Originally Posted by kitkat

I was on the cow and gate baby forum for a few weeks. 1 lady on there had severe problems with her 12 year old. He went to special school. She was 6 months pregnant and struggling to control his violent outbursts, he threatened to stab her and burn house down. she asked for any advise other mums could offer. Most of us advised her to contact social to seek respite care. After about 6 weeks, they decided it was best if her son was taken into care. She was absolutely devastated, she only wanted some help. So needless to say I would be cautious about seeking help from social. But I do hope you get it all sorted soon.