View Full Version : Have you ever hit a woman?!
Well, going along the lines of the Unfaithful thread...
Come very close once, when the ex and I were having a BLAZING row. It was either her or the wall. I went away with a broken hand. 'Nuff said!
Shinsei Jutsu
07-02-05, 08:47 AM
Not in the way you mean. I have in my martial arts classes, but in those we were always told to fight everyone as equals, never look down on a beginner and never look down on a women (and in my case up to almost everyone!)
I'd hit a few people for hitting women though! :roll:
absolutely catagorically no f*****g way.
no excuse for it, whatever the provocation. do what Mark did, hit something else if you really have to.
hitting a woman is extremely cowardly.
just my opinion.
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 08:51 AM
Nope never have, I did pick my ex up and throw her across the Kitchen in our flat once, was a pretty bad thing to do, but she was trying to cut her wrists open with a knife at the time and that was the quickest way to get her away from the knife she was trying to pick up
becoming a bit of a nosey old git lately mate ?
Shinsei Jutsu
07-02-05, 08:56 AM
absolutely catagorically no f*****g way.
no excuse for it, whatever the provocation. do what Mark did, hit something else if you really have to.
hitting a woman is extremely cowardly.
just my opinion.
Gotta agree with you there. No chance I would hit a woman in anyway, except in practice at the club. never would in real life.
Fizz, good save is all I can say, anything to stop them doing that!
And agree with M65, if you have to hit, hit something else.
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 08:58 AM
I still felt like **** about doing that though, I couldnt grab her wrists or aynthing as she would have cut me instead, I didnt really know what else to do it was a gut reaction kind of thing
Shinsei Jutsu
07-02-05, 09:01 AM
I still felt like **** about doing that though, I couldnt grab her wrists or aynthing as she would have cut me instead, I didnt really know what else to do it was a gut reaction kind of thing I can understand you feeling bad, but that was fast thinking to stop her. Hope she's ok.
absolutely catagorically no f*****g way.
no excuse for it, whatever the provocation. do what Mark did, hit something else if you really have to.
hitting a woman is extremely cowardly.
just my opinion.
OMG, I'm agreeing with Keith! :shock:
mysteryjimbo
07-02-05, 09:03 AM
I used to fight my sister when I was younger, does that count?? She was 3 years older than me.
Other than that, i have physically ejected a woman from the house and slapped a woman for slapping me (not a full one, just one to make a noise). But i wouldnt put that in the same class of "hitting" as in punch/thump as it wasnt intentioned to hurt just shock.
Whose seen Airplane?? :lol:
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 09:04 AM
I still felt like **** about doing that though, I couldnt grab her wrists or aynthing as she would have cut me instead, I didnt really know what else to do it was a gut reaction kind of thing I can understand you feeling bad, but that was fast thinking to stop her. Hope she's ok.
Yes she was OK in then end, we we're up all night talking that night and we got it sorted
No, not unless you count a little bit of playful spanking? :wink:
I've been on the receiving end of someone who thought it was ok to hit women not only did he put me in hospital but after i walked away he the next girl in hospital too
shutdown
07-02-05, 09:08 AM
i've been hit by a woman. She tried to stab me first but i got the knife off her so then she lamped me one in face and then in the b*llocks. during the fight the knife caught my wrist and just missed the main artery.
all caught on cctv and she just finished doing a 5 year stretch for attempted murder.
that was a bad moment for me, i don' think i've ever been so scared in my life!
mysteryjimbo
07-02-05, 09:10 AM
i've been hit by a woman. She tried to stab me first but i got the knife off her so then she lamped me one in face and then in the b*llocks. during the fight the knife caught my wrist and just missed the main artery.
all caught on cctv and she just finished doing a 5 year stretch for attempted murder.
that was a bad moment for me, i don' think i've ever been so scared in my life!
My mate got stabbed by his ex. 2 inchs from his heart.
Shouldnt the next survey be, how many men have been in a violent relationship when it was the woman who was violent?
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 09:14 AM
i've been hit by a woman. She tried to stab me first but i got the knife off her so then she lamped me one in face and then in the b*llocks. during the fight the knife caught my wrist and just missed the main artery.
all caught on cctv and she just finished doing a 5 year stretch for attempted murder.
that was a bad moment for me, i don' think i've ever been so scared in my life!
My mate got stabbed by his ex. 2 inchs from his heart.
Shouldnt the next survey be, how many men have been in a violent relationship when it was the woman who was violent?
