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She needs proper help and unless you'r experienced in this kind of thing, you are'nt going to be able to help her.

IMHO best thing she can do is go to the Dr's and get some proper advice / couselling or Alocholics Annoymous to try and tackle the drinking.

Trouble is if she wont admit she has a problem no matter what you do she wont change. First step is admiting you need help and thats the hardest.

One of the hardest things I ever did was tell one my best friends that I couldnt help her anymore and she needed help that I couldnt provide and that she should go the Dr's and seek professional help for the issues she had.

She said it was a slap in the face and it really hurt her feelings, but 2 years later she said it was what she needed and shes glad I did it.