Divorced 19 years and ....
 

Or perhaps it should read, "stalked by ex-wife."

Split 20yrs, divorced for 19yrs, and still all hell explodes too often. Married too young, grew up and grew apart. Because of the children, we were in contact often. I paid the maint, + extra on a regular basis so she could give them the best - and I wouldn't be seen as a sugar daddy for them, spoiling them whilst their mum couldn't do stuff for them was never going to happen.

I remarried 15yrs ago, to number 2 who has always tried her best for them too. But sadly with limited success.

Down the years my ex has turned up at all sorts of family do's. My mum and dad's golden anni, various birthday bashes.

Last Xmas the same but with the biggest almighty rumble, and fallout that lasted for months. Found out a few gems from them, like apparently I'd never paid the maint. FFS, I'd even paid it when they were at uni when strictly speaking I didn't have to.

Fast forward to this weekend. Got all the family together for my birthday bash. Great Saturday, taking them out on the bike. Great meal on the evening. Out with the dog yesterday on the beach. She turns up lunchtime, and starts World War 357.

Today the eldest girl tells me that she'd told mum about Mrs B's 50th in June, to Rome. The ex has only gone and booked the same holiday, at the same time in the same hotel.

It would be a shame to spend my twilight years in Durham jail but...

Breathe in, hold, and relax - rant over.

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

Fookin ell mate.

Now where did I put that bunny and that big pot?

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

jeez, some people eh?

Change the rome trip for you and yours and dont tell a soul, let crazy go out there on her own :lol:

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

Now that is an awesome idea!:D

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

Exactly what I was going to say, don't even tell the wife, (the current one) it would be a cracking surprise.

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

jayzuz i'm on form tonight :takeabow:

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

All hail the mighty Spidey :notworthy:

Take a bow my son:D

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

i give great advice to eveyone but myself, thats the irony. My own life is a fekin mess :lol:

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

Lie back on the couch, and tell the org all that ails you oh mighty Spidey.

Re: Divorced 19 years and ....
 

well since you asked.....


tis webby stuff aint as sticky as it used to be...



crawling walls is getting tedious...



caught my fair share of crims and hung em from lamposts for the finest criminal minds to convict em ... only to see em get off with a slap on the wrist!


Penguin keeps being a pain in the bedroom, yeh none of you knew about that did you...me and old penggy boy.




You know, the usual run of the mill superhero in a cool costume kind of life worries.