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Warthog
03-12-09, 03:01 PM
Hi Guys,
I broke up with my gf of 5 years last weekend. :( My head is in a bit of a state and I have to move out of the house to Banbury now. I will have less internet access for a while, so don't think I've gone, but I hope to be back badder than ever in a bit.
Take it easy,
Nick
Sorry to hear that mate, right before Christmas too. Sincerely hope you are OK. Can you make the south do tomorrow night?? Would be good to see a fellow orger and have a bit of laugh?? Not too far really??
and there's the Guildford do this weekend...
gruntygiggles
03-12-09, 03:06 PM
Awww, sorry to hear that hun...never an easy thing to go through and hope you manage to still have a good christmas.
See you back here soon xxx
That sucks. :(
...and I have to move out of the house...
On the brightside - you can move somewhere with a garage... :D
(Sensitivity is my middle name)
You had a girlfriend? I always thought you were gay! :D
Seriously, sorry to hear about this, Hun. What a crappy time of year for this to happen. But look on the bright side, you'll only be just down the road from us! :p
No...don't do it...put that rope away!
StreetHawk
03-12-09, 05:27 PM
Chip up Warts...
I know how your feeling Nick. :(
Really sorry to hear that matey. Hope you keep your chin up and stay positive.
the white rabbit
03-12-09, 07:47 PM
You had a girlfriend? I always thought you were gay! :D
I think its is customary for one to wear the trousers, so this means nothing.
Hard to conceive of I know at the moment probably, but chin up, there's a fair few on here who have been through this and came out bigger and better (and even badder) ;)
the white rabbit
03-12-09, 07:49 PM
But look on the bright side, you'll only be just down the road from us! :p
Kick a man while he's down, won't you.
dizzyblonde
03-12-09, 08:59 PM
oh noes Nick, thats awful before xmas.
Have a big Dizzy hug, you know it would be a proper one if I lived nearer hun. X
just think of how much money you saved :) ..keep it together and stay positive as much as you can
KnightRider
04-12-09, 09:38 AM
Sorry to hear that mate. Chin up though you'll get through it.
Warthog
04-12-09, 09:43 AM
Thanks for all the kind wishes guys, you are all very nice. Even the cheeky comments, they rock, if you can't laugh at a situation you might as well kill yourself :lol:. I won't be making it to any meets sadly, as I am busy moving my stuff and sorting out things. I am going to go out a bit with my mate to try to make me feel better. I know that this kind of stuff actually happens to a lot of people, so I feel sorry for them too, lets just hope it is all for the best. I will be back and I will see you all again!
P.S. Thanks Sophie, actually I do have a garage in the new place haha. Now my bike can rust in the dry.
eviltwin
04-12-09, 09:47 AM
actually I do have a garage in the new place haha. Now my bike can rust in the dry.
Space in there for a Honda? You only need to save up for a house half the size now.
sorry to hear this but look on the bright side you dont need to buy her a xmas present :-)
sorry to hear this but look on the bright side you dont need to buy her a xmas present :-)
+1 :D
Sorry to hear Nick. Hope it all works out for the best for you.
(I filed for divorce this week)
Fizzy Fish
05-12-09, 03:13 PM
:grouphug: to Warthog (& Stu)!
You don't want us girls anyway, we're more trouble than it's worth :rolleyes:
chiefrick
05-12-09, 08:05 PM
Sorry to hear about that Nick, at least you can go to even more parties now!
+1 :D
(I filed for divorce this week)
good for you Stu, now get out there sow some wild oats and have fun. Next time you are out for a meal make sure you are facing into the room, that way you will see the bums cheeks wobbling out the door ;) without breaking your neck x
Warthog
07-12-09, 12:01 PM
:grouphug: to Warthog (& Stu)!
You don't want us girls anyway, we're more trouble than it's worth :rolleyes:
If it wasn't for the in built compulsion men have for women, I would gladly be rid of most of them! Some of them are cool though, just need to find one of them.
Stu, glad you are getting round to getting it sorted mate, if you ever want a chat or a drink let me know and we can meet up. Spare couches in my new pad in Banbury now, its pretty cool.
Devil Biccy
07-12-09, 04:44 PM
Nick and Stu sorry to hear about your situations, I can honestly say having been through it all there really is someone out there for everyone. It just takes time finding the one for you and when you do everything else will not matter. ( Well for a few months atleast)
You had a girlfriend? I always thought you were gay! :D
!
+1 Kind of I mean
I thought you lived with Philbut :???:
If it wasn't for the in built compulsion men have for women, I would gladly be rid of most of them! Some of them are cool though, just need to find one of them.
