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To be honest embee not really. I used to get in great with my in-laws but haven’t really heard anything from them at all. I spoke to my father in law a couple of times shortly after splitting with my wife and he just said she doesn’t deserve me anyway and I can do better. Her sister says the same thing. So does her brother.

The problem is I’ve tried telling her until I’m blue in the face what this bloke is like but she will not listen.
She then thinks it’s a personal attack on her and starts defending him then whinges to the kids, so they get upset about it. I was also getting better until I had the cancer scare and that set me back, which upsets them as they won’t me to forget about their mum, as she treated me like a slave anyway in their eyes.
My brother thinks I should just cut all ties and have nothing to do with her so gets annoyed whenever I have been in contact with her.

How do you switch off caring and trying to look out for someone after nearly 30 years though?
We have known each other over 30 years and know one another inside out yet this bloke she has known 5 minutes.

Don’t want this to start sounding like the Jeremy Kyle show, but after the messages he sent the night my lad nearly topped himself, I have told her if she thinks this is alright then in my eyes she isn’t worth a cup of cold p!ss
He knows I want to slap him so thought that was the right moment to start messaging me, beating in mind he has blocked me for the last 6 months, and tell me to hit him if I am man enough but I won’t (I will) started name calling, told me to put my kids first, even though he is always leaving his 14 year old child at home over night to stay the night with my ex all the time, and starts trying to tell me he isn’t a liar

Now, on to that point. He told me his great grandfather formed newton heath fc (Man Utd) a few years ago on our first encounter. He then told my son a couple weeks ago his great grandad formed Milan football club.

He claims he got rabies on holiday, he won’t say when and where even though every case of the 99% fatal disease has been recorded as a matter of national security. He claims he was put in quarantine on his return to this country. They only quarantine dogs as rabies can not be passed from human to human unless it is through organ donation.

He claimed when I said in passing that my dad was at goodwood when Stirling moss was nearly killed, that he was there too. This incident occurred 10 years before this bloke was born.

He claimed a fairly well known mini race driver that was killed 20 years ago was his godfather.
The racing driver was 10 years old when this bloke was born so how on earth was he is godfather?
I found a video on YouTube of him and went to show this bloke, before my wife and I split up, and he looked terrified and walked away rather sharpish as if he had been rumbled.

His ex wife says he is a fantasist that believes his own bullish!t and I’ve been told by people that know him this is pretty much the case, yet my ex seems to think it’s ok as long as he doesn’t lie to her, which of course he will.
Not only that, but if that is the reputation he has, it is not really going to be good for her businesses if she is associated with that. It also seems to be fairly common knowledge that he is a coke head, and has been for the last 30 years, and is also boarderline alcoholic.