joshmac

I don't think it's about the bike (of course I could be wrong though!).

Kate it might be an idea to sit down with them and talk it over, explaining why you want to and how you feel deep down. Say you really appreciate they're concerned for you, but that you need to make this decision for yourself. I'm sure they just want what's best for you and for you to be happy.

Not everything will be easy, but you've got some good friends on here alone who will support you whatever.

You know where I am if you want a chat

Josh