Malicious Facebook Message - What to do?

[Mej]

Originally Posted by Flamin_Squirrel

Exactly.

like you said you know it aint true, its probably just cowards jealous of your life.

your poor wife, she must be so confused right now, as you must be too. Hope everything works out ok for you.

Are you tempted to reply to this person and ask WTF?

Originally Posted by Kate Moss

Are you tempted to reply to this person and ask WTF?

Interesting idea! Maybe ask some questions that only a person in said position could passably know?

Very, but then that shows you are rattled and then I guess more would follow.

I feel like I am guilty of something I have never done and am running around trying to prove my innocence which is ridiculous, but what else can I do?

Originally Posted by krhall

Very, but then that shows you are rattled and then I guess more would follow.

I feel like I am guilty of something I have never done and am running around trying to prove my innocence which is ridiculous, but what else can I do?

Or what would work is if you reply with something that shoes that neither you or your wife are bothered. That may make them feel a little pathetic!
Something like - "ha very funny"
Then they would see that no amount of lies via facebook can wreck what you have with your wife (even if it has caused a few issues) - they don't need to know that!

[Mr Speirs]

Originally Posted by krhall

but what else can I do?

Why don't you go home and be with your wife?

[Dave20046]

Originally Posted by Kate Moss

Or what would work is if you reply with something that shoes that neither you or your wife are bothered. That may make them feel a little pathetic!
Something like - "ha very funny"
Then they would see that no amount of lies via facebook can wreck what you have with your wife (even if it has caused a few issues) - they don't need to know that!

Sounds the best option.

[Mej]

Originally Posted by krhall

Very, but then that shows you are rattled and then I guess more would follow.

I feel like I am guilty of something I have never done and am running around trying to prove my innocence which is ridiculous, but what else can I do?

do not let them know it is getting to you or they will continue, just ignore it and hopefully all will be forgotton soon enough

Originally Posted by J2UK

do not let them know it is getting to you or they will continue, just ignore it and hopefully all will be forgotton soon enough

on the other hand they may think hang on that didnt work lets try something crueler, something to really get noticed.

catch 22

Originally Posted by keithd

on the other hand they may think hang on that didnt work lets try something crueler, something to really get noticed.

catch 22

what else could they do though? If this person only has access to his wife via facebook there is only so much they could do.

Just ban the person. You can block contacts. that way they wont be able to see any of your personal info which they could use to create lies.