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Old 30-06-08, 07:49 PM   #1
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Default tinternet affairs.

a friend of mine has been in touch with an old flame via the net. now my friend just likes to say hello and catch up on things and i know that my friend is telling the truth. he has taken a lot of stick for making contact with the said lady that i have never met.
he is married with children. he has not and never will ask for a meet but is my freind really asking for trouble.
i think a girl and a boy can be just good friends without sex ever getting involved, or am i really that niave.
now i feel this is a sensative subject with some, so only comical and insulting advice please.
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Old 30-06-08, 07:58 PM   #2
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i think a girl and a boy can be just good friends without sex ever getting involved, or am i really that niave.
now i feel this is a sensative subject with some, so only comical and insulting advice please.
I think for most men sex is NEVER involved

So I wouldn't worry....I mean your friend shouldn't worry
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Old 30-06-08, 07:59 PM   #3
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It is entirely possible for a man and woman to be friends and for there never to be any thought of sex.

The lady needs to be either really old, ugly, or better yet both.

The guy needs to be either a eunuch, tee-total or blind, preferably all three.

Other than that, at some point the bloke WILL consider shagging her (In fact, even with the above being true the thought may come up...)

(I'm not being sexist, I just speak of the gender I know best: the one that I loosely belong to)

(I am aware that I am judging everyone by my own frankly rather "loose" morals)
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Old 30-06-08, 08:03 PM   #4
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PS: Cybersex isn't cheating


(Then again, in my view Head isn't cheating. It's not cheating if you aren't in the same country, or county, or postcode, or room, or square foot of space. It isn't cheating if they let you do things your significant other doesn't. It isn't cheating if they are a different gender, genus, or species than your significant other. It isn't cheating if you're too drunk to fight me... sorry THEM off. It's not cheating if you're only doing it for a bet or as a forfeit. Raf doesn't count as cheating...)
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Old 30-06-08, 08:03 PM   #5
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Default Re: tinternet affairs.

I got in touch with my 'rock guitarist god' via the net, he was my first hooooge lurve, wil have a soft spot forever in my heart. We have chatted on the phone a few times, had the odd Msn chat, and emailed each other about his up coming tour.
I will never meet him again, haven't seen him in 10 years, but it was nice to catch up, chat about mutual friends, and patch over unfinished stuff. if we do meet again, it will be super. Bt hey, I love my bloke, past is past, and future is future.........for me anyway...can't say about your friend
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Old 30-06-08, 09:11 PM   #6
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If he/she isn't in your postcode area I was told it doesn't count as an affair !!

On a more serious note, most of my mates are male. Since I started work as a teenager I worked in a male engineering environment and always been one of the lads, then when I joined the police and I am the only girlie on shift so have kept that male mentality. I watch porn with the lads at 3am etc etc.

I don't have sex with any of them and have some really close male mates, so YES you can have platonic relationships, it's easy if that's the kinda person you are.

Maybe it's due to the fact I am an ugly minger, I don't know LOL

But to contradict myself, as soon as I became single I lost a few male mates as they thought I was a prospective sh*g
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Old 30-06-08, 09:15 PM   #7
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I watch porn with the lads at 3am etc etc.
You should be out catching robbers
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Old 30-06-08, 09:18 PM   #8
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Ohhhh yeah I mean when (or if) we have snap breaks .... we have to eat too LOL

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Old 30-06-08, 09:24 PM   #9
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i have lots of internet friends male and female it doesn't mean i want sex with all the female ones i am very good friends with a few of them and have genuine feelings for them as friends, but then again i am a big softie and don't see women as just a potential sha@.
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Old 30-06-08, 09:53 PM   #10
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PS: Cybersex isn't cheating


(Then again, in my view Head isn't cheating. It's not cheating if you aren't in the same country, or county, or postcode, or room, or square foot of space. It isn't cheating if they let you do things your significant other doesn't. It isn't cheating if they are a different gender, genus, or species than your significant other. It isn't cheating if you're too drunk to fight me... sorry THEM off. It's not cheating if you're only doing it for a bet or as a forfeit. Raf doesn't count as cheating...)
yeah but surely if its your heart thats keeping you both in touch then thats worse, thats a desire that will never fade, soul mates. a quicky after a drunken night out is quickly forgotten but 'cybersex' (not quite sure what that is) is serious stuff?

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