Are your friends right about what they are saying?
By the sounds of it the lady is a bit mental?
Do you need this grief in your life at this moment in time?
Could you do without?
Are you giving too much too early?
Have you thought of "covering your a$$"?
Personally my real friends are and have always been mostly right to what they've said about the ladies I dated. And I never understand guys that sacrifice their long life friends for a lady that they have been with for very short time.
Think of your priorities and the answer will be in there
Good luck