Remortgaging with a charge on the house - Page 2 - SV650.org

JamesMio · 06-05-10, 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bri w

Kellyjo, as Ed sez.

Was just going to add that - Ed's opinion is worth it's weight on here for legal matters.

DavieSV · 06-05-10, 07:34 PM

If he carn't afford to keep the house and pay you,
Should he not sell the house, divey up the funds, move to cheaper accomodation and then he could still pay the kids their maintenance,

06-05-10, 09:45 PM

TBH it's an unusual gesture to sign away your right to claim some of his pension and you really ought to think about how you are going to live when you are older, when the kids have left home, and you have nothing left. You will be seeing your ex retire on a very good pension and you will have nothing and feel very bitter. I act for a client where precisely this has happened (I didn't do the divorce), she is now 63 and has to work 4 days a week because she has nothing, only the house she lives in. And there is no prospect of any change, and she is worried half to death about what will happen in 5 years time when she can't work any more.

If he's going to be an ar$e then let the Judge decide. The only problem in going to a full hearing is the expense as a day in Court ain't cheap. You will probably find though that you don't need to go that far - at the directions hearing the judge is likely to say what s/he would order if a settlement can't be reached.

Stick to your guns.

06-05-10, 09:46 PM

edited

06-05-10, 09:49 PM

Are you for real, James numbers.

£300 for 3 kids is reasonable? Have you ever bought kids' shoes?

I can't take you seriously.

keith_d · 06-05-10, 10:32 PM

Hmm, so let me see. He gets to keep his pension, keep the house and is still being difficult. I think you need to have a long talk to your solicitor...

Just my (uninformed) opinion,

Keith.

06-05-10, 10:44 PM

useless info removed

06-05-10, 10:49 PM

I'm simply saying that £300/month for 3 kids will not go very far.

06-05-10, 11:10 PM

useless info removed

Bri w · 06-05-10, 11:25 PM

Guys, Kellyjo has asked for some advice at an extremely difficult and painful time for her. And not wishing to sound blunt or brutal but could we leave this to the experts like Ed. Lets cut the pain of a long dissection of her problems off line.

Sorry if I've offended anyone but...

06-05-10, 07:34 PM	#12
DavieSV Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Ripley Derbyshire Posts: 596	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house If he carn't afford to keep the house and pay you, Should he not sell the house, divey up the funds, move to cheaper accomodation and then he could still pay the kids their maintenance,

06-05-10, 09:45 PM	#13
Ed Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house TBH it's an unusual gesture to sign away your right to claim some of his pension and you really ought to think about how you are going to live when you are older, when the kids have left home, and you have nothing left. You will be seeing your ex retire on a very good pension and you will have nothing and feel very bitter. I act for a client where precisely this has happened (I didn't do the divorce), she is now 63 and has to work 4 days a week because she has nothing, only the house she lives in. And there is no prospect of any change, and she is worried half to death about what will happen in 5 years time when she can't work any more. If he's going to be an ar$e then let the Judge decide. The only problem in going to a full hearing is the expense as a day in Court ain't cheap. You will probably find though that you don't need to go that far - at the directions hearing the judge is likely to say what s/he would order if a settlement can't be reached. Stick to your guns.

06-05-10, 09:46 PM	#14
james160987 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house edited Last edited by james160987; 06-05-10 at 11:44 PM.

06-05-10, 09:49 PM	#15
Ed Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house Are you for real, James numbers. £300 for 3 kids is reasonable? Have you ever bought kids' shoes? I can't take you seriously.

06-05-10, 10:32 PM	#16
keith_d Member Mega Poster Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Ruislip Posts: 1,131	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house Hmm, so let me see. He gets to keep his pension, keep the house and is still being difficult. I think you need to have a long talk to your solicitor... Just my (uninformed) opinion, Keith.

06-05-10, 10:44 PM	#17
james160987 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house useless info removed Last edited by james160987; 06-05-10 at 11:44 PM.

06-05-10, 10:49 PM	#18
Ed Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house I'm simply saying that £300/month for 3 kids will not go very far.

06-05-10, 11:10 PM	#19
james160987 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house useless info removed Last edited by james160987; 06-05-10 at 11:44 PM.

06-05-10, 11:25 PM	#20
Bri w Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Turre, Almeria Posts: 668	Re: Remortgaging with a charge on the house Guys, Kellyjo has asked for some advice at an extremely difficult and painful time for her. And not wishing to sound blunt or brutal but could we leave this to the experts like Ed. Lets cut the pain of a long dissection of her problems off line. Sorry if I've offended anyone but... __________________ *"It's not the years in your life, it's the life in your years."* Currently - Fighting the urge... seen a nice Triumph America Previously - Honda CB125, Honda CB400-4 & BSA B40, Moto Guzzi 850, Yamaha RD250, Suzuki GT380, Kawasaki Z1B, Kawasaki Z650, Honda VFR, Triumph Street Triple R.

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