Malicious Facebook Message - What to do?

dont envy you fella.....if its not your mrs' paranoia, then it does sound like a co worker...anyone you have p*ssed off in work you can think of? and as it looks like the account was set up just to send that message then it could be male or female sending it...and could be someone you P*ssed of ages ago...revenge best served cold and all that, hopefully your mrs will see it for what it is and it doesnt affect you both long term, good luck dude.....

No, although if there was I wouldn't notice it................I wouldn't do anything to f*ck my life as I am happy with it, well apart from work.

I have no idea why anyone would do this to me..........There is one person from a few years back who attempted to drop my and my boss in some sh1te, but they are not female.

If I had received something similar then I would be the same as she is being, there is nothing I can do either which makes this worse.

[fizzwheel]

Originally Posted by krhall

but they are not female.

Just because the person has used the name Sarah Smith, doesnt necessarily mean its a female thats behind it.

You need to talk things through with your other half, thats the only way you can fix it, If you've done nothing wrong then it'll work out OK, Give her a little time to get over the shock and then sit down with her and talk it through just like you have been on here, it'll be OK.

[Mej]

Originally Posted by krhall

If I had received something similar then I would be the same as she is being, there is nothing I can do either which makes this worse.

Thats what i felt like, in the end i had to look at it as a bit of a test on the relationship for me. Obviously i am not married with kids so it is a bit different. But its your word over theirs.

Wow, this does suck a LOT! I guess there isnt much you can do as already said...

Hope it works out for the best.

Though here is something, is there anyone jealous of you having her? I mean if someone fancies her they might be trying to get in her pants through simpathy and all that crap. Some strange people out there mate.

Originally Posted by krhall

If I had received something similar then I would be the same as she is being, there is nothing I can do either which makes this worse.

Do you get on with your boss? Could you get him to confirm you've done over time?

Ask your wife why if these stories are true, why isn't this person being honest about who they are?

[Mej]

Originally Posted by Flamin_Squirrel

Do you get on with your boss? Could you get him to confirm you've done over time?

Ask your wife why if these stories are true, why isn't this person being honest about who they are?

if they were true then why do they have to hide?

Originally Posted by J2UK

if they were true then why do they have to hide?

Exactly.

I can no doubt get CCTV from the server room which may help..........but it suggests it has been going on for years so I cant prove anything else. No mateer how untrue it is, I am at work and so is my wife.

If I were her I would be stewing on it and it would be going round and round my head.