Alot more than will admit I bet
i've been hit by a woman. She tried to stab me first but i got the knife off her so then she lamped me one in face and then in the b*llocks. during the fight the knife caught my wrist and just missed the main artery.
all caught on cctv and she just finished doing a 5 year stretch for attempted murder.
that was a bad moment for me, i don' think i've ever been so scared in my life!
:shock: :shock: Jaysus!
Mrs Scoobs ain't so bad afterall.
She puts up with me. She must be a saint!
Nick762
07-02-05, 09:19 AM
Never had to hit a woman I'm glad to say, even my ex who had a go at me a few times.
Women have no concept of fighting fair, they fight to win and will use any weapon at their disposal including the fact that most blokes I'm glad to say still hold back even under the greatest from hitting women. Is this misplaced gallantry?
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 09:22 AM
I dont ever think that you should hit another human being female or not, violence is no answer
next thread ought to be have you ever had a fight!!
and what was the result!
:wink:
I dont ever think that you should hit another human being female or not, violence is no answer
:winner: =D>
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 09:33 AM
next thread ought to be have you ever had a fight!!
and what was the result!
:wink:
tis done
wheelnut
07-02-05, 09:39 AM
Next question should be:
WTF
What has brought this on?
Never hit a Woman, and never would but I had a few close shaves with them hitting me. But I always seem to pick mentally certifiable women :cry:
Nutkins
07-02-05, 09:45 AM
No .... you shouldn't hit a woman, or anyone for that matter.
But in cases of extreme self defence, a person must be able to do what is neccesary to protect themselves. I'll be f@#ked if I'm going to stand there and have anyone threaten me with a weapon ... male of female.
Unfortunately, with what is happening in society today, the answer to the question is not so clear.
I miss the days of when you could beat children with big sticks and send them to the work-houses. :wink: (Said with jest, but did he mean it?).
With each new generation, standards in society are slowly being erroded, because the generation before are allowing it.
becoming a bit of a nosey old git lately mate ?
:lol: Im bored ya see ;)
Amanda M
07-02-05, 10:48 AM
No, but my ex hit me quite a few times, got small scars on my face to prove it :roll:
What an evil bitch... There's no excuse for any sort of violence, man hitting woman or woman hitting man - it's still domestic violence which ever way you look at it.
topbird23
07-02-05, 11:11 AM
Mines similar to Tara, been on the other end, he only got the chance to do it once though. In the process I got me a nice stab wound and broken bones.
Nutkins
07-02-05, 11:13 AM
I have scars too! Deep, emotional ones!
But I don't like to talk about it. :D
What an utter c**t.
clot???
cant???
What can those missing letters be?
Nutkins
07-02-05, 11:32 AM
coot?
KUNTZ?
he played for germany you know
KUNTZ?
he played for germany you know
That's no help at all! Now stop talking football and tell me what the word is! :lol: :lol:
timwilky
07-02-05, 11:42 AM
I voted yes on the grounds that I had asked my wife to stop hitting me about 10 times and lightly tapped her shoulder. The effect was amazing.
"You hit me!", "Yes, but you were hitting me and I did ask you to stop". "Well if you won't argue, what do you expect me to do".
Domestic abuse should not be tolerated. nobody deserves a violent partner. However, why do we see all these refuges for the victims of domestic violence. (Far too many they really should be relics of the past). that are sanctuaries for the female of the species. Where are battered husbands supposed to go. (If they are able to admit that they are victims of domestic violence etc.)
shutdown
07-02-05, 12:13 PM
when the media hear of a battered husband they treat it like it's a one off or a freak show.
Cloggsy
07-02-05, 12:25 PM
I haven't hit a woman, but I have had to put one to the ground before (in my former job...) She was about to thrust a broken pint glass into my face :roll: :evil: lovely girl :shock:
shutdown
07-02-05, 12:35 PM
I haven't hit a woman, but I have had to put one to the ground before (in my former job...) She was about to thrust a broken pint glass into my face :roll: :evil: lovely girl :shock:
and they want to make pubs 24 hour? imagine how friendly these types of gilrs will get!
I cant remember the last time I hit anyone, man or woman. I'm just not a fighter. :D
Having said that, why is it a big deal about hitting a woman? surely hitting anyone is wrong. Beside most of the women I know, are bigger than me, and they might win! And what about IT geeks, most of those are weedier than most women I know, but they are technically male. :twisted:
But seriously, if we're all equal why split out hitting women? I say give all sexes and races an equal beating! :twisted:
Nope (apart from my VERY annoying little sister about 25 years ago). Never would hit either male or female, violence is NOT the Answer to any problem.
