Breaking up..

Last night my ex girlfriend decided that she didnt want to be with me anymore, she though it best that we went our seperate ways as she didnt know what she wanted... its probably for the best.. and its not like i didnt see it coming around eventualy.. we tried to make it work so many times but i cant say that she put any effort in to making it work.
luckily we dont have a house or pets or massive financial comitments.. but we still have over 2 years of history.. and that hurts.
dont get me wrong im not blubbering or crying over it.. i just dont really know what to do with myself in order to move on.. i have my bike and thats cool, my friends and my no-sex box 360 and all that.. but i will be coming home to no one.. not calling her on my breaks at work.. im a little lost so to speak and slightly numb.. i guess its one of those time things that makes you feel okay.. there are plenty of other people in the world i suppose
Cant help but feel a little low though. if you know what i mean..

sympathise greatly



empathise really ..


just lost 12 years of my life and a wonderful lady.. but it for the best all round

and I dont mind admitting I have cried buckets over it.


times a healer cliche bla bla bla.

dont know what to say- except this is a time when you know that your family will be there and you deffo find out who your riends are..


all the best buddy - it gets better..

I echo exactly what quiff said about time and healing have listened to a few friends who have been in shorter and longer relationships than you ( that have ended) and it all does work out eventually. Don't loose sight of the two years, the good times and the bad! who knows sometime down the road maybe friendship can develop if you have split on good grounds

Hey man, don't sweat it. You got every right to feel crap; nothing unmanly about having a blubber.

As long as you remember the .org will prop you up better than any bar stool

Matt

Originally Posted by lylej

Last night my ex girlfriend decided that she didnt want to be with me anymore, she though it best that we went our seperate ways as she didnt know what she wanted... its probably for the best.. and its not like i didnt see it coming around eventualy.. we tried to make it work so many times but i cant say that she put any effort in to making it work.
luckily we dont have a house or pets or massive financial comitments.. but we still have over 2 years of history.. and that hurts.
dont get me wrong im not blubbering or crying over it.. i just dont really know what to do with myself in order to move on.. i have my bike and thats cool, my friends and my no-sex box 360 and all that.. but i will be coming home to no one.. not calling her on my breaks at work.. im a little lost so to speak and slightly numb.. i guess its one of those time things that makes you feel okay.. there are plenty of other people in the world i suppose
Cant help but feel a little low though. if you know what i mean..

understand where yr coming from, painful, we thinking of u m8 x

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Gutted for you chap. I have been with my girlfriend nearly 8 years and dont know how I would feel if it all ended now.

I would probably become a reclouse and go on loan bike rides and play my 360 non stop.

I would however be single and very rich lol

Hey Dude

I too have recently been in a similar situation. Three years, looking at getting a place, holiday to Turkey on the horizon and then it was over!

Yeah I admit that I were quite unset for a few days, but now just over a week later I am moving on.

My family and work collegues have been awesome to be honest.

My point is, that it just takes a little time thats all. For some it is longer then other and in my case, I guess it was bearly longer then a shower lol

Chin up chap If you wanna PM me then feel free to as I know what you are gonig through.

it really seems that way lol, the .org seems to have a lot of support when things like this happen.. and thats cool, but i just want to not hurt lol,

but i just want to not hurt lol,

Try looking at it this way, the reason it hurts is because she meant that much to you. Makes you human, makes you a man In time, the pain goes, I promise. Just got to get through it and it gets better.

I am in to a new chapter in my life I think. I'm now past the break up of my first serious and meaningful relationship. There were problems at both sides and I know that I am wiser for it all as well.