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Originally Posted by 454697819
Split them and tell them to get over it...
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I would go for this option. Your dad and his new wife are both grown up adults and your dad should support you in your decision.
I know he wishes to sit with his new wife, but it is your wedding at the end of the day and if he would rather put his new wife before you (by not sitting at the top table) then so be it. You mentioned that they have given you a fair sum of cash towards the wedding - dont let that "blackmail" you into letting them get their own way.
It is Kitten's day as well and if she does not want the step-mother at the table then I guess you should do that. From what Ive read, I get the feeling that you dont want your step-mum at the table either?
I know it is all easier said than done, but it is both yours and kittens day. If only families weren't so awkward and difficult..!