Disappointed in a friend
 

I have a good mate and I have recently found out that the friend has told some acquantaince some awful things about me saying I am a nut case and my head is a mess due to things that happened to me as a child. :confused:

I am livid what would you do if this was you?

I kinda want revenge but that is not my style, I feel hurt and let down.

I am a nut case mind but not cause I been messed with (which this part of my life I can't recall but it must have happened cause they said so ) :shock: that's down to being a Woozle

Re: Disappointed in a friend
 

:grouphug:

TBH, my approach would be to talk to the 3rd party (the person that was told) and explain that they'd get less bull**** if they went to a cattle market!!

Then, just cut the guilty party out, have nothing to do with them. It's not worth the stress.

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I have done exactly that but still hurts toknow that someone I thought alot of obviously hates me and thinks it funny to talk about me. I guess they didnt expect me to have an indepth chat with the 3rd party.

Fireworks day may be early this year

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I think your nutter-ness actually all stems back to that time I took you roughly from behind ... (by surprise) :D

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Oh yeah it could have started from then ;) the affect you had on me baby

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Well {trying to keep U-rated} 'it' rattled ya brain about a fair bit in the process didn't it!! :D

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p.s. Do you want me to repeat the process on your friend to 'learn' her like I did you!?!? :D

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It takes a long time for me to tell people about myself/life/past in any detail.. A lot of talking and building trust. Should someone abuse that trust I'd be livid.. Have a think so that you can go and talk to both, say what you want to say, and get your point across without being irate.. Taking the time to think so you can calm down (twas days for me). Hope you sort things out ok..

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confront him in front of all to show him up . See what he has to say then. Or ill get some mates and we will come up and have a word .

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Who said it was a he :smt026

I am hoping the fact I never speak to this friend again will upset them. The fact what they told the 3rd party sounds complete tosh and I am mad that they would want to make me look like a fruit and nut case to get them looking good.

What goes around comes around and it need have no influence by me.

Sean, at this moment in time I can't ever see myself calming down. But I am sure I will in time as I am a big softy and will end up feeling sorry for my mate (ex mate).