Dating Sites

Originally Posted by sv_rory

If I mention my job would you just say Im a panel beater / painter or should I say, I run my own crash repair center blah blah blah

Car restorer ?

Plentyoffish.com that is all you need to try. Its free yes but if you dont mind sifting througj the odd shipwreck you can bag yourself a winner. (like i did)

[joshwalker094]

Originally Posted by sv_rory

I am however very shy with the ladies and I totally suck at breaking the ice.

ditto
people of the org, i to need your advice on how to find romance haha

Originally Posted by tactcom7

Plentyoffish.com that is all you need to try. Its free yes but if you dont mind sifting througj the odd shipwreck you can bag yourself a winner. (like i did)

Thats the one I signed up for yonks ago but never really went on it, I gave up with that ages ago because nobody messaged me!

How long was you on there before meeting your lady?

You can generally write about anything but its the way you write it.

If you say your a panel beater and don't give anymore information then its not great. However, if you write about why you like that job (and potentially how it gives you the flexibility on your weekends to do something else you truly love) then you should get a better response.

Give examples and write one or two stories explaining what you mean. Its all well and good telling a woman your fun, adventurous, funny, spontaneous (and every other adjective under the sun). However if you write a paragraph long story about that one time, you can show her that you are many of these things.

PS. Dating sites are generally driven by the fact that women can sit back and met do the initial approaching (much like life). As such, any messages you receive from a woman you have not met are a bonus but you have to do the legwork messaging women first. Being the internet it is a lot easier for women to discount someone they don't like the look off so really read their profiles and reference back to it in your opening messages.


My two cents..

[dizzyblonde]

Ask a certain grey, black and white faced animal, forum type bloke......he's got some right tales about dating sites........epic comedy!

The org worked for me!

I used a few dating sites before here and found you have to be very wary as people will make themselves out to be a completely different person to who the really are.

I was lucky as WB came across as a prat before I met him so no nasty surprises there

I wouldnt say you run your own business (that's if you do, not read thread properly). You may get lots of money grabbers come out of the wood work

Originally Posted by Bibio

remember if at the end of the night and it's not going to plan use the bibster method. unzip fly, take manhood out, stick it in there hand and start crying.

I took your advice earlier. She quickly let go and said "It's gruesome", I said "Get hold of it again, it's just gruesome more"

[Paul the 6th]

So far on the internet I have found girth (used to be married to him), speedplay, fallout, robh539, owenski (although he's moved on and gotten married now)...

Honestly bromance is the way forward. We never argue, never fall out with each other, do loads of fun stuff together, if they want to go to bed they just say goodnight and disappear without moaning about it the next day and I'm planning to go away with a few of them soon...

On a serious note, if you don't tell them about biking and it turns out they are a huge anti-biking nut further down the line, no matter how nice they may be it'll be a sh*t storm to deal with because you lied and you are now forever a lying bastrad, or they just won't want to be with you because their anti biking sentiments were there first (and all the other 50 shades of crap in between).

Honestly mate, it really does come down to "if you like me for who I am then we're gonna get on great" because all my ex's started out nice and then over time slowly tried to change things about me that they didn't like, be it biking, my friends, even the way I talk with my friends (I don't like how you use the word 'man' in conversation - "Hiya man how's it going?"). I used to give a little bit, then a lot, then do my usual thing of reaching breaking point because I've had enough of trying to please someone else 24/7 by being unhappy with my own life..

watch out for them & good luck

Disagree most ladies will ask about the bike and if you offer a ride will try it. The standard response is never been on one, always wanted too. Que your offer

Be yourself, get on there and meet them and have fun doing so