MeridiaNx

Hi all,

Being a young lad (23) who's currently a bit unsure as to what career direction I might be heading since graduating from uni, I've come back to looking at the forces again, more specifically the Royal Marines. It's not a completely idle whim, I've done 5 years in the Army Cadets in the past, progressing up to Colour Sergeant. I know that's not the 'real thing' but I reckon it means I have a better idea of what the task may really involve on a day-to-day basis than guns & glory. I can't honestly say I'm one who would be doing it as a 'lifelong ambition', more as a reasoned choice of a career that offers some of the best training in the world, varied and interesting challenges, serious responsibilities & a chance to 'do something positive'. I wanted to ask a question aimed at anyone on here who is in the forces, and there seem to be a few of you.

I am a person who considers myself to be a 'strong character' or individual, whatever that may mean. I would probably classify myself as an extrovert, one who enjoys standing up for what I believe in, challenging people to defend their arguments and beliefs, engaging in debate. I don't take any nonsense from people just because it is the easy option, and I like to hear reasoned justification for something. I will make it clear if I think something is wrong, or could be done better.

Would these characteristics make me unsuitable for a miltary career?
Is individuality seen as a positive, or something detrimental to the military ethos that needs to be broken?

If it's of importance, if I pursue this further I would be looking to enlist as an officer. Does this make any difference in that individuality is more tolerated in those in command than it is in the men they must lead?

Much obliged for any opinions anyone is willing to express, one way or another. It's the major stumbling block for me atm, wondering whether I as a person am simply not tailored to fit the lifestyle.