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11-02-19, 05:46 PM | #7021 |
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Re: Gripe of the day - What is yours?
end of an era.. wife is now in full time care home.
good news is that the Bibster is free to do what he wants.... i'm not happy about all of this one bit but i had to for my sanity. which finally broke on Sunday. might be in court tomorrow or next day we shall see... now where is my debit card and bike keys... |
11-02-19, 05:50 PM | #7022 |
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Sorry to hear that I know how much it must hurt you. You've got my number if you need anything or just a chat.
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11-02-19, 06:22 PM | #7023 | |
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11-02-19, 07:40 PM | #7024 |
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Oh Lance I'm really sorry to hear this, but it really does sound like you've gone as far and done as much as you can. Hope you get enough time and space to get some of your life back where you want it to be.
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11-02-19, 07:44 PM | #7025 |
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Sorry to hear that Lance. Hope they take good care of Mrs Bibs
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11-02-19, 09:30 PM | #7026 |
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Sorry to hear this Bibs but as the others have said you've done right by Mrs Bibs for so long and hopefully she'll be equally as well looked after now.
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12-02-19, 12:32 AM | #7027 |
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Wish you both the best Lance.
This is something that happens a lot these days with both parents and spouses, partners,etc. (or maybe I'm just getting old) Just remember,this day was always going to come. Family members can only provide so much care before they are overwhelmed and most try for too long to keep their loved ones at home when in reality they would be better off in a full time care facility. And it's more than OK to get out now and enjoy yourself a bit. You've earned it.
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12-02-19, 07:10 AM | #7028 |
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Sorry to hear this Bibs Im sure you have gone above and beyond what you could do, you're a good man Lance xGx
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12-02-19, 09:36 AM | #7029 |
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I looked after my Dad for 5 years (Alzheimer's and cancer) but for the last 2 months he went into a home. I was left to wander around his house/home alone, it felt weird. The days seemed much longer too, there was a sense of: "I should be doing something".
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