women???

Take it from someone whos been there, she obviously has feelings for you but its not enough, somethings missing for her to be looking elsewhere, it may only have been a kiss up to now, but later it will be more even if not with this guy.
You obviously want it to work and tbh it sounds like you are making excuses for her because you dont want to face the truth. From the outside i'd say let her go, but I know thats much more easily said than done.

She needs space to decide what she wants.

Why is this love stuff always so flaming complicated?? Have a hug

[Bibio]

Originally Posted by kellyjo

Why is this love stuff always so flaming complicated?? Have a hug

i'm sorry but true love is not complicated once you have found the right partner in life.

Originally Posted by G

WTF... You need to ask advice on this??? Really???

I would have walked away the first time... Now I'd smash her back door in and then walk away. Silly bitch.

fixed for you mate

[fizzwheel]

Originally Posted by svsam

She says she loves me, and i do beilieve her.

I'm sure she does, but shes kissed another guy and now has started possibly another relationship with a 2nd guy and has dragged you into a situation where you are being threatened with getting a kicking, where it seems to me you havent done anything wrong.

If I were you I'd call time on it and walk away, but thats easier for me to say than it will be for you to do.

Even if you do sort things out, who is to say she wont go off and do the same thing again in the future. Theres a trust issue here as well IMHO.

Originally Posted by Bibio

i'm sorry but true love is not complicated once you have found the right partner in life.

Never a truer word said there mate

[Jayneflakes]

Originally Posted by Bibio

i'm sorry but true love is not complicated once you have found the right partner in life.

Originally Posted by specialone

Never a truer word said there mate

Awwww, you guys are so on the mark. With the right partner, your heart is always safe and the only hurt you ever feel is the sting of a cow hide whip across your Lilly white backside as she gimps you up and chains you down.

I love being a Switch, because on Thursdays I get to do it to her!

Walk away.

Easier said than done I know especially if you have house etc, but for the best for both of you.

[Bibio]

there is no friggn way i would have ever let my wife tie me up. i know her all too well and she would have bugged off out and left me there laughing her head off.

Sam i`m really sorry to read this but let me ask you this....

Do you really want to be with a woman that you know for a fact can lie to her partner? Do you really want to be committed to a woman that isn't capable of respect and honesty? Your partner has a history of cheating on you and although she may justify her actions with psychobabble cheaters can go long periods of time straight but they will cheat again as she has proven. Women like this tend to be extremely effective at deception and as you still love her you will believe anything she chooses to tell you. You`ll believe any of her excuses and justifications because you want them to be true and obviously find it hard to believe that someone you love can treat you so badly and with such contempt.

Personally I feel she is not worth the headache and if you choose to stay with her that is as good as saying that there is no penalty for cheating and you are condoning her actions...... then you will sit back and wait for the next time which will most certainly be in your future

Walk away and as hard as it is don`t look back.... let this other guy have her!! and what will he win? he`ll "win" an untrustworthy woman who he knows is capable of lies and betrayal and wow that`s some prize.... NOT!! Yes it`s going to hurt and yes you`ll feel like your world has come tumbling down on you but you will re-find your self worth and you`ll see this woman for what she really is and not for what you want to pretend she is. A new door can not open until you close an old door, change your life and invite better things in for yourself.

Uncle Andy says, bin her, cheating beatch, cliché i know, but there really are plenty more fish in the sea, and don't give her a seconds thought.