If anybody has nothing to do this weekend...

Originally Posted by tricky

I like the "sparkle song"

Yep, tis very catchy

I thought the song was a bit crap meself.
I had a good day, some cool political stuff and valuble medical advice.
The night not so good, got sworn at a few times, threatened and spat at...

Originally Posted by Razor

I thought the song was a bit crap meself.
I had a good day, some cool political stuff and valuble medical advice.
The night not so good, got sworn at a few times, threatened and spat at...

Not nice to hear about things like that...always proves the point that although we live in a liberal society, some people are less tolerant than others

[Spiderman]

Originally Posted by Jdubya

Not nice to hear about things like that...always proves the point that although we live in a liberal society, some people are less tolerant than others

Yeh, i agree with that.

My attitude is each to their own and it amazes me when people are so negative towards people who aint just like they are. Even to the smallest scales. I dont care about footy, in fact this is the only time i give a **** about it at all, world cup time. But the rest of the time if i get into a converstaion and admit i dont watch it some peeps will make a really ****ty comment like "Wot, you gay or sumthin?" Err, no the idea of being bored watching 22 over paid and under educated MEN kicking a ball about for 90 mins clearly dont turn me on as much as it does you. Whos gay?

Our friday night Soho meet often encounters many cross dressers but i have yet to see any of our lot be really intolerant towards them. OK, sometimes they will get blanked by some if they ask to sit on a bike or something, but why would anyone want to spit at you?
Some people got problems with alternative liestyles i guess. Maybe they should look at thier own lifestyle before judging someone elses.

As I said, I'm a simple little soul, and though it may be a bit naive, I do honestly believe in treating people as you would wish to be treated.
I mean, if I didn't like what someone was wearing I'd be honest if they asked my opinion. But spitting, that's just icky.

At least you had a good time for some of the weekend.

Some people just devalue the airspace they occupy, so the best you can do is breath deeply and try to deprive them of as much oxygen as you can!

Originally Posted by Razor

The night not so good, got sworn at a few times, threatened and spat at...

And that was just from the TG crowd (take that... biiiitch!) .


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and would you believe i didn't take my camera out once...

I can't help it I feel kinda fat at the moment

Ahhhhhhhh. Thats why you were taking all those feminising drugs. I always thought you were an ordinary girl. On HRT or something. I dunno. I'm slow apparantly.

One of the lads I hang around with from time to time is on hormones, he still calls himself a guy, but, he sort of has boobs now, and, wairs dresses when we go out in NYC, but only the city. He passes almost always I think. He is only into girls though. So... yeah. Its, a tricky one.

He wants to get the op, get the whole thing done. We were sort of trying to talk him out of it. I dont know, I suppose I feel like that, its risky, and potentially really going to damage you. But, I am not TG, neither are any of the rest of us, so our opinions just dont really count. I would imagine it hurts like the dickens.

What do you think about the whole... em, cutting the old boy off and posting him inside situation?

Oh yeah. WRT people spitting and saying things at you, I would rate it on the same level as people hissing Paki, spic, nigger etc at people. Just off the scale BNP levels of pig ignorance. I dunno why that stuff ****es me off so much. I got it a bit when I was really young and I would visit London, and it scared me. I dunno. Its wrong.
Although, now that I think about it, its more or less the same thing as someone saying, "I'm a bit simple", really loudly, in front of their mates.

Originally Posted by philipMac

He wants to get the op, get the whole thing done.

What do you think about the whole... em, cutting the old boy off and posting him inside situation?

If she wants the op is completely different from needs the op?
To be completely Transsexual there is an over whelming need to change your body to fit with your internal gender identity. It becomes an obsession, you can't think of anything else and need to take steps to move into your true gender or at least modify yourself so that you feel more comfortable within...
If she's on hormones that's good because soon the sex drive decreases to such a level that most transvestic fetishism is revealed for what it really is.
That only helps people to make decisions.
I had a friend of mine tell me last night that they were only transitioning because of a serious shoe fetish! The only problem being was that she wears UK10 and most Manolo's only go up to UK7. So now she thinks that she should stop and go back to being male...

I've had one firend that had the operation and then changed his mind but hey ho we all make mistakes sometimes. As long as she's doing it for the right reasons, then she'll be fine.

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Originally Posted by Razor

If she wants the op is completely different from needs the op?

Nope. He. Thats why I said

he still calls himself a guy,

I met him as a girl, in the city, and I got it into my head he was a girl, but, he is not, apparantly, at this point in time. And, has corrected me.

Interesting point re fetishes though, and the hormonal ctrl of sex drive.