There's 3 sides to affairs isn't there, there's the physical, there's the emotional, but most important is the betrayal. To me the sexual/monogamous side isn't that important, never has been, but trust is everything. An open relationship with honesty is IMO a far better way to live than a theoretically monogamous relationship with dishonesty. I've got no beef with an open dalliance, I've been there and done that both ways, but lie to me and there's a problem (and if I was lying to someone like this, i think that'd probably mean it wasn't working anyway)
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Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S
I don't see tigers* grumbling about it or asking permission ...
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But then you don't often see humans disembowelling giraffes.