Am i a bad bad person

[GixxerMatt]

so here's the story had a gixxer from the ripe old age of 17 it got stolen just before my 18th (gutted lol) brought a 125 to get around on from the insurance money. passed car test got a car.. got bored of car and wanted another bike.

the thing is my girlyfriend HATES bikes and i mean hates she hated my 50cc she hated my gixxer even more so when i brought my new gixxer i never told her at all.

as far as she knows it dosnt exist. i go to her house in my car and the gixxer stays in the garage under covers :p

she HATES bikes for the simple fact that i could hurt myself ( her dad used to have one and her broke a knee ect ect)

so by not telling her she dosnt worry as far as she knows ive got a car and a 125cc in the garage i never really use.

so am i a BAD person for not telling her ive brought myself a new gixxer? cuz i sure feel bad :p

[Geodude]

Better to be honest just incase anything ever happened to you when riding or get another bird who likes bikes :smt023

[minimorecambe]

What if you come off and she has to be informed?
Do you not think she will be upset enough that you are injured without the added hurt that you have lied to / kept things from her? :-?

Just my thoughts :)

[GixxerMatt]

well when i go on a bike ride she jsut thinks im going on my 125 so i dont tell her that i no longer ride bikes just that she thinks its a 125 :p

[dizzyblonde]

NOPE, not bad at all, just make sure shes put in a room with a lock on it when you go out on it;)

Seriously tell her the truth, and if she still don't like it, tell her to foxtrot oscar:smt101

[GixxerMatt]

lol i do thave the intention of telling her just gotta wait for the right time like spring :p

[dizzyblonde]

Why such a long time to tell, you scared she might turn into a bunny boiler or summat, and handcuff you to a radiator, so you can't go out?

[GixxerMatt]

haha well i pretty much know and she has said that if i get another bike she is gone and i dont wanna break a 2 year relashionship up for a bike :p but i love them to much to not have one haha i want the best of both worlds.

[Bibio]

tell her the truth, if she dont like it then get another girlfriend or stick with riding bikes. bikes dont moan when you ride others.

[barwel1992]

if shes that shallow to let a bike break you up then id say your better off without ... my gf is fine with it comes on the back most of the time to my discomfort

[dizzyblonde]

Can't stand bloody women who say.....its either me or.....

If a bloke said that to me

http://gadgetsteria.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/lol-cat-middle-finger.jpg

:D

[Jordy]

My girlyfriend also hates them for the dangers involved, I just ignore her though and I think you should grow some balls and do what you want without lying or feeling guilty about it. In my opinion a 125 is just as dangerous anyway.

[GixxerMatt]

lol that pic is amazing :') and i SHOULD grow some balls but its gonna end badly haha

[Bibio]

if she really loves you she will understand. she might not like it but there will be things that she does that you dont like.

[GixxerMatt]

I dont think she will actually leave me but the moaning im gonna get for months on end haha can a lady on here tell me the best way youd liek to be told about it haha?

[minimorecambe]

can a lady on here tell me the best way youd liek to be told about it haha?

Throw here a helmet and tell her to hop on :)

(that would do for me anyway but I am quite partial to bikes :p )

[GixxerMatt]

HAHA Gav is a lucky man :p

[dizzyblonde]

I dont think she will actually leave me but the moaning im gonna get for months on end haha can a lady on here tell me the best way youd liek to be told about it haha?


Yeah,

Look Love, I've got me a new bikes innit, if you don't like it, theres nowt you can do!(read feck orf)

Seriously, I nursed my ex, after he had his hip replaced, ten years after a serious bike accident. I kepy my gob firmly shut when he got back on his bike four weeks after the operation.
Pegs got half his leg missing, I might express concern at times BUT

I NEVER stop any bloke getting on his bike, entirely upto them, hypocritical if I was to kick up a fuss, the only time I will do that is if yer acting like a c0ck on the road;)

[GixxerMatt]

lmao "Look Love, I've got me a new bikes innit, if you don't like it, theres nowt you can do!" thats exactly what i is gonna say :p

and ive told her im gonna do my bike safe this year and she knows i ride safe :p

[Bibio]

take her shopping coz women love shopping. head straight to the nearest bike clothing shop take her in and say 'you had better pick a lid and leathers coz your going to need them'. there job done and she gets to go shopping.

