Independant Women
 

I been pondering on life over past few days, mine in particular. Where am I going blah blah blah. I could pretty much answer all my questions and lay down most my thoughts but one thing I always wondered .......

Question for the guys ..... do you like independant ladies or do you feel intimidate by us ???

I have a pretty good job which can turn people away in their droves by itself, have my own house, car, bike and dog ..... I like being independant (job etc) but after my pondering I think this has always been my downfall.

Re: Independant Women
 

Being independant is a definite plus IMO.

One of my ex-gf's couldn't make a decision for herself if her life depended on it, it got tiresome quite quickly! :lol:

Re: Independant Women
 

Being independent I don't see as a problem, its whether or not you're willing to let people into your life that might turn people away?

Take what I say with a truck full of salt, I'm 18 and don't know a great deal about life, the universe and everything ;)

Re: Independant Women
 

Any woman who has do define herself as independent I'd keep away from ;) It's such an American thing to analyse your life and categorise yourself in to said groups. Personally, I like a girl who just gets on with it and doesn't give it a moments thought :) Having your own house, car, career etc can only be a bonus.

Re: Independant Women
 

+1 to what Sean C has said. In my opinion an independant woman is great, but needs to know when to let someone in.

Lily is very independant, but, enjoys being involved in the things I do and vice versa.

Re: Independant Women
 

indipendent women are better. If they have their own life they tend to leave you alone to have interests of your own, rather than whinge they dont have anything to do while you do X, Y, Z.

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But at 18 if you show the man behind the counter your pink bit, he'll let you have alcohol :smt045

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You ARE talking about his driving license, right? :shock:

Re: Independant Women
 

When I was 15 standing outside an offy in Glasgow, 2 groups of teenagers asked me to get beer for them :rolleyes: Never been IDd.

On the independence thing, my girlfriend is quite independent, she can make her own decisions, but she's not afraid of asking for advice or opinions, she's taking an interest in what I do, I'm doing the same, we share music.. We're both independent, but get along brilliantly and can share our things.
Letting the other person in is the key, imho.

Re: Independant Women
 

Ahhh I been showing my white bits .... you get free alcohol this way :D