Ive been invited to my first wedding!

My friend Jane has invited me to her wedding, which is really nice as Im the only person she has invited from uni to come. But that does meen I wont know anyone there, and Im not that good in sitiuations where I dont know anyone! But I think I will just have to man up and get on with it!

Anyway, my questions oh powerfull .org, how should I R.S.V.P to the invite? (Its all very posh and her fiancé is money) I have to reply by snail mail and I want to get it right!

Also what will I need to wear? Ive been invited to both the wedding and the reception the next day. The invite says dress informal for the reception, my mom said that meens just not a tux, but still very dressed up, is this right? or should I just wear my leathers (bike leathers )

The invite says that everyone is staying at the local Hilton Hotel

Help!! (there is no excited by scared smiley!!)

Originally Posted by pencil shavings

My friend Jane has invited me to her wedding, which is really nice as Im the only person she has invited from uni to come. But that does meen I wont know anyone there, and Im not that good in sitiuations where I dont know anyone! But I think I will just have to man up and get on with it!

Anyway, my questions oh powerfull .org, how should I R.S.V.P to the invite? (Its all very posh and her fiancé is money) I have to reply by snail mail and I want to get it right!

Spell check the letter?

I'd still suit-up for the reception; better to be overdressed than under. You'll get away without a tie if it makes you more comfortable.

do u need a date?

[SoulKiss]

Remember that you probably have a +1 invite - so you can take someone with you

Suit rather than tux, unless your name happens to be Bond, James Bond :P

[the_lone_wolf]

Originally Posted by pencil shavings

Ive been invited to my first wedding!

it's customary to turn up to your first wedding, or any of your weddings really, not doing so is generally frowned upon...

Originally Posted by gettin2dizzy

Spell check the letter?

I'd still suit-up for the reception; better to be overdressed than under. You'll get away without a tie if it makes you more comfortable.

ahhh, the great power of dyslexia raises its ugly head once again! lol

Originally Posted by blueto

do u need a date?

Is that an offer? lol
i dont need a date, and Im not sure if it is +1 invite, I will find out later.

Originally Posted by SoulKiss

Remember that you probably have a +1 invite - so you can take someone with you

Suit rather than tux, unless your name happens to be Bond, James Bond :P

the names Shavings, Pencil Shavings (girls swoon)

Originally Posted by the_lone_wolf

it's customary to turn up to your first wedding, or any of your weddings really, not doing so is generally frowned upon...

I was waiting for that reply!!

Originally Posted by SoulKiss

Remember that you probably have a +1 invite - so you can take someone with you

Suit rather than tux, unless your name happens to be Bond, James Bond :P

If we're being pedantic it's a Dinner Jacket A 'tux' is an ugly American phrase for a DJ as there was once only one place in the US worth wearing one; a club called 'The Tuxedo'. Who says the Amerryqueens are uncultured ey?!

But they are queer,




American's that is

I only have a work suit, I guess I will have to hire one??