Hopefully, you can see a little of the mother's perspective too. The last few years have probably had more than their share of s***ty bits for her and, right or wrong, she blames you. So she's not going to be rolling out the red carpet.
If life starts getting a bit better for her in the future maybe some of that resentment will wear off. In the mean time, if she can set it aside for your daughters sake that's a good start, and seeing you want what's best for your daughter too will help.
I don't imagine this is going to be easy, but I hope you can work it out.
Keith.
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Originally Posted by Cymraeg_Atodeg
She does, trust me, that much is clear. But, she is being adult about it and not letting her hate stop her daughter having her father around.
I want to be there for my daughter, but, I feel bad because, like I said, I sitll like the mother...
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