Stu, glad you are getting round to getting it sorted mate, if you ever want a chat or a drink let me know and we can meet up. Spare couches in my new pad in Banbury now, its pretty cool.
8)
Pretty busy up til after Xmas, then my diary is completely empty :neutral:
Just read this. Truly shocked.
I don't know how philbut thinks he can show his face around here anymore, the brazen wh0re.
philbut
08-12-09, 10:49 AM
Just read this. Truly shocked.
I don't know how philbut thinks he can show his face around here anymore, the brazen wh0re.
:smt054
Warthog
14-12-09, 04:40 PM
Just read this. Truly shocked.
I don't know how philbut thinks he can show his face around here anymore, the brazen wh0re.
Haha!
Von Teese
14-12-09, 06:52 PM
:grouphug: to Warthog (& Stu)!
You don't want us girls anyway, we're more trouble than it's worth :rolleyes:
Speak for yourself chav-ho, Im an AWESOME girlfriend! ;)
If I was posting a reply 3 years ago, I would have said 'bah! relationships, who cares, blah blah' but now I will definately say that I truely believe that things happen for a reason.
To cliche 'there is someone out there for everyone' and 'you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince' (or princess as the case may be).
Sometimes if things dont work out, its because there is someone sooooo much better out there just waiting for you, you never know where she is hiding so keep your head clear and your heart open.
You are a lovely guy and you deserve a lovely girl, dont settle for less than you deserve....remember that x
Warthog
15-12-09, 11:30 AM
Speak for yourself chav-ho, Im an AWESOME girlfriend! ;)
If I was posting a reply 3 years ago, I would have said 'bah! relationships, who cares, blah blah' but now I will definately say that I truely believe that things happen for a reason.
To cliche 'there is someone out there for everyone' and 'you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince' (or princess as the case may be).
Sometimes if things dont work out, its because there is someone sooooo much better out there just waiting for you, you never know where she is hiding so keep your head clear and your heart open.
You are a lovely guy and you deserve a lovely girl, dont settle for less than you deserve....remember that x
AH VT thanks so much for saying that! But where is she?! Are you hiding her? Who has her? If she is sitting at home right now, how do I get her? Interesting thoughts go through your head while you are single, everything seems so easy when you are in a relationship.
, how do I get her?
Chloroform?
speedplay
15-12-09, 01:39 PM
Chloroform?
Blue WKD, rohypnol and a ball gag ;)
philbut
15-12-09, 01:42 PM
Blue WKD, rohypnol and a ball gag ;)
ah so you HAVE met Nick then ;-)
maviczap
15-12-09, 02:26 PM
Blue WKD, rohypnol and a ball gag ;)
Too sophisticated Speedplay. Caveman style with a wooden club, its more romantic :smt055
Warthog
15-12-09, 03:06 PM
Some good suggestions here, gentlemen, keep 'em coming :lol:. Heaven help if it is any poor girl from the org haha!
Von Teese
15-12-09, 04:35 PM
AH VT thanks so much for saying that! But where is she?! Are you hiding her? Who has her? If she is sitting at home right now, how do I get her? Interesting thoughts go through your head while you are single, everything seems so easy when you are in a relationship.
That's the damn trouble, you just never know where she is at the moment. If you think about it, I had to come all the way from South Africa to England to find my Mr Right!
And rather strangely enough it was an unusual sequence of events that led me to him.
You will find your Miss Right, wherever she may be...
...but until you do, just enjoy yourself with the Miss Never-gonna-be-right but are quite fun ;)
Milky Bar Kid
15-12-09, 05:57 PM
I'm Miss Right. I'm Right alllllllll the time. Except when I am wrong, which is mostly quite a lot.....
Ok, I don't have much sensible to add right now....bye
I'm Miss Right. I'm Right alllllllll the time. Except when I am wrong, which is mostly quite a lot.....
Ok, I don't have much sensible to add right now....bye
Miss Right You're Nicked?
Milky Bar Kid
15-12-09, 06:02 PM
Miss Right You're Nicked?
Probably more Miss Right You're Getting the Jail....
Von Teese
16-12-09, 08:09 AM
A favourite quote of mine from Marilyn Manson's 'The Beautiful People'.
'It's not your fault that you're always WRONG'
What is all this idle banter doing in a regional area thread? Be gone all you aliens.
What is all this idle banter doing in a regional area thread? Be gone all you aliens.