[dizzyblonde]

Forgot to say, you must do it in a voice like Taj from Come fly with me..

Of course you could always do what minimorcame says, throw her a lid, and say

'wanna be me bitch then innit?' :P

[GixxerMatt]

lol Bibio thats man logic at its best :D

[GixxerMatt]

Forgot to say, you must do it in a voice like Taj from Come fly with me..

Of course you could always do what minimorcame says, throw her a lid, and say

'wanna be me bitch then innit?' :P


im gonna do it soon and let you lot know how it goes lmao

[maviczap]

This doesn't sound like a recipie for a stable and long term relationship, if she doesn't like you ridin a bike. :|

You're just goin to end up resenting her for spoiling your fun. :|

I know she's concerned for your safety & welfare, but she needs to take a chill pill I'm afraid :rolleyes:

[GixxerMatt]

This doesn't sound like a recipie for a stable and long term relationship, if she doesn't like you ridin a bike. :|

You're just goin to end up resenting her for spoiling your fun. :|

I know she's concerned for your safety & welfare, but she needs to take a chill pill I'm afraid :rolleyes:


thats exactly right :D

[-Ralph-]

Do you think she could be convinced? If so I have a plan!

Wait 'til the biking season starts proper, and tell her you've heard about a pub that does really nice food by a canal, and bring her out on a Wednesday

https://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=101268957247

When you arrive "Wow, where did all these bikes come from, can we have a look around?"

Be really interested in a yellow Gixxer we have for sale at a great price ;-) , have the debate in the car park over whether you should buy it and we'll offer to buy you both a drink. We'll tell her how we are all experienced bikers, and it's not a dangerous as the general public would have you believe, in fact it's as safe as you want to make it. We'll even take her out on pillion for a nice smooth safe easy bimble, see if she enjoys it.

She thinks she was part of buying the bike, all sorted! :mrgreen:

[maviczap]

She thinks she was part of buying the bike, all sorted! :mrgreen:

If only it was that simple Ralph :D

[GixxerMatt]

that is an amazing plan i like your thinking :D could just work

[yorkie_chris]

haha well i pretty much know and she has said that if i get another bike she is gone and i dont wanna break a 2 year relashionship up for a bike :p but i love them to much to not have one haha i want the best of both worlds.

You're a bad bad person for letting some wench get in the way of the things you like doing.


You need to talk. Tell her you love bikes and you're buying a GSXR, you're going to be as careful as you can and do some advanced training etc. but they're a big part of your life and very important to you.
If she says "no" then f*ck her off quick sharp as she's clearly too selfish to let you do what you enjoy.

Alternatively just tip up on the GSXR to her place and see what happens, I think I prefer this course of action.

[Milky Bar Kid]

Just get her told!

[dizzyblonde]

:smt037YC>......wenchfinder general


http://www.britmovie.co.uk/wp-content/images/films/films-1968-witchfinder-general.jpg

[yorkie_chris]

Just read in another thread that you own a smart car.

I retract my earlier statement and instead think you need to get up here and be fed at least 12 pints of bitter until you grow a pair. :-P

[-Ralph-]

If only it was that simple Ralph :D

http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd82/colinbal4/bike_for_sale.jpg

[dizzyblonde]

Just read in another thread that you own a smart car.

I retract my earlier statement and instead think you need to get up here and be fed at least 12 pints of bitter until you grow a pair. :-P


He needs to attend 'a lads night out' on the beer, and be fed copious amounts of woowoo by Dave Preston...that should sort it:D

[yorkie_chris]

Yeah that and come out for a hoon, preferably before the boozing. Driving a faggots motor, worrying about wenches... he's a bloody disgrace to the GSXR lineage....

