missyburd

Not exactly an ideal situation but it's happened and as you say not a lot can be done. Just think of how scared she will be, this is no doubt an extremely shocking bit of news for her.....she's still a child and to have another one growing inside you well, I know I'd feel fked up.

In no way I'm condoning it of course and I'm not saying she should get sympathy, I'm sure the pair of them knew exactly what they were doing...but it needs to be dealt with with care, she'll be feeling very vulnerable and needs all the support she can get. If you are close (or were) then she'll be feeling even more let down. A few more months down the line when she's ready to have the baby she's gonna want as much help and love to get her through it.