*goes home* :alien:
Warthog
17-12-09, 01:59 PM
just enjoy yourself with the Miss Never-gonna-be-right but are quite fun ;)
Haha, there are loads of those around!
Von Teese
18-12-09, 10:00 AM
Haha, there are loads of those around!
Yeah we tend to call them 'slappers' up here in Northants, and the streets are full of them...just nip into Bridge street on a Friday or Saturday night, I can guarentee you that you wont find a decent girl around for miles!!! Except the ones in uniform hehe!
Actually there is a really pretty girl at work I was chatting to last night, asked in a round about way if she was single and she said yes, so I told her she would have to come to some of the biker get togethers!!
****plotting begins!
Warthog
18-12-09, 02:23 PM
Yeah we tend to call them 'slappers' up here in Northants, and the streets are full of them...just nip into Bridge street on a Friday or Saturday night, I can guarentee you that you wont find a decent girl around for miles!!! Except the ones in uniform hehe!
Actually there is a really pretty girl at work I was chatting to last night, asked in a round about way if she was single and she said yes, so I told her she would have to come to some of the biker get togethers!!
****plotting begins!
Haha ok VT, you can be my pimp :-P. I don't like girly girls though, I basically like men but with female parts hahaha like AbnormalDan hahaha
I basically like men
cue the misquotes :D
Von Teese
18-12-09, 11:33 PM
Haha ok VT, you can be my pimp :-P. I don't like girly girls though, I basically like men but with female parts hahaha like AbnormalDan hahaha
Yes I can see the attraction:
http://shots.ikbis.com/image/15939/screen/woman_man.jpg
http://loscuatroojos.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/muscle-woman.jpg
Stunning! Just stunning!
i love girly girls. the girlier the better, Make better lovers IMO
SVStorm
20-12-09, 08:52 PM
The same happened to me about a month ago. My boyfriend(of 1 year) and I split up. Have been moving today too and would not have done it without VT and Tris (love you VT and Tris :smt050)
Believe me it does get better. This was my second relationship after getting a divorce(was with my ex husband for 11 years in total) It is like riding a bike, you fall off and you just have to get back up and try again :)
Space in there for a Honda? You only need to save up for a house half the size now.
If there is any offer of garage space I think I should have it. I do now live in Coventry and that makes me closer to Banbary. My poor SV will have to sleep outside as I dont have a garage anymore :(
Speak for yourself chav-ho, Im an AWESOME girlfriend! ;)
I am too :) Shame the men dont stick around though :)
Interesting thoughts go through your head while you are single, everything seems so easy when you are in a relationship.
Yip things do seem easier in a relationship, but quiet soon you will start finding out who you are again and that is the best bit. :)
After being with the same person for such a long time you loose a bit of who you are and now is the time to find that out again :)
Good luck
Von Teese
20-12-09, 09:13 PM
Nats, dont worry about it, you are a great friend and I will do anything for you, like I said, I could never have let you struggle today.
As far as relationships go, Ive met both of you and you are both lovely people, you will find your Mr and Miss Right somewhere along the way as good people deserve happiness.
I never thought that I would find my Mr Right, but I did!
It makes you look back at your old relationships realise that you knew deep down that they just werent the right person for you.
Im still friends with my exes and there are no hard feelings I just now realise that they were never my soulmate, and you just seem to know when its right.
Hang in there....there is hope!
Warthog
21-12-09, 01:04 PM
Coventry hey? Unlucky :lol: I used to live in Earlsdon for 2 years while I was at Warwick uni, its alright if you get used to it, but there are nicer places ;). I have a garage in Banbury now so if you need a place to stick your bike you are more than welcome!
Actually, it sounds like we should all have a meet up at some point, I haven't seen VT for too long, and it would be good to meet some more people and shoot the proverbial. Just need to get my bike back from Birmingham as I rode up there on Sat (COLD!) and then it snowed even more and I got stranded up a hill with a fully iced road! Had to get a lift home from a mate.
As for the Miss right stuff, I am feeling much better now, just going to have fun and what will happen will happen :).
Warthog
21-12-09, 01:04 PM
cue the misquotes :D
Trouble is, they aren't misquotes :lol:
philbut
21-12-09, 03:06 PM
Rumour has it that Nick actually prefers men - specifically those with long blonde hair and lip piercings. Don't ask how I know this ;-)
Rumour has it that Nick actually prefers men - specifically those with long blonde hair and lip piercings. Don't ask how I know this ;-)
Well you did look quite cute from behind when I saw you at AR09.....then you turned round. *shudder*
Von Teese
21-12-09, 06:21 PM
Coventry hey? Unlucky :lol: I used to live in Earlsdon for 2 years while I was at Warwick uni, its alright if you get used to it, but there are nicer places ;). I have a garage in Banbury now so if you need a place to stick your bike you are more than welcome!
