I have similar issues with my girlfriend. I love riding with her, its just that SHE beats herself up whenever she makes a mistake. Pesonaly i just say learn from it, and go on to the next one. She just gets so so so annoyed with it all, saying, i wish i could ride like you and all that. I try to point out that we all still make mistakes, and that as long as they dont put you in danger, then alls cool.
I only give critisim if needed, which is never a lot, as she rides very well, for someone that only rides as much as she does.
Once shes made an error, she wont ride in front of me, as shes to embarresed.
As said, if you can, go out on your own, or ride with other people. Your bloke will ride his ride, and you should do the same.
Just enjoy going out together.
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