Quedos

Thinking of you today Maria and sending you loads of good vibes and Q hugs (been told they're good)

Like everyone says there is no wrong or right way. I was in Wales on holiday when my mum died. I cried a bit but two hours later I was whizzing around in a hovercaft covered in mud.
I didn't really cry before the funeral though I couldn't listen to the last song and ended up scotting out before the service was finished. The main time i did cry was at the recieving mass from my friends dads funeral ( which was to be on the same day as my mum's and both if us were gutted). Tracey's dad's flowers were being brought in and that brought it home to me why we were all there.
Just don't let anyone tell you how to grieve or when to grieve. - At my mum's funeral we all got glowered at because there was so much laughing and joking going on - which was how my mum would have wante dit.