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thanks for all the advice, to clarify, my mum will be there and doesnt like, my dads new wife as she is an old friend of the familly, she played no part in bringing me up, although naturally when I do stuff with my dad she is affected so she has had to get used to us being around, I have never lived with either of them since the divorce.

there seems to be three options,

Exclude them both from the top table,

Seat them both on the top table (currently the plan at opposite ends)

Split them and tell them to get over it...

I will speak with catherine and see what she says...

This is really the only issue with the wedding, but its so so so frustrating...

I appreciate the input it helps to read the options so I can see If I am missing anything.

Ill update later when we know whats going on...

cheers