Actually, it sounds like we should all have a meet up at some point, I haven't seen VT for too long, and it would be good to meet some more people and shoot the proverbial. Just need to get my bike back from Birmingham as I rode up there on Sat (COLD!) and then it snowed even more and I got stranded up a hill with a fully iced road! Had to get a lift home from a mate.
As for the Miss right stuff, I am feeling much better now, just going to have fun and what will happen will happen :).
Well, it may be the Von Teeses to the rescue...
We are going to take the van and collect SVStorm's bike and take it to Cov, you might as well meet us at ours and we can bring yours down for you if you want and the weather is still rubbish (which I think it probably will be). We can all have a chat, you and SVStorm can swap horror stories and have a moaning session and we can arrange some ride outs for when the weather is better. I have a few people up here that will be up for a rideout when the weather is a bit better!
I can probably whip up lunch or something too!
How's that sound?
speedplay
21-12-09, 06:25 PM
I'm working in Brum if you need a lift up to collect your bike.
Von Teese
21-12-09, 06:26 PM
I'm working in Brum if you need a lift up to collect your bike.
I think my offer was better ;)
speedplay
21-12-09, 06:28 PM
I think my offer was better ;)
Didnt read it to be honest.
Offer withdrawn as VT wants to do it instead.
;)
If you cant bear to be stuck in a van with Jen, let me know and I'll happily run you up there.
;)
SVStorm
21-12-09, 06:31 PM
Coventry hey? Unlucky :lol: I used to live in Earlsdon for 2 years while I was at Warwick uni, its alright if you get used to it, but there are nicer places ;).
Yeah tell me about it. I moved from a stunning 2 bed house in a quiet cul de suc with a garage to a house share in Coventry near Ricoh arena. But if it gets me closer to saving for my house deposit then I guess it is going to be worth it.
I have a garage in Banbury now so if you need a place to stick your bike you are more than welcome!
Thanks may very well take you up on this offer. Will PM you once I have finished moving as dont think the bike will fit down side of house so may have to find an alternative :)
Actually, it sounds like we should all have a meet up at some point, I haven't seen VT for too long, and it would be good to meet some more people and shoot the proverbial. Just need to get my bike back from Birmingham as I rode up there on Sat (COLD!) and then it snowed even more and I got stranded up a hill with a fully iced road! Had to get a lift home from a mate.
Yeah sounds like a plan. I hope to try and ride a bit over the winter as I am a newbie and want to keep the riding going. I do not mind riding in the rain and can manage the cold (hope to get some good thermals or heated vest and gloves sorted) I do however draw the line at snow and ice.
SVStorm
21-12-09, 06:34 PM
Well, it may be the Von Teeses to the rescue...
We are going to take the van and collect SVStorm's bike and take it to Cov, you might as well meet us at ours and we can bring yours down for you if you want and the weather is still rubbish (which I think it probably will be). We can all have a chat, you and SVStorm can swap horror stories and have a moaning session and we can arrange some ride outs for when the weather is better. I have a few people up here that will be up for a rideout when the weather is a bit better!
I can probably whip up lunch or something too!
How's that sound?
I am in :) HA HA had a look at the gate down side of house again today am really not sure if the bike will fit. Will however have a go first before taking Warthog up on the offer of SV Garage space :)
Von Teese
21-12-09, 09:29 PM
I can promise you that it wont fit, not in one piece anyway!
Milky Bar Kid
21-12-09, 09:34 PM
I can promise you that it wont fit, not in one piece anyway!
The mind boggles.....
:-s
Warthog
22-12-09, 07:23 PM
Hey gang, just a quick message to say I am off with the family for Christmas in Bristol, just checking in on the forum on a pinched laptop :). Things you are organising all sound cool, but I am not sure how I can fit in. I am back in Banbury on Sunday the 27th, and I somehow need a lift to south Birmingham if the ice has gone. Best take organising to PMs I guess. I'll keep trying to check in but my parents shout at me (quite rightly!) for being anti-social and surfing the net! Its my mate's garage (he is my landlord :)) so I just need to ask final permission, but there is nothing but my bike in it so far so I think there should be plenty of room for two bikes if that is what you want. So you'd want to keep your bike in Banbury when you live in Cov? I am slightly confused. Anyway, I am rambling, catch you all later and Merry Christmas!
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