[Wideboy]

im gona tell her

[-Ralph-]

Or just tell her you're repainting the 125 yellow, most non biking birds wouldn't have a clue!

I have a mate that has one bike kept at home, another kept at work. He leaves on one bike and returns on the other. They are both the same colour, and his wife thinks it's the same bike :lol:

[suicidesam]

I'm with YC.. just turn up at her door on it! :p

When i got back into biking my wife said she was not keen on the idea and don't even bother asking her to go on it... roll on 2 years and she was on the back of it heading up to the superbikes at Knockhill! Ali wanted to go up to watch the racing and said we'll take the car, my reply was get on the bike or yer not going, there's no danger I'm sitting in the traffic and amazed me when she replied with "you'd better buy me some gear then" :smt119

[missyburd]

Get it all out in the open, if she really doesn't want to lose you then she'll just have to get used to the idea. And appreciate the fact she's got you in one piece every time you get off the bike seeing as you'll be riding it anyway. Life's too short!




she HATES bikes for the simple fact that i could hurt myself ( her dad used to have one and her broke a knee ect ect)


But of course driving about in a car or walking from A to B you eliminate ALL risk of injury...put two wheels and an engine into the equation and you WILL DIE! *


*subject to stupid behaviour and lack of control.

Just read in another thread that you own a smart car.

FFs we have to stop this, its getting on my nippyjangles!

[Ed]

It's your life, do what you wanna do. It'll cause friction every time you mention the bike, and when you go out on it she'll make life hell. So just tell her and make it clear that the bike stays. If she don't like it, the door is that way. Some people really are very selfish:rolleyes:

She'll still leave you anyway, I mean who could cope with a bloke in a Smart car:laughat::laughat::smt082:smt082

PS Are you a hairdresser:colors:

[BanannaMan]

Plenty of women in the world that are oK with motorcycle riding.
Hiding the bike, lying to her, etc. Do you really enjoy that?
Get rid of her, she's not worth it.

[dizzyblonde]

FFs we have to stop this, its getting on my nippyjangles!


Nippleclamps or jumpleads?...your choice:smt112

[thulfi]

Ball crud, I'd give up biking for sheryl tweedy

[maviczap]

FFs we have to stop this, its getting on my nippyjangles!

Is this a local term or one only known to you.

You may have to explain what it means :p

Made me laugh when I read it :D

[missyburd]

Is this a local term or one only known to you.

You may have to explain what it means :p

I may have to explain? in that case I may not, it does you good to sit and stew over it. ;)

[maviczap]

I may have to explain? in that case I may not, it does you good to sit and stew over it. ;)

Ok you have to explain, LOL :p

[dirtydog]

I'm with YC just turn up on it, that's what I would do.

[Specialone]

When I finally got round to passing my test a couple of years ago, my wife wasn't keen at all, but knowing how pig headed I am, she tolerated it.
Two years on, she goes pillion and secretly likes it, i never thought she would even get on tbh.
You can't base a relationship on lies, it has to be total trust or nothing IMO.

Ps smart cars are extremely feminine, so why ???
Unless that is, it has a highly strung motorbike engine that goes like stink, yours isn't one of them is it?

[-Ralph-]

Hmmm, the OP hasn't posted since the pi$$ taking started about the smart car :lol:

[Electro]

I mentioned getting a bike to my soon to be wife about 6 years ago. Got told that i had no chance, got married, got divorced got bike :)

[The Idle Biker]

Yes you are a bad person, say 3 hail mary's and give your car to a gay tramp as penance.

[metalangel]

There was a virtually identical thread on BCF not long ago... the usual response of 'punch her in the tits and do her up the gary' was agreed.

Or, just decide if you like bikes or whatever she does for/to you more.

