you'll know without asking whether you'll get knocked back straight away or if she interested.

[ArtyLady]

Stuff a pair of socks down your trousers ;) :lol:

[yorkie_chris]

Start smoking? Easier to get chatting to folk outside the pub than in there

[Dappa D]

Start smoking? Easier to get chatting to folk outside the pub than in there

ive heard this referred to as smirting by a womanising friend....

[yorkie_chris]

Lol!

[thedonal]

Stuff a pair of socks down your trousers ;) :lol:

But clean ones, for Gods' sake!

[Blue_SV650S]

Stuff a pair of socks down your trousers ;) :lol:

I tried that last night .... but it didn't seem to work ... just the opposite in fact ...

..
..

.... perhaps I should have stuffed the socks down the front!?!? :lol:

[chakraist]

Smoking area outside the venue (student nightclub) yields fun times. More because I'm so wasted, you know, that I just talk a whole bunch of ****. I have a girlfriend now, apparantly her and all her mates thought I was a womanizer for a long time, now they know my sensitive side :D

I wouldn't say I was good at picking girls up, but I seem to be able to do it when I want to, although I was single for most of last year, purposely.

[mrs cuffy]

[quote=Jayneflakes;1680136] always be available for a snog, no matter how many facial warts or herpies sores they have. /quote]


hmmmm tempting


Thought You'd be up for that one matey

[Tim in Belgium]

Come on a night out in Holland with me, I'll use my favourite line "Do you speak English?" and the hard work's done. If all else fails there's the red light district...