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Originally Posted by gettin2dizzy
I'm amazed so many of you can have such simplistic views. The big question is whether you can believe her evidence if she doesn't remember the situation. Alcohol can turn people in to such different creatures from their normal selves, and without a full recollection of events how could you possibly send a man to prison for rape. Based on hindsight?! Get a grip.
No girl deserves to be raped equally as much as no man deserves to be prosecuted for a life-ruining crime on a girls whim.
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You are completely right.
The following is completely true, not a wind up and no, I'd rather not go into the gory details, particularly on a public forum. I've twice had girls "take avantage" of me whilst I was properly drunk, not technically 'rape', but you could certainly call it sexual assault and in the latter case, if the mechanics of male/female genitalia were reversed I'm quite sure she'd of taken it that far. The way I recall it, I in no way led them on and told them to stop, before resorting to force to shove them away, at which point they got the picture. In both instances I was only just able to talk and in one, I was lying on the floor barely concious, so there's no way I'd trust my recollection of it to the degree needed to take any action. In the former, where I didn't know the girl concerned, I'd of really struggled to identify her at an ID parade. Of course, being a man, I was able to laugh them off as "silly drunken slappers" and didn't feel 'violated' as such, although it was certainly a very unpleasent experience at the time. Would either of incident happened if I'd been sober? No chance.