No but I have smacked my daughter. Have only done it a few times, not so as to inflict pain, but to shock her out of a raging tantrum.
Lionheart
07-02-05, 01:02 PM
Only under controlled circumstances (in a ring/class, like shinsei), but realistically I will have to vote no for this
Carsick
07-02-05, 01:12 PM
I dont ever think that you should hit another human being female or not, violence is no answer
I haven't got to the end of the thread yet, but this is pretty much what I would say.
It's very, very rare that you should actually have to hit somebody, and them being a woman shouldn't be the reason you stop yourself.
Of course, I'm not including mucking around and so on, I think alot of blokes have been in the kind of fight where everybody shakes hands afterwards then get more beer.
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
Nutkins
07-02-05, 01:52 PM
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
Just another Friday night in Manchester. :wink:
WildBill
07-02-05, 02:00 PM
So what about bongage then? If she/he wants a right old spanking, I can't see the harm in that! :shock:
Nutkins
07-02-05, 02:08 PM
So what about bongage then? If she/he wants a right old spanking, I can't see the harm in that!
:lol: :lol: :lol: PMSL
shutdown
07-02-05, 02:20 PM
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
topbird23
07-02-05, 02:28 PM
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
suppose when you do that it dont matter whether its male or female :shock:
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
suppose when you do that it dont matter whether its male or female :shock:
She was about to set fire to some poor bloke that was doused in petrol and wearing a tyre round his neck. We piled into the crowd and thumped the lot of 'em. The bloke was accused of being "sellout" because he'd refused to boycott white businesses and bought medicine for his wife from the closest chemist. If it wasn't for the risk of muzzle flashes setting the fuel off we'd have happily killed the lot of them. Can't believe how angry I'm getting just thinking about it.....
Where are battered husbands supposed to go.
Down the pub 'til they've calmed down a bit :thumbsup:
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
suppose when you do that it dont matter whether its male or female :shock:
She was about to set fire to some poor bloke that was doused in petrol and wearing a tyre round his neck.
Gurning competition getting a bit heated, was it? :lol:
Shouldn't joke - sounds nasty.
fizzwheel
07-02-05, 02:47 PM
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
suppose when you do that it dont matter whether its male or female :shock:
She was about to set fire to some poor bloke that was doused in petrol and wearing a tyre round his neck. We piled into the crowd and thumped the lot of 'em. The bloke was accused of being "sellout" because he'd refused to boycott white businesses and bought medicine for his wife from the closest chemist. If it wasn't for the risk of muzzle flashes setting the fuel off we'd have happily killed the lot of them. Can't believe how angry I'm getting just thinking about it.....
Feck :shock: thats sounds well dodgy situation
topbird23
07-02-05, 02:50 PM
wasnt being judgemental burner :kiss: :shock:
Mrs Jabba-the-Hutt
07-02-05, 02:51 PM
Where are battered husbands supposed to go.
Down the pub 'til they've calmed down a bit :thumbsup:
I'll still be here when you get back! :twisted:
Nutkins
07-02-05, 02:53 PM
SO .... CAN I HIT PEOPLE?!!
Where are battered husbands supposed to go.
Down the pub 'til they've calmed down a bit :thumbsup:
I'll still be here when you get back! :twisted:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
suppose when you do that it dont matter whether its male or female :shock:
She was about to set fire to some poor bloke that was doused in petrol and wearing a tyre round his neck.
Gurning competition getting a bit heated, was it? :lol:
Shouldn't joke - sounds nasty.
PMSL. I know you shouldn't joke but that was comic genius.
shutdown
07-02-05, 03:06 PM
Burner, being a bit new here i don't know what you do
what do you do?
shutdown
07-02-05, 03:16 PM
yeah we worked out the hobby, now wondering about the job :)
I once split a woman's head open with the butt of my rifle, had to be done. Pretty much no regrets about it either.
suppose when you do that it dont matter whether its male or female :shock:
She was about to set fire to some poor bloke that was doused in petrol and wearing a tyre round his neck.
Gurning competition getting a bit heated, was it? :lol:
Shouldn't joke - sounds nasty.
PMSL. I know you shouldn't joke but that was comic genius.
EDIT: What is gurning?
Burner, being a bit new here i don't know what you do
what do you do?
I'm a service engineer these days.
The incident described was way back in 1987, a few days before my 18th birthday.
