My previous experience with hosting companies is that nothing is free. If its not in the contract it doesnt get done.

I've always either bought the licence or paid extra per month.

Not sure where I read it but:

Life is all a juggling act.

Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling five balls in the air. You name them - work, family, health, friends, and spirit - and you're keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls - family, health, friends, and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged, or even shattered.

Go and see the wife and cheer her up. One night away from the office will make you both feel a lot better and you'll probably work better too.