blueto

All,

thought id share this with u to get some idependant views.

A few years ago i met my new missus. now she has a child from a previuos relationship. He was only 2 when we got together. I have brought him up to be one of my own and giving him equal love a cherish as i do my own child.

Heres the problem....

A year into my mnissus and her ex splitting up he stops paying mainataince for his son. They always had a n arrangment to pay outside CSA. He defaulted on this and when we asked him to pay he refused said he was my responsability now.(dads a knob). So my ex takes him to the csa. Finally cathc up with him and he starts paying.

while all this is going on his dad used to see him every other weekend, then down to once a month, then to nothing.

The other day he turns up out the blue whilst i wa not at home. He grabs my missus by the throat and threatens to beat her unless she gets csa of his back. !0 mins later i get a phone call dive home but he was gone.

NOW....we phone the police who then arrest him and let him of with a caution as there is no evidence.

Now my temper is weearing thin with guy, but my step son doesnt want me to hurt his daddy.

God im wondering what i do now, because im seroiusly thinking of making sure this guy eats his next meal through a straw.

what would you do?