Am I a bad dad? - Page 2 - SV650.org

Balky001 · 28-08-09, 09:58 PM

Depends. If there are only 3 of them then I think you might have overdone it

Bah

28-08-09, 10:01 PM

his friends parernts might not be too pleased you've effectivly supplied thier kids with it too. But if you dont care what they think then rock on! your the No.1 dad ATM

28-08-09, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Lozzo

Shelly, you'd love my boy, he's tall, blonde, handsome, clever and funny... everything I'm not

Are you sure he is yours?

Wideboy · 28-08-09, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by lukemillar

Are you sure he is yours?

im more worried

28-08-09, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Wideboy

im more worried

Don't be - It would have to have meant you have had sex with a woman before

Wideboy · 28-08-09, 10:26 PM

wom.......an?

28-08-09, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by lukemillar

Are you sure he is yours?

I know for a sure-fire fact that he's not my biological son. I inherited him after one of my mates got killed in a car crash. Daniel was only 4 months old when that happened - he was 13 months when I started seeing his mother. He also has 2 sisters, aged 20 and 18.

Those three are my inherited kids and I've helped bring them up for the last 15 years - I also have a 28 year old daughter who is most definitely all my own work.

Spiderman · 28-08-09, 11:46 PM

As others have said mate, its a sensible way to treat kids at what can be a "difficult" age. An ex g/f's dad did a similar thing with his oldest boy when he found out he smoked weed. He simply told him that he didnt agree with it but was fine about him doing it in his room and inviting his mates round too..... his reason being that if anything untoward were to happen it would be better that he was at home and it was out in the open than Sean was out on the streets and didn't feel he could rely on dad to help him in whatever way.

29-08-09, 04:22 AM

Spot on, best thing to do.

Amongst my 16th birthday presents was a bumper pack of condoms.

I was drinking 1/2 glass of wine with my parents at dinner from the age of 12, and for 14 onwards there was beer in the fridge for me to help myself to whenever I wanted, so long as I didn't take the p***. I knew what take the p*** meant and rarely touched it on a school night, if I did I had 1 beer only, and and weekends I never got ****ed on it or I'd be in trouble and the privilege would be taken away. From the age of 16 I was on a moped anyway and lived in the countryside, so couldn't drink much if I wanted to stay mobile. I rarely drank alcohol away from home as drinking my Dad's beer was cheaper and I most of my money went on petrol.

Loads of guys I knew turned 16/17 and were old enough to get served in pubs and spent every Saturday night getting into trouble and throwing up on the street. Alcohol was a novelty to them and they went mad on it.

29-08-09, 07:28 AM

Shame on you for buying drink for underage lads when he is the legal age for ......
riding a moped

28-08-09, 09:58 PM	#11
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28-08-09, 10:01 PM	#12
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28-08-09, 11:46 PM	#18
Spiderman Where the hell am I? Mega Poster Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Swingin' thru the urban jungle Posts: 7,451	Re: Am I a bad dad? As others have said mate, its a sensible way to treat kids at what can be a "difficult" age. An ex g/f's dad did a similar thing with his oldest boy when he found out he smoked weed. He simply told him that he didnt agree with it but was fine about him doing it in his room and inviting his mates round too..... his reason being that if anything untoward were to happen it would be better that he was at home and it was out in the open than Sean was out on the streets and didn't feel he could rely on dad to help him in whatever way. __________________ . "Computers are great! Not for communicating tho. They have one fundamental flaw ... they don't have eyebrows." AlpineCarStereo: you win ....... eeerrr ..... ummm ..... my undying support of you, the greatest Mod this forum has ever known. My Leige. davepreston: i bow to your modding godliness. vixis: He's this really cute Persian tea-boy, Im so not giving you his number :P

29-08-09, 04:22 AM	#19
-Ralph- Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Am I a bad dad? Spot on, best thing to do. Amongst my 16th birthday presents was a bumper pack of condoms. I was drinking 1/2 glass of wine with my parents at dinner from the age of 12, and for 14 onwards there was beer in the fridge for me to help myself to whenever I wanted, so long as I didn't take the p*. I knew what take the p* meant and rarely touched it on a school night, if I did I had 1 beer only, and and weekends I never got ***ed on it or I'd be in trouble and the privilege would be taken away. From the age of 16 I was on a moped anyway and lived in the countryside, so couldn't drink much if I wanted to stay mobile. I rarely drank alcohol away from home as drinking my Dad's beer was cheaper and I most of my money went on petrol. Loads of guys I knew turned 16/17 and were old enough to get served in pubs and spent every Saturday night getting into trouble and throwing up on the street. Alcohol was a novelty to them and they went mad on it. Last edited by -Ralph-; 29-08-09 at 04:27 AM.*

29-08-09, 07:28 AM	#20
Von Teese Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Am I a bad dad? Shame on you for buying drink for underage lads when he is the legal age for ...... riding a moped