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...yes, mighty .orgers. I really really want to go to Holland (or Belgium) next year to see 'Within Temptation....(goth Rock combo fronted by the gorgeous Sharon wotshername)...

I've already suggested to 'er indoors about a trip together, just for one night...but she turned it down flat. Apparently we can't get a babysitter:confused:, not that we've asked or anything...only suggested it tonight. So I said "Okay then, just me!" Oddly she poo-poo'd that idea as well.

I need convincing reasons/bribery ideas (sinister plots may be considered as a last ditch alternative)...

:smt102:help:

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weekend/day away for her at a spa thingy.

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yep blue is right the one for one is the way ahead but tbh its normally one for two ,eg her and her mate you pay for while you get 1 day of freedom (because she will say she dont want to go to spa on her own) its a simple cost reward equasion after that

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Well considering er indoors is actually living it up in the Caribbean right now, I don't feel the need to ask anyones permission to do anything.

However if I did need permission. Well I suppose I would have to give her one and then tell her what I was going to do. She would be so grateful for the former she would relent on the later.

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Put your foot down, with a firm hand, and tell her you are going you big Jessie.

"Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen."

Must dash, got to finish the vacuuming so i can get the shops...

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org babysitters? I'm sure someone down there must have a topbox :scratch:

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JUst tell her to F**k off and you are going anyway, she has no right to deny you something you want to do for just one day.

Honestly you shouldent have to ask permission.

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Hmm, have had similar discussions... you've tried the nice way, so now just do your own thing.

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What neio said, however if you want to wake up with your johnson still attached then I suggest going with DP's idea.
She lets you go amsterdam with a mate to watch concert get stoned etc...
the following weekend you watch the kids while her and a mate go on a weekend doing something they want to do. (Obviously an offer to pay her way for her trip will only sweeten the deal).

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Tell her you are going. I don't think it's unreasonable.