Consent

[SIII]

Brilliant. On a week where Bedforshire Police are being a bunch of Tw*ts, here's some polis actually doing something useful.

zXju34Uwuys

or use LINK (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXju34Uwuys)

[DarrenSV650S]

Jesus Christ that is retarded

[DJ123]

Video doesn't exist?

[SIII]

Jesus Christ that is retarded

WHY ? Is not really aimed at our age group, but more at teenagers and young adults. Very important message conveyed in a simple non-confusing manner.

Think it's brilliant.

Clink on the LINK (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXju34Uwuys), can't get video to work !!!

[DarrenSV650S]

Well do you really think that someone who would rape, would watch and think "ahhh I didn't realise that it wasn't ok!" and change their ways? I think anyone who is sick enough to rape someone has a pretty good idea how wrong it is

[Teejayexc]

That was on Russel Howards show last night...thought the one they did along similar lines about the tories was the brilliant one.

[pookie]

I think its very funny.. I like tea :)

Unfortunately as with most health and saftey issues the risk is always with the tea maker as it involves hot water which is very dangerous ( hot tea can scold and you'll get into hot water over this one.)

Also if you drink tea without take the necesary precautions you may find you end up with more than you bargained for as well as going to the toilet alot.

Its probably best not to drink tea from strangers. Make sure you are very clear what kind of tea you would like, after all not everyone likes sugar or milk. I've had salty tea and its disgusting but thats another story.

Tea is not for everyone... ummkay

[SIII]

This is not aimed at rapists! This is aimed a young stupid people who drink too much and then find themselves arrested next morning.

[maviczap]

That was on Russel Howards show last night...thought the one they did along similar lines about the tories was the brilliant one.

Agreed, i watched it on Iplayer after reading this. Unfortunately its all too true.

[Red Herring]

This is not aimed at rapists! This is aimed a young stupid people who drink too much and then find themselves arrested next morning.

Exactly.

I know of cases where an individual has drunk a cup of tea someone made them without saying anything, and then later complained that they didn't actually ask them to make it for them and only drunk it because they didn't want to appear ungrateful.

Far safer these days to only drink tea with people who have pretty much made it for themselves....

[Red ones]

There is another story running in the press about people who didn't say no to tea but drank it because they didn't have the nerve to say sorry I don't drink tea. They then drink the tea it appears to be the polite thing to do but in reality they wanted coffee.

When it comes to court the person making the tea says they didn't say no to tea, but the court says they didn't say yes to tea.

I can't find the article in the papers but it was earlier this week and it was quite interesting.

[Luckypants]

This is not aimed at rapists! This is aimed a young stupid people who drink too much and then find themselves arrested next morning.Errr it IS aimed at rapists, even if it is young stupid ones who drink too much. Having sex with someone without their consent when young, drunk or stupid is STILL RAPE. A rapist is not some big ugly bloke who goes out stalking women, dragging them away and raping them - most of them are ordinary fellas who think sex has been consented to 'because they wanted tea last' etc. Marital rape is quite a big thing too, "because being married to someone means they agree to sex'.

My problem with the video is that 'young stupid people' won't get the allegory that tea is actually sex here.

More on young people's lack of understanding of consent here

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-34470205

and watch 'IS THIS RAPE? on BBC3 iPlayer to see just how ill-informed the young are on consent.

[SIII]

Most rape is not commited by sexual predators, most reported cases are where permission is not fully clear. Do you walk into the bedroom and say " I would like a mug of tea, strong, spalsh of milk, one sugar with a custard cream on the side, now get your knickers off! Most people don't ask straight out, they fumble around in the hope they get some tea. That's wher confusion can happen.


And that is why the message is an important one. Young people have a bad habit of not saying yes to tea, then deciding later that they had infered they didn't want tea but tea had taken place and now the Tea Polis are involved and the lives of a young tea drinker are ruined.

I know of cases like this, and with all the publicity surrounding forced tea, young daft tea drinkers feel that if it was not a wonderful fulfilling brew they had, then it must of been rape, sorry I meant forced tea !!!

[Teejayexc]

...... "because being married to someone means they agree to sex'.



:confused: I must have married the wrong woman!

[Luckypants]

Marital rape is quite a big thing too, "because being married to someone means they agree to sex'.

:confused: I must have married the wrong woman!

I was being sarcastic there, hence the quotes. I didn't think that would need pointing out.

[Teejayexc]

I was being sarcastic there, hence the quotes. I didn't think that would need pointing out.

You "don't" say.


< note the "quotes" >. :rolleyes:

[embee]

Presumably MI5 will be monitoring all the tea drinking websites. If you're into watching other people drinking tea, either in twos or maybe groups in what I believe is termed "tea parties" you may be at risk of being put on a tea register.


... and if you think Lapsang souchong is OK then you should be ashamed of yourself, pervert.

[pookie]

How does one know if the person asking for tea hasn't drunk something else a bit stronger only to regret asking for tea later on. Does one have to breathalyse and drug test each potential tea drinker. On a interview on the radio, a tea maker was arrested when someone claimed they didnt ask for tea now has voice recordings of potential tea drinkers asking for tea stating their name etc. Unfortunately it is a real case. This of course doesn't condone the actions of other tea makers.

[Red ones]

I have just returned from a firework party at a friends house. The wife asked if anyone wanted tea. She then offered to make a pot of tea and put it on the table for anyone who wanted tea.

I told her to keep her filthy ways to herself in future.

She looked a little put out, as did her husband who appeared with some saucers and a few biscuits.

Disgusting people. I made my excuses and left.

[Teejayexc]

^^^^
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[Biker Biggles]

More tea vicar?

[embee]

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[ClunkintheUK]

I did make myself a lot of tea when I was younger. Its very easy to know if you yourself want tea. I also found as a teenager, that if you really enjoyed your tea there generally wasn't anything stopping you having another tea.