SV650.org - SV650 & Gladius 650 Forum - View Single Post

10-12-07, 09:58 AM

A friend was fairly abusive to me over the weekend - it was obvious that she'd had a skinful. I was offended because some of the comments were deeply personal and tended to suggest that she had betrayed my trust on something I'd told her in confidence.

So, was this simply drunken ramblings? Or what she always thought and never had the guts to say so to my face? I called her this morning and confronted her with it. She told me that she would never mean to offend me and that I had misunderstood, that she had never said half the things she did say and that she was offended that I had taken offence at such innocent comments which were well meant.

Am I right to be narked? Do people really say what they mean when they're drunk? Forget it? Thoughts?

10-12-07, 09:58 AM	#1
Ed Guest Posts: n/a	Things people say when drunk A friend was fairly abusive to me over the weekend - it was obvious that she'd had a skinful. I was offended because some of the comments were deeply personal and tended to suggest that she had betrayed my trust on something I'd told her in confidence. So, was this simply drunken ramblings? Or what she always thought and never had the guts to say so to my face? I called her this morning and confronted her with it. She told me that she would never mean to offend me and that I had misunderstood, that she had never said half the things she did say and that she was offended that I had taken offence at such innocent comments which were well meant. Am I right to be narked? Do people really say what they mean when they're drunk? Forget it? Thoughts?