how do you keep it fresh with OH

[newman]

been with my missus since childhood but think shes going off me

[the_lone_wolf]

been with my missus since childhood...

You shouldn't do that sort of thing with your sister...

[TheOnlyNemesis]

You shouldn't do that sort of thing with your sister...

:smt044:smt044:smt044:smt044:smt044:smt044 /thread

[newman]

:smt044:smt044:smt044:smt044:smt044:smt044 /thread

wats that mean

[TheOnlyNemesis]

wats that mean

means the lone wolf's post was so funny, no one else should reply to the thread, as we'll only get poor attempts to be as witty following it

[Lissa]

wats that mean


Ignore them, newman, some people think they're funny! :rolleyes:

Are you and your OH in a rut? Always going to the same places and doing the same things? That does get boring. Try doing something totally unexpected and off-the-wall with or for your other half. Surprise her!

[the_lone_wolf]

Surprise her!

With a triffid?

[Spiderman]

do what i did, wait 7yrs and dump her.

[Kate Moss]

Have date night, once a month! Means you have to make an effort for each other, go different places, let your hair down and don't talk about important things, just have a luagh.

[lukemillar]

Have date night, once a month! Means you have to make an effort for each other, go different places, let your hair down and don't talk about important things, just have a luagh.

We do that once a week! :p

[Kate Moss]

We do that once a week! :p

Someone's got too much money!

[Sally]

Mix it up, do something random, take her out on the back of the bike, get completely guttered together, go out on the ****, take up smoking, suggest she goes out on a girly night with the girls...


Ahhh a duno, my longest relationship to date was 6 months, so don't take advice from me :)

Good luck though mate :D

[sv-robo]

Mix it up, do something random, take her from the back

Ahhh a duno, my longest relationship to date was 6 months, so don't take advice from me :)

Good luck though mate :D
;)

[Littlepeahead]

Go to New Zealand for 5 weeks with another women, spend a week of that trip in a camper van with the other woman. :smt088

(Hubby was so pleased to see me when I got back from doing the above with a man, but probably only cause he'd had to make his own packed lunch each day.)

[Dave20046]

Buy a new ironing board

[Sally]

;)

I Love you're humour.

Buy a new cooker?

I still suggest getting boozy...

[missyburd]

No idea what we do, must do it right though, no arguments to date and its been a while.

What makes you think she's going off you? s it just becoming a "comfortable" relationship, is it you feeling you want more out of it and looking for things that aren't there or is she just point blank ignoring you?

[TheRamJam]

go on Jeremy Kyle :p

[kwak zzr]

me finks wen da feelins av gone day av gone.

[Amanda]

Sometimes us Ladeees get ourselves in a rut! When we don't feel good about ourselves, we look at our lives and get very negative about it. It's possible this is what is happening.

It might be expensive but the best way to put a spark back is to make her feel good about herself again. Offer to pay for the hairdressers and/or a spa day with a massage. Then surprise her with a lovely meal out. Tell her what you love about her - we love flattery but it has to be honest. Ask her what she loves about you and if there was anything you could change about your relationship. Make promises to each other that you can keep - like regular nights out or movie nights in.

Hope this all helps ...

[Milky Bar Kid]

Is there anything she has mentioned that she fancies doing or anything she has mentioned that she wants?

Surprise her. Whisk her away for a weekend, doesn't have to be anywhere overly expensive but somewhere different. Try and make things a bit more..or a bit less...routine!

[Alpinestarhero]

there was a thread a while back, someone noticed an interesting correlation; those couples who dont use toys...where unhappy. hose couples that do use toys...are happy.

he was in a happy relationship


:smt044


aaaah drunken posting's

[Sally]

A*H.

Drinking?
Tut tut..

Bl00dy druken students ;)

This ius obviously the most hypicriticial post I have ever made.

[Brollydolly]

Phone a friend ;)

[SoulKiss]

Phone a friend ;)

Will you be my friend ??? :p

well someone was going to do it - so thought I should get in first.

[Brollydolly]

Will you be my friend ??? :p

well someone was going to do it - so thought I should get in first.
Ooooh my, what big teeth you have :D

[Specialone]

Will you be my friend ??? :p

well someone was going to do it - so thought I should get in first.

I would have asked as well except my wife probably wouldnt have appreciated it ;)

[Sally]

Like the true shamless Aberdonian he really is ;)

[Alpinestarhero]

Phone a friend ;)

50 / 50?

that could be akward :smt044

[Alpinestarhero]

Will you be my friend ??? :p

well someone was going to do it - so thought I should get in first.

Hi SK :D

[Girth]

I clean her out with wet wipes after i've done. Sometimes I don't even fully inflate her........

[DarrenSV650S]

I clean her out with wet wipes after i've done. Sometimes I don't even fully inflate her........
:smt044

[Alpinestarhero]

I clean her out with wet wipes after i've done. Sometimes I don't even fully inflate her........

ever the romantic :smt055

[dizzyblonde]

a bit of sleaze never hurt anyone!

[Alpinestarhero]

a bit of sleaze never hurt anyone!

you say that











but i found i couldnt walk for a week

[Girth]

you say that











but i found i couldnt walk for a week


Sorry. But you did say you wanted to feel the burn........

[suzijax]

Just a thought but try asking her if she is feeling ok about the relationship if she says yes suggest a romantic night out revisit the place you met or just cook her a meal at home if money short and make her feel special.
If however if she says she wants time out ask her why and see if you can fix it between each other

[dizzyblonde]

you say that











but i found i couldnt walk for a week

theres a cream for that you know:!:

[Lozzo]

Try doing something totally unexpected and off-the-wall with or for your other half. Surprise her!

Like sleep with her mother or sister then rate their sexual ability higher than the missus, it's a bit off the wall she won't be expecting that

[Graciepants]

Will you be my friend ??? :p

well someone was going to do it - so thought I should get in first.

i better still be your favourite :p

you say you think she's going off you....you thought about actually just asking her and having a talk about how you both feel? god forbid :shock:! :smt044

[Wideboy]

cocaine.......... and fire lots of fire



works like a charm

[Jayneflakes]

Communication, kindness and a hot bath together.

Talk to her, find out where her head is about this.

If you still love her, make sure that you tell her.






Soppy bit now, I tell Carol that I love her in several languages because some times it can be fun. Also leather straps (http://www.westwardbound.com/) are cheap at the moment.

[xXBADGERXx]

Dump her ass and get a younger sportier model , works the same when you get tired of your current motorbike .

[SoulKiss]

Ooooh my, what big teeth you have :D

All the better to [U-RATING VIOLATION WARNING] you with...

[SoulKiss]

I would have asked as well except my wife probably wouldnt have appreciated it ;)

Well mine will probably just have a laugh when she finds this thread next time she browses the .org :)

[SoulKiss]

i better still be your favourite :p

you say you think she's going off you....you thought about actually just asking her and having a talk about how you both feel? god forbid :shock:! :smt044

Trust someone to come up with the sensible answer...

I have to agree with it tho, people change and what they want changes, so you have to talk to keep up to date.

And Graciepants, how can you wound me with such doubts...

[Alpinestarhero]

Sorry. But you did say you wanted to feel the burn........

you didnt have to use tobasco sauce though

theres a cream for that you know:!:

gary used it all on himself

men ](*,)

[Shellywoozle]

Find out if she still has feelings for you.

If she does - Plan A - do what has been suggested on here, if she don't ... you always need a Plan B - another model

If you purchased a new car you would test drive a new one before the old one gave up on you ;)

[sv-robo]

there was a thread a while back, someone noticed an interesting correlation; those couples who dont use toys...where unhappy. hose couples that do use toys...are happy.

he was in a happy relationship


:smt044




How does using a scalextric help?:confused:;)

[Miss Alpinestarhero]

*drags the thread back on track*

What makes you think she is going off you? Are you arguing?

Obviously I don't know the full story but long-term relationships can naturally fall into a routine. Especially with work, children (if you have any), and all those other annoying bits that life requires you to do.

Communication is key. Talk to each other, take an interest in each other, remember to tell each other how much you love them and how much they mean to you.

Making sure you set soem time aside to be together as a couple - its imporant to spend quality time together. Go out once a week / once a month.

Do something different, something that you would not normally do. Go out somewhere different, go on a day-trip/weekend break, take up a new hobby together.

However it can also swing the other way - spending too much time together can make things boring. Its important to retain your own identity and do things apart so that you have something to talk to each other about. Being stuck together 24/7 isnt healthy

HTH

:)

[Specialone]

Dump her ass and get a younger sportier model , works the same when you get tired of your current motorbike .

What happens though if you already have a younger model, even younger?
Even if you get a new one, dont you feel some fondness for the old bike ;) (motorbike i mean lol)

[Alpinestarhero]

Dump her ass and get a younger sportier model , works the same when you get tired of your current motorbike .

thats not true, I just got new bouncy bits for my bike

perhaps that'll work aswell for the relationship trouble?

[phil24_7]

We do that once a week! :p

We're poor! lol

[yorkie_chris]

A bit of light spanking and repeated whippings should liven things up a bit, she won't be able to resist ya mate.

[phil24_7]

What happens though if you already have a younger model, even younger?
Even if you get a new one, dont you feel some fondness for the old bike ;) (motorbike i mean lol)

There is a point where a younger model breaches ones morals, and even the law, so be careful!:D

[dizzyblonde]

A bit of light spanking and repeated whippings should liven things up a bit, she won't be able to resist ya mate.

no no no no no


Industrial nipple clamps, she'll love torturing you with them:smt119

[Specialone]

There is a point where a younger model breaches ones morals, and even the law, so be careful!:D

how bout 35, is that too young?

[petevtwin650]

Dump her ass and get a younger sportier model , works the same when you get tired of your current motorbike .

But how many people have gotten faster, sexier, younger bikes then really missed their old frumpy SV? ](*,)

[yorkie_chris]

Industrial nipple clamps, she'll love torturing you with them:smt119

Yes she will :smt108

[speedplay]

Try doing something totally unexpected and off-the-wall with or for your other half. Surprise her!


Hop in the car with her late one night and take her dogging?






*on a serious note though, this is the last place I would ask for relationship help and advice. Look for a thread by seggons and see what happened to that!*

[Seggons]

*on a serious note though, this is the last place I would ask for relationship help and advice. Look for a thread by seggons and see what happened to that!*

Hehehe I did get some 'interesting' advice to say the least. :lol:

[Lozzo]

been with my missus since childhood but think shes going off me

Move on to the next one then. There's plenty out there to choose from, and no doubt the next one will be fitter than the last.

It's what I do and it seems to work for me.