[GixxerMatt]

HAHA what does every one have against smart cars. its great on fuel £30 tax for a year and its got a brabus turbo and variouse other things in it making 107bhp in a car that weight under a ton its rapid lol i love it.

and to answer another question no i am not a hairdresser lmao im a 6'2 roofer hahah

[GixxerMatt]

owww polished le link pipe and clutch cover :D see how can any one not like bikes :smt016

[missyburd]

im a 6'2 roofer hahah
6'2? In a Smart car? Was that a smart move? :-P

[dizzyblonde]

owww polished le link pipe and clutch cover :D see how can any one not like bikes :smt016


NOPE......you can't get in our club with just a link pipe....get back in your corner and do the DOWNPIPE!

Just because you blind us with shinyness, does not disguise the fact you drive a SMART CAR!!!!!

[metalangel]

Gixxermatt's car, yesterday:

http://www.pushchairreviews.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Tippitoes-Spark-Stroller.jpg

[Stuuk1]

so here's the story had a gixxer from the ripe old age of 17 it got stolen just before my 18th (gutted lol) brought a 125 to get around on from the insurance money. passed car test got a car.. got bored of car and wanted another bike.

the thing is my girlyfriend HATES bikes and i mean hates she hated my 50cc she hated my gixxer even more so when i brought my new gixxer i never told her at all.

as far as she knows it dosnt exist. i go to her house in my car and the gixxer stays in the garage under covers :p

she HATES bikes for the simple fact that i could hurt myself ( her dad used to have one and her broke a knee ect ect)

so by not telling her she dosnt worry as far as she knows ive got a car and a 125cc in the garage i never really use.

so am i a BAD person for not telling her ive brought myself a new gixxer? cuz i sure feel bad :p

Grow some balls man! She sounds like a nightmare. Get rid and find a new woman.

My gf hates me riding bikes but also wants to come on the back... She's odd but what woman isn't ;)

She will never come on back of my bike and I will never give up biking! I win, I wear the trousers haha.

[Stuuk1]

HAHA what does every one have against smart cars. its great on fuel £30 tax for a year and its got a brabus turbo and variouse other things in it making 107bhp in a car that weight under a ton its rapid lol i love it.

and to answer another question no i am not a hairdresser lmao im a 6'2 roofer hahah

Your missus clearly decided she wanted a smart car...

[Paul the 6th]

yeah prolly worth telling her buddy, if it's something you love doing then why should another person's fears or worries stop you? Obviously you appreciate that she's just worried about you, but putting an outright ban on it & threatening to end the relationship is a bit childish & spoilt.

My ex was constantly giving it "When are you gonna get rid of that thing?" or "That thing's going as soon as we're having kids" or "the time is coming where you'll have to grow up and stop playing with motorbikes" etc... Amongst other things, she basically pushed me away and made me despise her.

Then I met someone new who was really supportive of it all, and although she worries she understands that I love it....... Ironically enough I've gotten a bit bored of it all over the last 6 months and decided to take some time out from biking.

[thedonal]

So.

Have you told her yet?

:)

[Quedos]

Tell her. life is all about compromises and this is one that she'll have to take. FFS you'll probably come off worse in a car accident.
IP's mum told him that she didn't want to know when he passed so he has told her - but women ain't stupid.

I gave IP the ultimateum when I was taking my test - i do it with or without his blessing. The risk of ending up in a wheel chair is one I take not anyone else. think about what she does that you don't query.
its about give and take if you were riding before she cam along - i'm sorry but in my eyes its a tough "you knew I ride when you first went out with me. Its something that I will not compromise on - love me love my bikes"

harsh i know but thats me!

[GixxerMatt]

6'2? In a Smart car? Was that a smart move? :-P


yeah there actually roomy inside no one knows this of course as they just see the outside and laugh but like i say im 6'2 and broad (fat lol) and there is plenty of room more so than most cars.

[BanannaMan]

Of course the danger in all this 'tell the gf' advice is that if you do "man up" and tell her, you'll likely find yourself wanting to be rid of that (not so) Smart Car. ;)

[Ed]

So.

Have you told her yet?

