I don't care where James and I get married (if we ever do), to be honest i'd rather us go away so it is just me and him rather than have all my family there arguing... saves the whole stress of who to put where.
When/if we do then it will be because it is the right time for us and what we both want, plus if (which i doubt) we will ever have kids i'd rather have a stable environment for them to be brought up in.
If you think that marriage isn't worth it... then you obviously haven't found the right person
