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Originally Posted by Seeker
I'm awaiting the results of my MRI after discovering my high PSA and my thoughts turned to making a Will. My children are American, I have a son and a daughter but my daughter and I have been estranged for over 10 years after she sent me a vitriolic email demanding I stay out of her life.
I have discovered that it is practically impossible to exclude her from my Will. It can be written in but since I have US assets she could contest it in their courts and, most likely, win (and the US court would also recognise the UK assets). So much for honouring your last request on Earth! What a messed up system.
If I try and leave my house to my son now then it, too, would be taken into account as would paying off his student loans and it would be deducted from his final inheritance when the court rebalanced the distribution. You can't win.
The solicitor has said I have to leave her a "non derisory" amount but has, so far, declined to specify an amount. What I had intended to leave her was a laminated copy of the hostile email she sent me (and I have given that to the solicitor already).
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You’re coming across as a really horrible person.
What efforts have you made to reconcile with your daughter?
You are supposed to be the parent, you know, the adult in the relationship.
Even if there is more to this story, surely leaving her a non derisory amount would not be the end of the world. Would your son really grudge her it? Or would he rather not have a court case after your death fighting over the spoils.
Why don’t you grow up and take this wake up call to mend your relationships.