Have you ever been unfaithful?
 

We where having this conversation at work the other day and it amazes me how people views on the subject really differ. Some say that holiday shags dont count etc etc. When you where younger etc, did you mess ya girlfriends.boyfriends around?

So what your views?

Me?

Never, although to be fair iv only had one proper girlfriend and thats the one im with now

I voted yes, but technically no. I broke up with someone becuase I was moving town the next day, and then shagged someone they knew that night. I am a ****.

no comment... voted no though
the way i see it... what goes around, what comes around...

I notice more people have voted than left comments! :shock:

What defines unfaithful? A kiss, a snog, a shag?

I know a few guys where its perfectly acceptable to have a girlfriend and to keep a girl(s) on the side.

yeah, like people are going to leave a reply "YES" , hope the mrs (or mr) doesnt log on when their out....."oh i wonder what he/she looks at on here..."

etc etc

:twisted:

Nope

you can't reply to this topic.

if you say no comment then most people would look at it as you have been unfaithful.

if you haven't then you'd simply say no

I voted no because I haven't and would like to think I wouldn't either.

But then having said that the situation/temptation has never really arisen for me... I'd say now that if it did, I'd like to think I have the strength of character, and honesty, to finish a current relationship before making/accepting a move with someone else.

But having said that, who knows how your emotions will take you if/when it happens.

But as Kate says, what defines 'unfaithful' - it's down to personal definition... you just have to hope that your partner has the same definitions you do. When they don't is when things start to go wrong I guess.


This is why Adam and I have 'the Rules'... kissing, bra and pants.

Pecks are OK, but no snogging.
Anything normally covered by a Bra or Pants are out of bounds. You can look if they are displayed, but not touch.
Cuppage on 'the chest area' is allowed if permission is given by either half, as there are occasion boob/pectoral comparisons where this is required. :twisted:

The precedent has been set however, that my butt cheeks are eminently gropable! :oops:
Don't get me wrong, I'm not boasting about my own ****... it's just I wear thongs rather than big granny pants and so the cheeks are therefore exempt from the above 'Rules'! :twisted: