please help

Originally Posted by Jester666

Probably this thread!!

Get rid of her and find another one!! IMO!

And welcome to the madhouse!!

Stay out of arms reach of Bear and stand well away from Grinch!!

They're the forum deviants!!

Ah that explains it...

Oh and what you talking about fool, I know nothin'.

Originally Posted by Lissa

Pah, that's no good either. You want one that's as into bikes as you are and will clean it for you

Jax does that with mine, sometimes she sees it and is so disgusted she cleans it, then tells me off cus I moan I was trying to get it dirty as possible. Then I get told off for being stupid and ungrateful and that having a dirty bike is not a competition. Which it is... Though its all great and I loves her lots... Did I mention she rides a Ducati, like a daemon. Likes to make blokes on Huyabusas look slow, its well funny but also a little scary when she hoons it round those bends.

Got a similar problem with my bird, she told me if i got one she'd break up with me. Told her that if she really loved me then she'd be happy that i'm happy doing it, even if it does entail risk, she's still REALLY not happy and everytime i mention the word she gets in a mood. But whatever, she can live with it or move on ya know, i can understand partly why they would be so defensive about it, but at the same time i wouldn't linger on it, maybe try having a serious chat with her telling her how much it means to you?

Then again, i would say the best advice i've seen on here was to ignore any advice given on relationship problems posted on the internet or a forum like this...end of the day your choice mate...hard one at that.

Good luck!

[timwilky]

Forget everything above.

I woke up in hospital and had the ultimatum. Change your life style or die. Yes I am a few years (and a lot of months) older than you. My brother came to see me and told me you are going to get another bike. I listened to his argument, and conceded that for 25 years I had been the person my wife wanted.

I packed in biking in the 80s, wife, kids, risk etc. Just like I had packed in Friday night out with the lads, Sunday afternoon five aside, Saturday morning G*lf, the occasional Blackburn Rovers game etc.

So I bought another bike. had it 6 days before it was written off. (By a doddering old fart who hit me sat at a red light) and I seriously worried was I right to go back on two wheels. Well I gave it another go. My brother who got me back has given up, come back given up and come back etc. The difference is I have stayed back on two wheels. I am what some may call a fair weather rider, a weekend warrior etc. It don'.t matter. And why.

The wife has seen me in a hospital bed, on a coronary care unit. she has seen a different me come home. cool relaxed and happy on the bike. she has seen me climbing walls and said. "Why don't you go out on the bike for a couple of hours".

If somebody truly understands their partner. They will realise a relationship is not just you and I, but what and who you and I are. what makes you the person you are.


Please stick with something that is yours. It may or may not be bikes. For me I am too busy making sure I stay alive with all the idiots out there to worry about budgets, timescales, manpower etc. Damm it life is for living. I learn't the hard way. But at least I got the opportunity. Don't make a simple mistake now for the sake of domestic harmony.

now all the wife says is "Where are the life insurance details" whenever I go out. And an even bigger welcolme home from the dog.

[timwilky]

Forget everything above.

I woke up in hospital and had the ultimatum. Change your life style or die. Yes I am a few years (and a lot of months) older than you. My brother came to see me and told me you are going to get another bike. I listened to his argument, and conceded that for 25 years I had been the person my wife wanted.

I packed in biking in the 80s, wife, kids, risk etc. Just like I had packed in Friday night out with the lads, Sunday afternoon five aside, Saturday morning G*lf, the occasional Blackburn Rovers game etc.

So I bought another bike. had it 6 days before it was written off. (By a doddering old fart who hit me sat at a red light) and I seriously worried was I right to go back on two wheels. Well I gave it another go. My brother who got me back has given up, come back given up and come back etc. The difference is I have stayed back on two wheels. I am what some may call a fair weather rider, a weekend warrior etc. It don'.t matter. And why.

The wife has seen me in a hospital bed, on a coronary care unit. she has seen a different me come home. cool relaxed and happy on the bike. she has seen me climbing walls and said. "Why don't you go out on the bike for a couple of hours".

If somebody truly understands their partner. They will realise a relationship is not just you and I, but what and who you and I are. what makes you the person you are.


