Carl, My daughters problems were principly resolved when did what every father would love to do and that is to give his daughters boyfriend a smack. OK initially it caused all sorts of family proplems because she sided with her boyfriend, but eventually realised that dad was right, I then thumped him a second time after my wife caught him hitting her. However, violence is never the answer. It just made me feel better.

The issue really is why should a lady who lives on her own like Tara be subjected to harrassment, bullying and vandalism etc. What gives anyone the right to make people fearful of living in their own homes. Whilst we can all dish out instant justice, people have to live with the consequences. The scum come back, vindictive and seeking revenge for their humiliation (Daughters windows are a classic example).

Tara, I hope your move down south is successful, and that you find all the happiness you desire. Hurry up and find new accomodation, as I am looking forward to the house/flat warming :drink:

Cant wait T, the sooner your down here the better, that place is awful and never like coming back down here leaving you there. But very soon you'll be out of there and with me :D

That is awful Tim, I hate it when stuff like this happens but unfortantly its not the odd case but this crap happens all the time and the police cant seem to do jack all to sort it out simply as the guy will get released or whatever and be worse than ever. Chances are that guy has found someone else to "move in" with and so the cycle will continue.

long trip for a house warming party, Tara are you looking to live down there permanently?

Good luck with it all :wink: :thumbsup:

But Tim, sometimes it's all these people understand. I know it's wrong and shouldn't be encouraged, but eventually they realise that there are "no go" areas for them too... Only problem is that they're generally so thick you have to do it a few times before they come to their senses...

Tara, look forward to welcoming you to the South, just remember, it's not considered good manners for ladies to drink pints down here :lol:

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'Sandhurst'... what what what :roll:

Full of training Army Officers :roll:

Nah not in there, outside of the RMA. Dont work there, im an IT junkie working in London :lol:

Thats the plan Carl :D ;)

good luck with the move tara, hope all goes well for you :wink:

tim, really sorry to hear this. hope your daughter is ok now. this kind of incident makes you want to rally round n kick ass. i know its wrong but so was he.......sounds a complete sh**.

all the best T .....

its a big big move for one so dainty :?

wishing you all the luck in the world.. :D

**** Tim thats awful, i feel for you and your family, as for me yeah i am being forced out but hey I met the man of my dreams so i guess it worked out

cheers guys hopefully once i'm settled i'll get out to a few meets, I am gonna be down there permanently and as soon as i get a place we'll have a house warming guys

Jelster I hardly ever drink pints these days just bottles of red wine :lol:

Good luck with the move Tara.

Wondered where you were living for it to be so bad (WLDC = West Lebanon District Council ??) I have relatives in Skem and I know parts of it are rough but I was surprised how bad things were.

All the best Keith