So, you have fought the odds and got a girl to talk to you ...

[Blue_SV650S]

.... how do you know if a girl simply being friendly or if she fancies you?

i.e. how do you know if she wants a bit more or if she doesn't like you like 'that' ...

How do you avoid that sticky situation where you have got the wrong idea?! :smt115

[Dappa D]

lol....get out more and find out!

[Gene genie]

whats wrong with being single blue? nothin, enjoy life and it'll happen before you know anything about. sex, love and marriage its all over-rated.

[Shellywoozle]

.... how do you know if a girl simply being friendly or if she fancies you?

i.e. how do you know if she wants a bit more or if she doesn't like you like 'that' ...

How do you avoid that sticky situation where you have got the wrong idea?! :smt115

Good question though, first dates etc ...... who makes the first move, what if you got the signals wrong? .......... crash and burn :(

[thedonal]

This is the point where you pick up your club, bash her with it and drag her off to the cave. Don't give her the choice!!

[Shellywoozle]

This is the point where you pick up your club, bash her with it and drag her off to the cave. Don't give her the choice!!

Is that why I can't remember much after a night out, I thought I had simply drank too much.

Check list next time .... knickers intact, lump on head (oh I had one of those recently) ha ha ha

[Gene genie]

knickers intact!!!!!!!!!:smt043:smt043:smt043

[Dicky Ticker]

First mistake is getting her to talk to you------thin end of the wedge:D

Chemistry--you know when it is right if you are referring to a serious long term commitment,no rush let time and circumstance take its course.

On the other hand if you are only talking about a couple of dates does it really matter if your rejected

[Shellywoozle]

knickers intact!!!!!!!!!:smt043:smt043:smt043

That is off course if you are wearing any !

[Gene genie]

That is off course if you are wearing any !
by eck times have changed. i used to find camisoles attractive, now its no knickers. i've led a very sheltered life.:(

[Dappa D]

by eck times have changed. i used to find camisoles attractive, now its no knickers. i've led a very sheltered life.:(

lmao!!

[Girth]

One word.......................































Rohypnol :)

[chakraist]

You tend to instinctively know, like, if you are talking to a girl and they are giving off the usual signs and wanting to know more about you then you're basically in.

[Shellywoozle]

Genie Genie, I always wear them !! Will now my check list includes checking on them LOL

I am thinking Girth may need arresting .... think he has tried and tested that one ;)

[Biker Biggles]

Same advice as before----
Get your todger out and wave it in her face
She will then let you know in no uncertain terms where you stand

[Shellywoozle]

Same advice as before----
Get your todger out and wave it in her face
She will then let you know in no uncertain terms where you stand

If it's big you are in !!! :cheers:

[Baph]

If it's big you are in !!! :cheers:
Oh dear... :lol:... there's always one, and it's usually you!

[Shellywoozle]

Oh dear... :lol:... there's always one, and it's usually you!

Sorry only being honest !! Not TOO big tho, mmmm I shall get my coat :smt040

[Baph]

Sorry only being honest !! Not TOO big tho, mmmm I shall get my coat :smt040
Why, have you pulled?
(Sorry, been hearing a lot of cheesy chat up lines recently).

[Shellywoozle]

Why, have you pulled?
(Sorry, been hearing a lot of cheesy chat up lines recently).

Hey I have you know I am being a good girl and I am very respectable !!! Just for the record like ;)

[Baph]

Hey I have you know I am being a good girl and I am very respectable !!! Just for the record like ;)
I know, it's just a front you put up for self defence purposes.

Anyhow, keeping it on topic, otherwise I'll get shouted at...

Erm, how do I know someone's interested? Well, been in a long term relationship for a LONGGGGGG time, so I'm not sure I remember. :(

[Shellywoozle]

Eye contact, if she makes lots of eye contact with you then ya in !!

[keithd]

never. im no good with women either.

[Davido]

The first step:

Go outside.

The second step:

Find a girl.

The rest of the steps take care of themselves.




Failing the above steps, post on Sv650.org about meeting women.

[Jayneflakes]

If she is covered in my lippy, then yes she is interested.

If I spend all evening snogging and not actually talking, then yes she is interested.

If she is moving my furniture into her flat, then yes she is interested.