Please stick with something that is yours. It may or may not be bikes. For me I am too busy making sure I stay alive with all the idiots out there to worry about budgets, timescales, manpower etc. Damm it life is for living. I learn't the hard way. But at least I got the opportunity. Don't make a simple mistake now for the sake of domestic harmony.

Now all the wife says is "Where are the life insurance details" whenever I go out. And an even bigger welcome home from the dog. she knows she would rather loose me ina an accident than sentence me to death by work/life imbalance

Originally Posted by timwilky

Forget everything above.

I woke up in hospital and had the ultimatum. Change your life style or die. Yes I am a few years (and a lot of months) older than you. My brother came to see me and told me you are going to get another bike. I listened to his argument, and conceded that for 25 years I had been the person my wife wanted.

I packed in biking in the 80s, wife, kids, risk etc. Just like I had packed in Friday night out with the lads, Sunday afternoon five aside, Saturday morning G*lf, the occasional Blackburn Rovers game etc.

So I bought another bike. had it 6 days before it was written off. (By a doddering old fart who hit me sat at a red light) and I seriously worried was I right to go back on two wheels. Well I gave it another go. My brother who got me back has given up, come back given up and come back etc. The difference is I have stayed back on two wheels. I am what some may call a fair weather rider, a weekend warrior etc. It don'.t matter. And why.

The wife has seen me in a hospital bed, on a coronary care unit. she has seen a different me come home. cool relaxed and happy on the bike. she has seen me climbing walls and said. "Why don't you go out on the bike for a couple of hours".

If somebody truly understands their partner. They will realise a relationship is not just you and I, but what and who you and I are. what makes you the person you are.


Please stick with something that is yours. It may or may not be bikes. For me I am too busy making sure I stay alive with all the idiots out there to worry about budgets, timescales, manpower etc. Damm it life is for living. I learn't the hard way. But at least I got the opportunity. Don't make a simple mistake now for the sake of domestic harmony.

now all the wife says is "Where are the life insurance details" whenever I go out. And an even bigger welcolme home from the dog.

hear hear... well done need i say more.....hat's off to this man.... until you ride a bike ona summers day you have no idea of the whole over body rush it gives...

Originally Posted by Lissa

Pah, that's no good either. You want one that's as into bikes as you are and will clean it for you

Huh... that would be nice, I wouldn't trust my missus with cleaning the bike!!!

[yorkie_chris]

Originally Posted by younggunns

please tell me if my bike is worth loosing my girlfriend over.....(she has given me the ultimatum...death machine or me)..i think the choice is obvious...

"you can cook, you can ####, you can do the washing up, now ive had enough, go on #### off..." etc.

She obviously doesn't understand you at all, get rid.

And when you do, any decent pictures?

Tell her to jog on

Originally Posted by yorkie_chris

"you can cook, you can ####, you can do the washing up, now ive had enough, go on #### off..." etc.

She obviously doesn't understand you at all, get rid.

And when you do, any decent pictures?

you do talk complete crap sometimes

Youngguns: This girlfriend of yours is being selfish in asking you choose, if anything you could at least come to a compromise, but by the sounds of it I'd agree with what others are saying and go with the bike.

On the other hand maybe you could try offering her a ride on the back so she can see what it's like and maybe why you enjoy it so much? If, however, she is a bikeaphobe then maybe you should look elsewhere, it's only going to make things more difficult in the long term. I wouldn't dream of asking Chris to choose between bikes and me - apart from the obvious response of 'you can f*** reyt off' I just wouldn't even contemplate such a ridiculous question! If you were married with kids to think of then matters may be different, but otherwise you should really be thinking of what you want, she clearly doesn't care that much. And like someone said earlier, she may realise the error of her ways and come running back

Take the bike. Bikes arnt death machines; its the attitue of the rider. If your safe, and you protect yourself (for more information see bigapes "wear your ferkin leathers" thread!) then your bike is not a death machine.

Even if it is a blue pointy

To make the desicion easier for you, sell your car, if you have one, and transport yourself soley by motorcycle. Your girlfreind will then have to make the choice, because you then NEED the bike to get around on!

Matt