Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

im just looking for someone special.. that likes me for me.. not my cash.. or my bikes.. or any other reason, :( seems like a lost cause at the moment

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

Give yourself time to heal and then join Match.com. Worked for my sister. She is now shacked up with a Sport playing hunk!
:smt003

Top tip though, if you mention on the net that you are loaded, you will get a lot of Golddiggers. Look out for one legged girl called Heather, she can be a bit vicious! \\:D/

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

did you highlight the double standards that it's not a problem when her ex's get in touch but when yours does it's a big deal?

My missus used to have one ex who sent letters saying stuff like im sorry i was wierd i want you back etc... it freaked her out a bit - I never saw any reason to get mad at her about it... just told her she was going to be ok and we're moving away soon etc. When I got a message off my ex asking for a dvd back, she hit the roof. I put her straight and told her she was going to have to treat me the same way I treat her when things like this happen.

and as for nice guys finishing last - I like to think the idiots in life will end up miserable and/or lonely in the end, bit of a karma thing. ;)

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

yeah that all makes sense.. however match.com isnt really my cup of tea. i just spoke to her.. shes in the pub with her EX and to be honest that really didnt bother me.. because im starting to now not really care.. still cant shake thissickly feeling i always get, or maybe i should just see it for how it appears to be to her.. a little bit of fun and no commitment.. i mean the only reason i can think of that i feel so bad is because i thought we were going somewhere? screw it all.. i cant be bothered, im just tired by it all really, any females on here looking for anyone lol,...

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

life has its ups and downs and sometimes it can really suck ,when it does all you can do is remember the good times and move on ,it can take time to find the right person, but you will find someone :smt056 that wants you for who you are

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

yea.. i suppose, i dont really feel cut up about it to be fair just disapointed really, i put alot in.. i mean loads.. and im just fed up really.. it is/was far to much hasstle but i dont just quit that easily.. i think the next girl i meet is going to have a tough time getting in to the circle again...

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

Best description I ever heard is "women are snakes with Tits". Sounds like it could be right in some respects like these. :(

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

I am not a snake :( Got tits tho ;)

So does that just make me a big tit LOL

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

snigger!!

Re: why do women think its ok to mess blokes around?
 

... lol, snacks with racks.. !! lol, i love it when convosation De-gener8's lol,