If her hands are in my intimates... Well you can work it out for yourself.

Just to add an extra thing here, I moved in with my Lovely Mrs during our first date. Guess we just clicked. Chemistry, if it is there you know about it.

[Shellywoozle]

I moved in with my Lovely Mrs during our first date. Guess we just clicked. Chemistry, if it is there you know about it.

Bloomin ek thats fast work !! :cheers:

[Jayneflakes]

I am that good...

It may have had something to do with the hour long phone calls and constant use of e-mail and messenger, before we had our first real date though.

[sv-robo]

lol....get out more and find out!
+1
We arn't agony aunts y'know.....it's not dear deirdre's forum!!:)

[Tim in Belgium]

An easy one this, they always fancy me ;)

[Baph]

+1
We arn't agony aunts y'know.....it's not dear deirdre's forum!!:)
I'm supprised, but it looks like some people still aint got the jist of Blue's recent threads. He's not asking for himself, he's asking to see our perception, if we were in that situation (hence the perpetual references to "you").

[sv-robo]

I'm supprised, but it looks like some people still aint got the jist of Blue's recent threads. He's not asking for himself, he's asking to see our perception, if we were in that situation (hence the perpetual references to "you").
aaaah....i stand corrected,lol.

[John 675]

can you talk easily about un-orthodox subjects? such as sex? (if the answers yes - see below..)

Does she say things like "i love going out, but i also love movie nights in eating pizza" etc etc.. ( if yes move on down )

does she like bikes? and takes a big interest in your hobbies and life? (if yes carry on down)

is she easy to talk to and there is rarely uncomfortable silences.. (yes? keep going)

does she text or call you to go out?.. (you know the rules by now)

does she talk openly or complain about her ex's and bad relationships to you? (go down to finish mate..)

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if all or most of them are yes then you are either
A, regarded as a Gay best mate
B, your in with a chance..

thats as i see it anyway.. :D :D

[Tim in Belgium]

A for Blue then... ;)

[Jayneflakes]

Some times a gay best mate is all you need....

Trust me!

:smt016

[Blue_SV650S]

I'm supprised, but it looks like some people still aint got the jist of Blue's recent threads. He's not asking for himself, he's asking to see our perception, if we were in that situation (hence the perpetual references to "you").


Indeed, but knowing the assumptions/conclusions people will make is half the reason I post these threads!! :D .. its slightly masochistic I know!!! :lol:

... but basically I know how I go about business ... who I am - what I do and don't do ... I am curious as to how others/YOU do so ... I find peoples take on the most primal of things most interesting ... hence much of my conjecture in many of my posts/threads ... i know what I think, just trying to find out what others think and more importantly WHY - so my posts are aimed as catalysts to derive this*!! ;) ... often they go horribly wrong!! :shock: :lol:

But this is getting all too serious ... lets talk about beding girls!! :D




*Gotta admit, sometimes it is just for plops and giggles .. ;)

[Dappa D]

Indeed, but knowing the assumptions/conclusions people will make is half the reason I post these threads!! :D .. its slightly masochistic I know!!! :lol:

... but basically I know how I go about business ... who I am - what I do and don't do ... I am curious as to how others/YOU do so ... I find peoples take on the most primal of things most interesting ... hence much of my conjecture in many of my posts/threads ... i know what I think, just trying to find out what others think and more importantly WHY - so my posts are aimed as catalysts to derive this*!! ;) ... often they go horribly wrong!! :shock: :lol:

But this is getting all too serious ... lets talk about beding girls!! :D




*Gotta admit, sometimes it is just for plops and giggles .. ;)

i feel a bit silly now:smt040

[thedonal]

Yeah me too. Should have known, really. With a thread that Blue started!

Anyway, Blue.

Now you've canvassed all out opinions, what about yours?! :)

[Dicky Ticker]

Find a lady of the night,if she takes the £50 you've scored:-D
Cheaper than long term costs and all the trouble finding a compatible partner:rolleyes:
Leaves the option of change without hassle:cool:
Gives the gay righthand a rest:safe:

Problem solved

[Blue_SV650S]

Yeah me too. Should have known, really. With a thread that Blue started!

Anyway, Blue.