:)

No he hasn't. The 6'2" and broad roofer is afraid of a woman:smt080

[missyburd]

#bacarrrrrrkkkkk#

(I think that's what a chicken sounds like on a forum..)

;)

[dizzyblonde]

#bacarrrrrrkkkkk#

(I think that's what a chicken sounds like on a forum..)

;)


:smt117

[Reeder]

Poof.

[maviczap]

Poof.

Takes one to know one ;)

[GixxerMatt]

haha i never told her ive brought one but i simply said i want another one and no matter what im gonna get one for summer and im now single hahaha its crazy how soem one can hate bikes soo much oww well.

P.S my gf (ex gf) may only be 5'1 and 8 stone but she scares me haha id rather pick a fight on a 7 foot nutter with a knife than her lolol

[GixxerMatt]

NOPE......you can't get in our club with just a link pipe....get back in your corner and do the DOWNPIPE!

Just because you blind us with shinyness, does not disguise the fact you drive a SMART CAR!!!!!

i was gonna do the whole thing i brought stainless bolts for the header and everything took the rad off and discovered some one had rounded about 6 of the bolts off so the headers are firmly held in place and there is no way im polishing them unless they are off the bike hehe :p

[yorkie_chris]

haha i never told her ive brought one but i simply said i want another one and no matter what im gonna get one for summer and im now single hahaha its crazy how soem one can hate bikes soo much oww well.


Good riddance I say.

i was gonna do the whole thing i brought stainless bolts for the header and everything took the rad off and discovered some one had rounded about 6 of the bolts off so the headers are firmly held in place and there is no way im polishing them unless they are off the bike hehe :p

Hehe much entertainment getting those out. Are they studs and nuts or bolts?

[Kenzie]

edit, just seen your post about being single. My wife says she shoould F-O but looks like she has!

[GixxerMatt]

Good riddance I say.



Hehe much entertainment getting those out. Are they studs and nuts or bolts?

there allen head bolts and rustey as a rusty thing in a rainy place. :smt101

[barwel1992]

there allen head bolts and rustey as a rusty thing in a rainy place. :smt101

dont touch them ......

[Ceri JC]

Good move on telling her and good riddance. Don't be too down, the girls who like bikes are generally much more fun anyway. ;)

[Stuuk1]

Awesome, stupid woman! E-mail her a link to this thread...

[dizzyblonde]

Good riddance!!

:cool:

Now who else wants a hand with shoving their partners....care of the org:smt101

[tom-k6]

how can someone not like bikes? i personally think she had a disorder, but thats just me.

and girls who like bikes are interesting, funny and 9/10 sexier than those who dont, (the other 1/10 are the hardley driveable women........aquired taste)

[-Ralph-]

How f'ing stupid is that? She cares for you so much that she doesn't want you to get hurt on a bike, but cares for you so little that she's dumped you over it!

Good riddance mate, shows she didn't care about you anyway and you were wasting your time with her.

:confused:

[yorkie_chris]

So what car are you buying?

[metalangel]

http://www.leblogauto.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/Joest_O/nissan_micra_C_C_pink.jpg

[davepreston]

but my midget friend (yes im bigger than you) just think soon she will come crawling back after all her friend see the ridiculasly cool "bad boy" on the bike and start asking her for your number, then your down to 2 options, take her back knowing that you have won the first (and most important) battle, or feck each and every one of her friends ,and taking each of a jolly on the bike too so she hears nothing but stories about your greatness and how much fun it was out on the bike

enjoy


ps i vote option 2

[Specialone]

Yep, option 2 all the way :)

Dave, you should write the dear deidre columns in the papers :)

[davepreston]

shuuush no one knows my day job

[GixxerMatt]

haha dave aka deidre option 2 sounds good to me to be honest :p

[metalangel]

He was a biker boi, she said "see you loi-tah boy", he wasn't good enough for her.

Now he shags all her mates, never more mas-tah-bates, he is always neck deep in fur :p

[Stuuk1]

Are you back with her yet or did you sell the bike...?