[Balky001]

I've not read all the comments but your OH sounds like he wants you to obey his whims under the guise he's doing it for your own safety. He's not. Tell him to jump off that ego trip, realise he knows about as much as anyone else with less than a year under their belt and start being supportive or **** right off.

He's treating you like a kid and that shows how much respect he has for you, locking up your toys!