1st love the title
2nd i have found recently that being a right barsteward and selfish **** has helped me a great deal recently, so perhaps some me me me time is in order for yourself
to aid this, leave the nice person persona at home of a bit, see who is still your friend after a few weeks of being evil, they will be the people who actually gave a **** about you to start with, the muppets will fall to the wayside
and my my last word on the matter
feck'em all im off to the bar