Now you've canvassed all out opinions, what about yours?! :)

Unless it is a girl you have just met, and you are going for it on the night, where signals are stronger/undiluted, I actually think this one is hard to call ...

Sure there are always signals and body language ... but the longer you know them and the more comfortable they get with you, the more coalesced the signals become ... so again its hard to know if they see you as their gay best friend or salami ... :o .. you can read the same signals different ways at this point depending on if you actually fancy THEM or not ;)

So at what point do you try and crossover? If you leave it too late you do become friends ... there is definitely a window of opportunity for 'more' than friends ... this varies with each woman/situation ....

I've potentially missed a few opportunity's by not being sure and urring on teh side of caution (yes shocker .org ... women do talk to me!! :lol:) ... but that I'll never really know ...

From my experience you need to strike fairly early ... or at least if you don't go for the kill, make it clear you are attracted to them but also show intention of simply being friendly and wait until they come round ... again AKA the chakraist.. :lol: ...

[chakraist]

:D

Girls love patience. Plus, it helps that I'm a very patient person and not some sex crazed lunatic. Honest

[keithd]

:D

Girls love patience. Plus, it helps that I'm a very patient person and not some sex crazed lunatic. Honest

and im sure some love it when you're forward and positive

horses for courses init

[Skip]

So at what point do you try and crossover? If you leave it too late you do become friends ... there is definitely a window of opportunity for 'more' than friends ... this varies with each woman/situation ....

I've potentially missed a few opportunity's by not being sure and urring on teh side of caution (yes shocker .org ... women do talk to me!! :lol:) ... but that I'll never really know ...
Sooooo true - been there before! In fact it was an experience of the above where I totally missed the window that helped me realise that the "window" even existed so I always made sure not to miss it again - whether it worked out or not!

[melody]

Unless it is a girl you have just met, and you are going for it on the night, where signals are stronger/undiluted, I actually think this one is hard to call ...

Sure there are always signals and body language ... but the longer you know them and the more comfortable they get with you, the more coalesced the signals become ... so again its hard to know if they see you as their gay best friend or salami ... :o .. you can read the same signals different ways at this point depending on if you actually fancy THEM or not ;)

So at what point do you try and crossover? If you leave it too late you do become friends ... there is definitely a window of opportunity for 'more' than friends ... this varies with each woman/situation ....

I've potentially missed a few opportunity's by not being sure and urring on teh side of caution (yes shocker .org ... women do talk to me!! :lol:) ... but that I'll never really know ...

From my experience you need to strike fairly early ... or at least if you don't go for the kill, make it clear you are attracted to them but also show intention of simply being friendly and wait until they come round ... again AKA the chakraist.. :lol: ...

True. In some situations, you leave it too late, that window quickly becomes a patio door. :smt045

and im sure some love it when you're forward and positive

horses for courses init

True too.

Some times patience is the way forward.

[DanAbnormal]

If she grabs yer todger you might be in there.

[Grinch]

Turn up at her gaff and go in for a tea....

When she leaves the room strip down to you pants...

The rest will progress as its meant to go on depending on her feelings for you.

8-)

[thedonal]

Turn up at her gaff and go in for a tea....

When she leaves the room strip down to you pants...

The rest will progress as its meant to go on depending on her feelings for you.

8-)

So, how many nights in a police cell is it for you, Grinch? In total... :D

[Shellywoozle]

If she grabs yer todger you might be in there.

Again depends on the size LOL :mrgreen: she may laff and run :smt019

[Grinch]

They know me on a first name basis.

[Blue_SV650S]

Again depends on the size LOL :mrgreen: she may laff and run :smt019

What exactly is an appropriate size these says then Shell? :scratch: ...

Suppose it depend on how much of a 'bucket' the lass is!?!? ;)

[Lozzo]

.... how do you know if a girl simply being friendly or if she fancies you?

i.e. how do you know if she wants a bit more or if she doesn't like you like 'that' ...

How do you avoid that sticky situation where you have got the wrong idea?! :smt115

Are you really that socially inadequate that you have to ask?

[missyburd]

What exactly is an appropriate size these says then Shell? :scratch: ...

Suppose it depend on how much of a 'bucket' the lass is!?!? ;)

Honestly Blue that really is below the belt....( pun definitely intended :lol: )