What is gurning? I don't know that one.
http://images.encarta.msn.com/xrefmedia/sharemed/targets/images/pho/t312/T312269A.jpg
What is gurning? I don't know that one.
http://images.encarta.msn.com/xrefmedia/sharemed/targets/images/pho/t312/T312269A.jpg
I see......
shutdown
07-02-05, 05:42 PM
you've met my family i see
I weigh the same as most women... Means I save money on having to buy carbon bits for the bike as I AM a weight saving, but does mean I wouldn't be able to stand there and take a beatig off one "because I'm a bloke innit" :roll:
Have not hit anyone in all the time I can remember, but if I was defending myself or my friends and family, women can be as dangerous.psychotic as men. As proved by some of the posts here.
You get good people and bad people some of them happen to be female. Do as you would be done by I reckon!
Well, I have hit a girl. It was school time, I was new and the bullies where doing their thing. I took on the head bully and won. Wasn't proud of it, in fact rather ashamed that it took violence to sort things out.
On another note, I've been thrown across a dance floor by a guy, apparently I was dancing 'in his space'. That was rather painful.
Anonymous
07-02-05, 06:20 PM
yes
Only if she enjoyed it :wink:
Do sisters count? :lol:
yes
Cat fight! Cat fight! :lol:
I'm one of the 'violence isn't the answer' brigade, and would do anything not to resort to physical violence.
That said, there are times when it is you're only recourse. If put in such a situation (as I have a couple of times) I take the view that I will do my best to make the encounter as short, brutal and efficient as possible - regardless of gender.
I have been lucky on those occasions in the past that I have prevailed and I feel no guilt or remorse for that. Likewise, if I hadn't, I feel that I would at least have been able to preserve myself mentally, if not physically.
What is weird is that I can tolerate alot more abuse aimed at me than I can when it is aimed at a friend. :oops:
Having worked as security at both a nightclub and both Reading and Phoenix Rock Festivals, I can say that the vast majority of fights I have witnessed have been started over some misplaced macho protectiveness over a woman... and more often than not the whole situation has been made worse by the woman egging the guys on and obviously delighting in the attention. :roll:
not unless I count my sister when I was younger...
never would, altho a few have seriously provoked me
dirtydog
07-02-05, 07:33 PM
i voted no
cos hitting my sister doesnt count
nor does smacking my little girl when shes naughty :evil:
nor does playfull slap across the ****.
been on the receiving end once
...been on the receiving end once
What, of having your sister encourage your little girl to smack you with a playful slap across the **** for being naughty? :shock: :twisted:
northwind
07-02-05, 07:44 PM
I have done twice, both times when i was getting the crap kicked out of me. I'm not going to let someone beat me up because of what sex they are... If they're attacking me on the assumption that I won't fight back it's them that's cowardly, not me. I actually believe in equality, and that works both ways.
But I would never hit a woman without justification, any more than I would a man.
absolutely catagorically no f*****g way.
no excuse for it, whatever the provocation. do what Mark did, hit something else if you really have to.
hitting a woman is extremely cowardly.
just my opinion.
i disagree,
when a woman picks a fight with you (for whatever reason) she is treaded as an opponent.
ive had a few women coming at me, let me tell you, they punch just like a man. . . so sometimes there is no other option.
BTW - what is it with these fight threads ?
I actually believe in equality, and that works both ways.
=D>
Haircut
07-02-05, 08:17 PM
Yup,
the missus, but there where circumstances ..
She was getting the grub ready for her parents old springer (RIP) and she accidentlly trod on its bad (tumour) toe cos you know how dogs are when theres food about.
Anyway the toe start bleeding all over the kitchen floor, the dog don't care she just wants her dinner, so I try to get some kitchen towel around the dogs foot to stop the bleeding.
This is where the other half suddenly notices the blood (she hates blood), she goes hysterical
fine
only one problem, the other dog (king charles), who now also goes hysterical
fine
until ziggy (the dog) decides to join in with the other two.
So there I am in the kitchen two hysterical dogs and one hysterical woman (who is in floods of tears cos she thinks she's killed her dog) and blood is going everywhere.
And thats when I slapped her, just like in the films, it works too.
She just stopped where she was stunned.
I sorted the dog out, she ate her dinner.
The vet took the toe of a couple of days later (they wouldn't operate before, cos she was a bit too podgy).
She never missed it.
Anonymous
07-02-05, 10:32 PM
i voted no
been on the receiving end once
well you probably deserved it :shock:
dirtydog
08-02-05, 09:34 PM
nah not me, pure as the driven snow i am. :wink:
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